Is it ok to get a lil starter girlfriend or wife, then upgrade once you career takes off?

[ill_will82]

You should be single if you're referring to people like they're inanimate unemotional objects, can't imagine it would feel good if a girl told me I was her starter dude

You should be shooting A1 everytime and only upgrading when your current ain't treating you right

Hit the nail on the got damn head.

 

[The Fade]

Not justifying shyt but they do the same thing to us

Everyone should just stop glorifying scandalous shyt, it's getting annoying now

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

That's how Its always been literally

So they DESERVE these things?



If so, what are the rest of us "averages" to do...

 

[DjBhaled]

So they DESERVE these things?



If so, what are the rest of us "averages" to do...

People will criticize you if you are deemed attractive dating a ugly person maybe not to your face but it's always going to be that damn how did such and such get such and such thought floating around rich men use their money as a cheat code ugly women use their "loyalty" as a means to convince a man to stay in the end most of us will end up unhappy because somebody going feel like they getting the short end of the deal :jussaying:

 

[Larry Lambo]

That's how Its always been literally

The tradeoff of beauty vs. resources has been a fundamental aspect of mating for time immemorial.

We just live in a society that some women are able to acquire resources at nearly the same level of difficulty as men, and that dynamic has been flipped for a portion of the population.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Personally, if they don't support u at ur worst, they don't deserve u at ur best.
And that goes for friends, family, relationships etc.

If ur dumb enuff to disregard realness while surrounding urself with a bunch of snakes in the grass, u can't complain about anybody.

The irony is that the biggest a$$holes are also the biggest whiners. Most didn't want a good relationship, they were just mad at being rejected and not getting an opportunity to shyt on somebody else. Lmao! And as always that goes for male or females. Appreciate those who appreciate u. But I know people not gonna take that advice b/c like I said before a lot of people aren't dating for love. Rather some of ya'll got something to prove. Ur self-esteem is low so you fantasize about the day when u can "show" that dude in high school or that chick on the band that he/she should've chose u.
U really trying to date ur way out of the hate and insecurity u feel about urself.
Don't settle but don't think quality can be bought either.

 

[DjBhaled]

The tradeoff of beauty vs. resources has been a fundamental aspect of mating for time immemorial.

We just live in a society that women are able to acquire resources at nearly the same level of difficulty as men, and that dynamic has been flipped for a portion of the population.

Even in the first major civilizations women would be forced to marry certain men for their wealth their parents would forbid them from falling for a broke man they was trying to cash them hoes in like a pick 5 lotto scratcher the man who she would marry would have to pay a dowry to the brides family to secure the rights of marriage this shyt has always been a thing it's just nowadays people confuse marriage with love when it's really a business tactic to combine resources properly people let all this programming get to their heads and that's why nikkas going keep taking L's until they wake up

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Even in the first major civilizations women would be forced to marry certain men for their wealth their parents would forbid them from falling for a broke man they was trying to cash them hoes in like a pick 5 lotto scratcher the man who she would marry would have to pay a dowry to the brides family to secure the rights of marriage this shyt has always been a thing it's just nowadays people confuse marriage with love when it's really a business tactic to combine resources properly people let all this programming get to their heads and that's why nikkas going keep taking L's until they wake up

Ok so people should only get married to combine finances?

Don't worry about love?

Just cohabitant together and have kids? That's it. Barely fukking like or desire their spouse?


Make me understand.

I will agree that most of us won't be happy because we're always looking for the next best thing.

 

[DjBhaled]

Ok so people should only get married to combine finances?

Don't worry about love?

Just cohabitant together and have kids? That's it. Barely fukking like or desire their spouse?


Make me understand.

I will agree that most of us won't be happy because we're always looking for the next best thing.

Most people are not capable of actually forming a spiritual connection since I don't believe in religions I am heavily spiritual and I feel sex and love are really just terms we use to describe the euphoria of our spirits intertwining it's a reason why thots who fukk around never truly love a man for him it's because they have a warped reality of what a connection is that's the only reason why I say love is a farfetched idea thrown out by those who don't really understand the process just because somebody looks good don't mean they got your best interest at heart what you mistake for chemistry is nothing more than chemicals reacting in your body real love is spiritual which is why you share DNA with your parents that shyt is hardwired in you and that's why even if you don't fukk with your parents your always going to have some kind of emotional reaction towards them

 

[Larry Lambo]

Even in the first major civilizations women would be forced to marry certain men for their wealth their parents would forbid them from falling for a broke man they was trying to cash them hoes in like a pick 5 lotto scratcher the man who she would marry would have to pay a dowry to the brides family to secure the rights of marriage this shyt has always been a thing it's just nowadays people confuse marriage with love when it's really a business tactic to combine resources properly people let all this programming get to their heads and that's why nikkas going keep taking L's until they wake up

Facts. I've never complained about beautiful women going after successful men. It's part of societal progress. Now if she's willing to accept to be a wealthy man's jumpoff with nothing in return, that's a different story. But if she legitimately has a wealthy man actually "courting" her then I'm behind her 100%. Get that baller. To the victors go the spoils.

Problem with today's society is we have women throwing themselves at rich men, and not requiring him to put in any effort (knowing or assuming he won't). It's one thing to hope and put yourself in position to be chose by a baller. It's another thing to offer the P no-strings-attached and then be salty when he pumps and dumps you.

 

[southern.girl]

So your plan is to purposely get with a women you only know is with you for your money?

I mean thats fine, but then there will be a thread a week from now about how much you hate gold diggers.

Clearly, men don't really hate gold diggers. They just despise the diggers that they can't afford.

 

[DjBhaled]

Facts. I've never complained about beautiful women going after successful men. It's part of societal progress. Now if she's willing to accept to be a wealthy man's jumpoff with nothing in return, that's a different story. But if she legitimately has a wealthy man actually "courting" her then I'm behind her 100%. Get that baller. To the victors go the spoils.

Problem with today's society is we have women throwing themselves at rich men, and not requiring him to put in any effort (knowing or assuming he won't). It's one thing to hope and put yourself in position to be chose by a baller. It's another thing to offer the P no-strings-attached and then be salty when he pumps and dumps you.

Women are attracted to the lure of a man who can improve her lifestyle while men are attracted to the lure of a docile submissive women

 

[DjBhaled]

Clearly, men don't really hate gold diggers. They just despise the diggers that they can't afford.

People hate the fact they can't have certain things others possess until the day they can actually acquire those things

 

[King Poetic]

Why the hussle while u can be single like

Then when u hit 35 to 41 have your pockets set and ready to settle then u can relax with that one special chick

 

[Draje]

Yes. It's fine. We just eat a lil appetizer until we can afford the filet mignon.

I'd give my day 1 some money and a option to stay with me while I fukk all the bad bytches I've always wanted.

So you'd be cool if your day 1 gave you some money, hopped on various entertainer/athlete dikks that she's always wanted, and gave you an option to stay