Is it a man's responsibility to initiate dates w/ gf

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I don't. With this guy, whoever suggests going out -- picks where we are going and pays. We take turns. I rarely let him pay for me because it's a pride thing but I'm down for whatever. I don't have time to wait for him to make a decision.
 

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post pics so we can decided if you need to throw her in the bushes:stopitslime:

I ain't trying to toss her in the bushes. First dates are wack, and getting to know girls on a personal level is some bullshyt. I ain't about that life. When you got a girl and other girls know it, they expect nothing and don't get attached :ahh:.

Back in my cheating days, I had a side piece for damn near a year and she never knew where I lived or even my real phone number.
 

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:heh: A relationship where only one party is making suggestions on things to do or places to go?


Naw..im good on that.
 

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Same thing I'm wondering. Some men are just effeminate and secretly want to be women. They complain about women being independent, but want women to lead them at the same time :what:

As a man if you find yourself saying to your woman.

"how come you never take me out" mmmmmmmmm i dunno i think some dynamics need to be improved.
 

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The more threads you nikkas make, the more I realize most you cats wish you were women.
Why do you want to be treated like the woman in the relationship?
It's the man's responsibility.

some of yall confused.... !t a!nt the man "resonsibility" to do sh!t & n!ggas l!ke me not car!n a!nt be!n a woman... closed mouth dont get fed, s!mple as that... me & w!fey a!nt go on a "real" date for months, almost a year cause she wanna wa!t for me to "ask her out"... ch!cks can let you h!t raw but cant ask you to take em to a mov!e cause !ts the mans job.... lol.... get real...
 

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some of yall confused.... !t a!nt the man "resonsibility" to do sh!t & n!ggas l!ke me not car!n a!nt be!n a woman... closed mouth dont get fed, s!mple as that... me & w!fey a!nt go on a "real" date for months, almost a year cause she wanna wa!t for me to "ask her out"... ch!cks can let you h!t raw but cant ask you to take em to a mov!e cause !ts the mans job.... lol.... get real...

You 2 have a bizarre relationship. Why not just go out somewhere without power struggling and playing games. :yeshrug:
 

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some of yall confused.... !t a!nt the man "resonsibility" to do sh!t & n!ggas l!ke me not car!n a!nt be!n a woman... closed mouth dont get fed, s!mple as that... me & w!fey a!nt go on a "real" date for months, almost a year cause she wanna wa!t for me to "ask her out"... ch!cks can let you h!t raw but cant ask you to take em to a mov!e cause !ts the mans job.... lol.... get real...

like I said, the more you nikkas post, the more I realize you nikkas are extremely effeminate.
 

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You 2 have a bizarre relationship. Why not just go out somewhere without power struggling and playing games. :yeshrug:

!t a!nt that, when she wants to do someth!n she always wants me to dec!de for her.... id come to her house w!t dvds, wed watch movies & do our thang... ! was cool but she wanted to go to a theatre but never ment!oned !t.. once she d!d, we went... !t was that s!mple... shes chef mater!al & can cook sh!t ! never heard of tell!n me to dec!de d!nner, really.... we go out a lot now cause she knows !m cool w!t ch!ll!n at home so shell br!ng up other stuff & ! be l!ke lets do !t...
 
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