Why are nikkas egos so important?
nikka's egos are important because nikkas learn from a tender age that they ain't shyt. Not until they can get money/influence, get a house, get a car and get at least one bad *^%#%. So the lesson is: "Stack up successes if you wanna mean anything as a man. Otherwise you're weak, just like all the men who have died without even becoming a minor footnote in history". Which means that any failure becomes a point of contention and very very personal.
Ego is man's downfall. Success is meaningless if it's done for the acceptance/admiration of others, bagging a "bad bytch" is no different. U have a lot of nikkas talkin about 'man when i get this paper the bytches gonna be on me.' Then its 'man when i get this spot the bytches gonna be one me'. Then its something else, a car, clothes, whatever. The flock of women never materializes cause the dude never builds his confidence. Or they come but he cant hold their interest or has to trick off cause hes just a lame with stuff.
Failure is good. Failure is an opportunity to learn n improve. I dont think anybody should be shielded from it. If u too weak to fail u dont deserve to succeed
Dudes are so frail these days, its disgusting.