This is why u should find a woman (or man for bruhettes) who is willing to grow with u and build with u. Can't be with a person who is lazy, complacent, and not trying to improve. Life is about learning and achieving milestones and maturing. If u notice ur partner is upgrading and doing better whether its career wise, looks, losing weight, maturing, establishing stability, etc. then u should be learning from them and trying to help out and upgrade urself along with ur partner. If u have to upgrade ur spouse...then u must didn't choose wisely or didn't truly know and learn ur partner during the dating stages.
Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?
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Yaboysix
That nikka
realest shyt in the thread...
nikkas gettin money today but you could lose all this shyt tomorrow
even if you a boss, you could still lose it all tomorrow
and the nikkas that aint doin it right..soon as the shyt go south ,there goes that trophy wife that came with it.gone to the next baller. lmao.
the bossman
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you think these trophy wives are into a nikka at all because he's cute?
you think if that paper EVER disappears, that trophy wife gonna stick with you because you "genuinely attractive? "
one of my former bosses was your prototypical former fratboy CAC who climbed up the corporate ladder and made partner status at one of the big accounting firms so he was probably pulling in 300-500k/yr. His wife was the prototypical Jessica Alba lookin airhead. They had a big ass house here in the DMV. 6br/3 car garage. boat in the backyard, etc. He left the firm then joined a tech company and hired me. We made a lot of money in a short period of time, but the owner pulled some shady shyt and kicked him out before filing bankruptcy and screwing the rest of us.
Anyway, dude decided he was tired of working for other people and wanted to start his own thing and as anybody knows, the first few years of business are always the hardest part because of how little profit you make and how much you have to invest & sacrifice. Him and his wife had to start making some cutbacks in their lifestyle. first the boat, then some of the cars, less vacations, less going out to eat, etc. Next thing I know breh called me up a year later to hang out and have some drinks. He looked like he hadn't shaved in weeks and packed on at least 30lbs. He was telling me how she filed for divorce and took their daughter with her.
Bbbbbb-but at least he was genuinely attractive
.Go get your trophy wife breh
thewarrior05
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u trolling right
Woman of god
Banned
No, put ur family and friends on when you get on. Group economics
thewarrior05
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OK I get u now.... U mean the guy it dating at the time u upgrade him right
They're basically saying we gotta deal with an ugly/avg down chick, or a beautiful thot, but then expect the guys they want(6 pack, 6 cert, 6 figs) to be faithful
. Never in my life have I heard a woman say she wants an average guy.#GMB
Grass aint always greenern
I agree. Thats why i tell dudes on the come up to stay single and enjoy ya fun casually. Itll save u the headache
Woman of god
Banned
I can't even decipher the meaning of what u wrote
SalamiAttack
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thewarrior05
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Im sorry spell check changed my words.... I meant if u were dating someone at the time and u move up in status.... U would help them move up too
BrokePhiBroke
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That wasn't what I was implying at all.They're basically saying we gotta deal with an ugly/avg down chick, or a beautiful thot, but then expect the guys they want(6 pack, 6 cert, 6 figs) to be faithful
#GMB
Y'all act like BOTH doesn't exist.
There are tons of beautiful women who have great personalities and aren't bogey-woman.
From what I perceived from @Larry Lambo post tho is that he doesn't care as long as she's attractive hence his statement stating "but if it's generally attractive dudes with a dime broad, I think can work." We were on the topic of trophy wives.
I'm the last person that think anybody should be with someone unattractive to them because they're "nice" or "good people" you're doing yourself and body a disservice.
Sorry @Larry Lambo if my perception was wrong.
Woman of god
Banned
Yes, if that person had been there for me when I was still coming up i would be there for them in return. Even if we weren't romantically involved anymore. Derrick rose for example isn't even with his ex gf anymore and he helped her get her clothing line up. LeBron has his home boys as managers of whatever. Beyonce got her cousin as VP of whatever entertainment company she has. That's how it's supposed to go
BrokePhiBroke
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The boldedThey're basically saying we gotta deal with an ugly/avg down chick, or a beautiful thot, but then expect the guys they want(6 pack, 6 cert, 6 figs) to be faithful
#GMB
Sorry you've only spoken to delusional broads.
I like men who looks nice to me. Usually they are average men. Regular degular guys who get up go to work, look like men, and have some integrity about them.
All that other shyt is for show.
What good is the man with all that is he can't be good to me?
Cook.