Is it me or what? New Jersey rant!!!!

Amerikan Melanin

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I got family in Teaneck. Small world. Great town to live in especially if you need to hit the city.

@young_simba85 Im in Princeton also. But I’m :flabbynsick:with a family and house.

However I can tell you how I won living in Nj.

#1 you gotta have a car.
#2 you gotta have confidence to cold approach at any given moment.
#3 you gotta have your own crib even if it’s a studio
#4 try to avoid all NJ clubs and the bar scenes they are worthless
#5 take advantage of social media
#6 always good to have girl “friends”
#7 if you have a wingman he has to be on his A game don’t roll with someone just for the company.
#8 it’s easier to move alone out here.
#9 remember single attractive black men are a commodity
#10 overdressed is better than underdressed

Ok so NJ is a big ass state that acts like a small city. There are no central places where people go an party everything is spread out. You gotta hit that highway and meet people.

Take up a hobby or join a group you are serious about.

At the gym which you should be going you gotta open your mouth and talk to people, guys and girls. They may hip you to events and BBq’s And you want to go to as many bbq’s and house parties as possible.

You are in college at Princeton? You will eat at rider university and Rutgers. Go pop your collar. You are a commodity.

Cold approach! Grocery store! Shopping malls. There are dymes galore. Drop your number and keep moving.

There are a lot of concerts at the difference PAC centers. Go! They always have chicks at the R&B and comedy joints.

Import! Go across that bridge and let those NYC hoes know you stay in NJ and they can come chill for the weekend:myman:. Trust me they look at that shyt like a vacation and you will stay knee deep in weekend p*ssy.

Social media. You are in central NJ so you can talk to hoes from NYC NJ and PA. Eat!

You have to be proactive in NJ. If you just at home in the books ordering takeout you gonna starve.

Find black social groups online or party promoters that do upscale functions and go to those. They usually weed out the chicken heads. The All White Sky Xperience Meadowlands Race Track "Caballo Blanco" used to have some quality women. Better yet start your own event especially if you are in Princeton.

There are plenty of black upwardly mobile people in this area getting that paper. Single women too. All these pharma and financial campuses and hospitals. Take advantage.

Pm me if you need anything though. :salute:
 

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I got family in Teaneck. Small world. Great town to live in especially if you need to hit the city.

@young_simba85 Im in Princeton also. But I’m :flabbynsick:with a family and house.

However I can tell you how I won living in Nj.

#1 you gotta have a car.
#2 you gotta have confidence to cold approach at any given moment.
#3 you gotta have your own crib even if it’s a studio
#4 try to avoid all NJ clubs and the bar scenes they are worthless
#5 take advantage of social media
#6 always good to have girl “friends”
#7 if you have a wingman he has to be on his A game don’t roll with someone just for the company.
#8 it’s easier to move alone out here.
#9 remember single attractive black men are a commodity
#10 overdressed is better than underdressed

Ok so NJ is a big ass state that acts like a small city. There are no central places where people go an party everything is spread out. You gotta hit that highway and meet people.

Take up a hobby or join a group you are serious about.

At the gym which you should be going you gotta open your mouth and talk to people, guys and girls. They may hip you to events and BBq’s And you want to go to as many bbq’s and house parties as possible.

You are in college at Princeton? You will eat at rider university and Rutgers. Go pop your collar. You are a commodity.

Cold approach! Grocery store! Shopping malls. There are dymes galore. Drop your number and keep moving.

There are a lot of concerts at the difference PAC centers. Go! They always have chicks at the R&B and comedy joints.

Import! Go across that bridge and let those NYC hoes know you stay in NJ and they can come chill for the weekend:myman:. Trust me they look at that shyt like a vacation and you will stay knee deep in weekend p*ssy.

Social media. You are in central NJ so you can talk to hoes from NYC NJ and PA. Eat!

You have to be proactive in NJ. If you just at home in the books ordering takeout you gonna starve.

Find black social groups online or party promoters that do upscale functions and go to those. They usually weed out the chicken heads.
 
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I notice a lot of black njans moving to Maryland (outside the usual suspects of Florida Georgia and North Carolina )
 
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