Is This True: Female Friends Are Useless

[Jayson_bourn]

I had a female friend that I used to go to bars with on the weekends. Sometimes she'd bring her friends and I'd bring a few of mine , either way it was a good look all around.


Was she type I could call to borrow money ? Nope. But I wouldn't lend her a dime either .

Strip clubs are fun with female acquaintances too

 

[InDePickWest]

Go gay then. I also think men that only want women for sex whilst talking about how useless they are w/o the puss are on the verge of diving in the man pond.

 

[Lana Kane]

My best friend is a guy and we're doing fine. We're each others' complete opposite so it works

 

[infamousred]

the one and only platonic female friend i had, i should've fukked. if i'm not trying to fukk them, or trying to hook up with their friends, i usually don't waste my time. i just don't feel like hearing about their problems. besides, anytime i got drunk with them something always ended up happening.

 

[HoloGraphic]

You're 100% right. I think I worded things a little poorly there. Friends aren't tools

If they WON'T help you, they are not your friend. If they go out of their way for you, that's a friend.

I saw some meme saying, "Alot of your friends are secretly haters"
And this girl I met at temporary work, who I decided to keep as a friend, told me "Don't tell people your business, because they may be wishing you failure" or something like that.

Summed up what I've been going through with people the last few years.
Friends, definitely need a certain distance to be effective. Far enough so no one is relying on each other, but with enough mutual ground for activities.

The word "friend" is very controversial, friends.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

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[LezJepzin]

I had a female friend that I used to go to bars with on the weekends. Sometimes she'd bring her friends and I'd bring a few of mine , either way it was a good look all around.


Was she type I could call to borrow money ? Nope. But I wouldn't lend her a dime either .

Strip clubs are fun with female acquaintances too

This . But OP is 75% right though. Female friends are totally different than my male friends . I have some, but I don't hang out with them as much as my male friends. And that's not because I can't fukk them. They don't offer that much to the table. Do you have girlfriends you can introduce me to like the guy friends you got to meet from me? Would you have my back in a fight? Would you help me out if I need to borrow money? Are you not that critical? Alright then.

 

[PartyHeart]

Cool story.

If that's the case super straight male coli posters should continue to have physical intimacy with women and reserve emotional intimacy/connection for other men

 

[Takerstani]

Lies. Especially the bringing your car back with more gas part. Pure