Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?
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Mars Blackmon
Pro
This is the blueprint for most of the cacs in my line of work, especially the ones hitting that midlife crisis stage.They say you can outgrow a person and/or relationship.
Dwayne Wade did.
"From fishsticks to the Oceanaire"
Let's say youre young and broke and you meet a decent chick that works at TJ Maxx. Ya'll date for 3 or 4 years. Now you're make 6 figures, have a 6 pack, 6 certs and been eyeing that new 6 series grand coupe'. Your girl is a 6, but now you got 7s and 8s on your jock.
Is it time to upgrade your whole life?
Can you really be driving this
And your girl driving this?
How you gon look jumpstarting her car in the TJMaxx parking lot
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
During slavery days, the entire point of blue ribbon balls was selling black women to white men as starter wives until the men married their cac upgrades.nuttin but cold hearted nikkas on the coli. The nikka said starter wife.
And the same thing happened with Native women sold as starter wives to white men until the mail order cac women were offloaded off the ships.
Nikkas talking starter wives aren't about outgrowing anyone. They just see women as accessories, not the helpmates the Bible discusses. The imitation of the cacs who raped our foremothers makes this line of thinking doubly degrading.
But whatever. c00ns gonna c00n, and beta males remain beta no matter how many accessories they accumulate.
street heat
merchant of death
men and women do this all the time.......
"wait til i get my money right"
"wait til i get my money right"
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
You messed up by getting married. Never get married.
ultraflexed
Superstar
Women can't win.
We hold you down from the beginning we're part of the struggle and nikkas wanna upgrade.
We get you after the accomplishments and we're either gold digging or trophy wives.
Clearly a man will never love us for us according to The Coli. It doesn't matter what we do for him because he'll eventually leave us for a "prettier" version of ourselves.
the more I'm on here, the more I have no problem with women who take y'all for everything y'all have. She mines well since a man gonna upgrade on her.
Most of the guys that believe in this will learn the hard way. Paying child support and taken for half their fortune for a girls with no real career , skills or talent. They'll become another GMB....which of been avoided if they CBB
The best thing for you to do is stay far away from guys with this minset.
If she's loyal as fukk, then it's hard to throw that in the bushes. Just get yourself some side and make sure she doesn't get embarassed.
However, if she isn't loyal as fukk, then go right ahead and throw that bytch in the bushes and upgrade.
If you're an attractive woman, then you're already winning. You just told on yourself
Not that we didn't know that already, any woman that spends a lot of time on a message board is gonna be fat or ugly.
However, if she isn't loyal as fukk, then go right ahead and throw that bytch in the bushes and upgrade.
Women can't win.
We hold you down from the beginning we're part of the struggle and nikkas wanna upgrade.
We get you after the accomplishments and we're either gold digging or trophy wives.
Clearly a man will never love us for us according to The Coli. It doesn't matter what we do for him because he'll eventually leave us for a "prettier" version of ourselves.
If you're an attractive woman, then you're already winning. You just told on yourself
Not that we didn't know that already, any woman that spends a lot of time on a message board is gonna be fat or ugly.
Support your husband / boyfriend through hell only for him to dump you once he made it brehettes.
RadaMillz
Superstar
My day1 will always have my heart, she been with a nygga from the start, eating noodles and gas station pizza. So if I come up, she comes up. I reward loyalty but she will have to acknowledge I ain't average no more, I got a whole new market welcoming me with a red carpet. If she's smart she will shut up and eat while Rad does his thing 
Cat Lady ☆
Feral
Nevermind. 
If you think you'll be happier with a 7 or 8 as your wife just because she's a 7 or an 8, rather than the 6 you already have.... Millions of men have made that mistake before.
Your girl's looks barely have shyt to do with you being happy in marriage. It's just for showing off to other guys. A 6 that you're really in love with on a relational level is going to look like a 9 or a 10 to you anyway. On a day to day basis, there is a hell of a lot of shyt that matters a lot more than looks, and a lot of that comes from the life the two of you built together before you took off. I bet anything there are more shytty unhappy marriages to good-looking women than there are to average women, because those good-looking girls get you to overlook all the other warning signs until it's too late.
Your girl's looks barely have shyt to do with you being happy in marriage. It's just for showing off to other guys. A 6 that you're really in love with on a relational level is going to look like a 9 or a 10 to you anyway. On a day to day basis, there is a hell of a lot of shyt that matters a lot more than looks, and a lot of that comes from the life the two of you built together before you took off. I bet anything there are more shytty unhappy marriages to good-looking women than there are to average women, because those good-looking girls get you to overlook all the other warning signs until it's too late.
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CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
Can't believe this is actually a thread
Wait, yes I can.
Wait, yes I can.
If she's loyal as fukk, then it's hard to throw that in the bushes. Just get yourself some side and make sure she doesn't get embarassed.
However, if she isn't loyal as fukk, then go right ahead and throw that bytch in the bushes and upgrade.
If you're an attractive woman, then you're already winning. You just told on yourself
Not that we didn't know that already, any woman that spends a lot of time on a message board is gonna be fat or ugly.
So you'd be cool with your women getting some side dikk if you've been loyal to her when she had nothing as long as she doesn't embarrass you?
Would you bucket head nikkas be cool with being some woman's starter husband? :udgoraw: :yadontsay:
Ain't yall the same gang of nikkas crying about Western women not being loyal?
Sometimes I really wonder why I post here
Ain't yall the same gang of nikkas crying about Western women not being loyal?
Sometimes I really wonder why I post here
#GMB