Is it cheating if you're on break???

Chelsea Bridge

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I just want to be clear and say, I don't know about him but I'm not having sex with other guys until he officially breaks up with me. I would feel nasty letting some other guy hit with a possibility lingering that me and my bf could get back together.

Why do you want to date so soon after the break happened? Do you have feelings for him?

I couldn't imagine even having the desire to see someone else if I were in that situation but I love my boyfriend so maybe that's why.
 

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Why do you want to date so soon after the break happened? Do you have feelings for him?

I couldn't imagine even having the desire to see someone else if I were in that situation but I love my boyfriend so maybe that's why.
I like him but it just seems weird that he wants a break over something I couldn't control...
 

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I like him but it just seems weird that he wants a break over something I couldn't control...

Since I dont know all the details of what caused the break, I can only say that if you start dating other men immediately after, he may see that you dont care and decide to make the break a permanent one. If you want to be with him then you're going to have to show him that, not use this as an opportunity to see what other options you have.
 

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Since I dont know all the details of what caused the break, I can only say that if you start dating other men immediately after, he may see think that you dont care and decide to make the break a permanent one. If you want to be with him then you're going to have up show him that, not use this as an opportunity to see what other options you have.
I just hate waiting :wow: I'm impatient and impulsive. Plus what if he's out there dating other girls??? Should I just sit around and wait until he gets his fill?
 

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you two aren't together anymore he isn't your boyfriend come back to the black side. :blessed:
 

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I just hate waiting :wow: I'm impatient and impulsive. Plus what if he's out there dating other girls??? Should I just sit around and wait until he gets his fill?

If you think he's doing that then you might as well make the break permanent.
 
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he gave that p*ssy a pass.
that's on that nikka.
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No I legit had a stalker and had to call the police on his ass. I have an older guy so he didn't want to put up with that kind of drama and I understand. I'm just saying can we date other people. I don't want to be surprised if he's out with another girl just like I don't want him to be surprised that I'm dating other guys.

Dude took a break cause he felt like his life is at risk and you talkin bout goin on dates and gettin some d:wtb:...yes go date other people cuz it obviously ain't that serious,you don't care about his concerns and he don't care if you die alone:heh:...tell the next guy up front so he can decide if he wanna possibly end up like Ron Goldman or not...stay strapped by the way in all seriousness if its that serious.

And to you chicks who love braggin about "yeah a lot of my ex dudes is stalkers:usure:"...when in reality them nikkas ain't thinkin bout u know more...please stop using the word "stalker" so loosely so real situations like this one can be taken seriously again..
 
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