so tru man.
and then they have the audacity to wonder why they end up in those situations. after we just tried to school them
Is a woman responsible for anything nowadays?
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so tru man.
and then they have the audacity to wonder why they end up in those situations. after we just tried to school them
Im confused.
A group of loud mouth ignorant woman sitting and discussing the idea that there are no good black men. Same woman pass up on the good, average looking brother who may ride the bus, for a nikka who is a womanizer and has alot of nice things. We all know a man taken is more desirable to you women then a man not seen with many women. Ever stop to think that maybe the reason u cant find a good man is because u may not be a good woman? The good men are out lookin for the good woman, if this is a constant problem your facing, then its probably YOU.
A woman gets in a mans face, actin reckless, turns a simple disagreement into a physical altercation, she cusses him and purposely pushes his buttons by same some below the belt off the wall sh!t...and eventually puts hands on him, gets knocked out and says "i cant believe you hit me" and he gets labelled a woman beater
Woman starts actin like her puzzy is golden and starts to use it as a means of controlling a man to thinking sex is used as a mans reward. she turns it into something that is given as opposed to somethin that is mutually shared and enjoyed by both people. Then she gets upset when a man steps out to fulfill that need that is supposed to be fulfilled by his partner and vice versa.
Woman expects chivalry but let a man expect her to be in the kitchen and all of a sudden hes sexist and living in the past. If your going to look at me to go outside and find out where that suspicious noise is comin from and put my life on the line, and pay when we go out, and open doors etc, then when my belly get to rumbling why cant i look at you to fix that? Ten you wonder why many men dont practice chivalry
Woman marries a wealthy man, has his kids, the whole 9. She files for divorce, she has her own money but is demanding spousal support amd taking him back to court to get more money (eg. Kelis getting nas to pay $55,000 a month, even though shes an entertainer and has her own money. What kid needs 55,000 a month?) or when in some cases SHE cheats on him, and still takes him to court for more money...then they wonder why men think woman esp black woman are gold diggers...and thus are terrified of marriage and prefer to jus play the field
What about when a woman gets pregnant and the man ends up believeing the baby is his..pays child support, gets emotionally attatched only to find out later on that the child wasnt his. The courts still order him to pay child support because he's all the kid knows. And u wonder why we may have doubts and want a paternity test?
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thats a new one
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DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
I know this is a spin off from CTK's thread but honestly, it seems like more of you need to
(a) Evaluate what kind of chicks you talk to
(b) Evaluate what you actually deserve
If a good portion of the women you deal with won't cook for you, remind you that they are "strong and independent", get in your face and yell at you, has low enough character to take from you when she has her own, etc. that signals a problem with yourself as well. It means you are in above your head and the people you deal with think they are better than you.
In your opening paragraph you state that women can't find a good man because they aren't worth it. Don't you think that's the same reason why you all can't find such? Maybe you are not worth it to the kind of women you are going after. Like I said in that other thread last week, people need to kill their egos. I think men have the biggest problem with this. Many of you are not anywhere near the best, but that's what you expect from other people. If you aren't in that top percentage of men that women are going after, that you call "womanizers", if you are average, you need to get yourself and average or below average woman and chill back.
(a) Evaluate what kind of chicks you talk to
(b) Evaluate what you actually deserve
If a good portion of the women you deal with won't cook for you, remind you that they are "strong and independent", get in your face and yell at you, has low enough character to take from you when she has her own, etc. that signals a problem with yourself as well. It means you are in above your head and the people you deal with think they are better than you.
In your opening paragraph you state that women can't find a good man because they aren't worth it. Don't you think that's the same reason why you all can't find such? Maybe you are not worth it to the kind of women you are going after. Like I said in that other thread last week, people need to kill their egos. I think men have the biggest problem with this. Many of you are not anywhere near the best, but that's what you expect from other people. If you aren't in that top percentage of men that women are going after, that you call "womanizers", if you are average, you need to get yourself and average or below average woman and chill back.
Mr. Somebody
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Women who are possessed by demons are put through punishment by the choices they make on behalf of the demon inside of them. Dont expect much from a woman who makes bad choices. Sometimes, even women of God treat good men like trash.
Sadly, i think alot of issues men have with women stem from being too nice and not being fair. Many men praise women when they should scold them and give them a pass when they should be put in their place. Their hearts are in the right place but their execution is poor. You dont have to be a demon to keep a woman in line but to act passive to keep a relationship together is the opposite of masculine.
Its so demonic, friends.
Sadly, i think alot of issues men have with women stem from being too nice and not being fair. Many men praise women when they should scold them and give them a pass when they should be put in their place. Their hearts are in the right place but their execution is poor. You dont have to be a demon to keep a woman in line but to act passive to keep a relationship together is the opposite of masculine.
Its so demonic, friends.
Im in a relationship with a good woman right now
the whole point of this thread is to show the flip side of everything she said
women act like these double standards only apply to them.
they are sadly mistaken. and when we try and school them on how we feel as men, they pass it off as us just complaining. yet its women who complain most of the time about finding good relationships. I mean how often do you hear men complaining about finding a good woman, in relation to women? c'mon man
all im doing is explainin to them from a mans perspective, why things are the way they are.
self accountability is key
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Im in a relationship with a good woman right now
the whole point of this thread is to show the flip side of everything she said
women act like these double standards only apply to them.
they are sadly mistaken. and when we try and school them on how we feel as men, they pass it off as us just complaining. yet its women who complain most of the time about finding good relationships. I mean how often do you hear men complaining about finding a good woman, in relation to women? c'mon man
all im doing is explainin to them from a mans perspective, why things are the way they are.
self accountability is key
Yeah, but your thread was more from perspective of criticizing personality traits rather than from a perspective of personal responsibility/breaking down double standards.
@ The Bolded, I also don't get how we all say some thing is a problem, but no one is ever living the problems they are talking about. Over-exaggeration/dramatization much?
MicIsGod
They like what that mean
We all know at least one bytch thats like this.Im confused.
A group of loud mouth ignorant woman sitting and discussing the idea that there are no good black men. Same woman pass up on the good, average looking brother who may ride the bus, for a nikka who is a womanizer and has alot of nice things. We all know a man taken is more desirable to you women then a man not seen with many women. Ever stop to think that maybe the reason u cant find a good man is because u may not be a good woman? The good men are out lookin for the good woman, if this is a constant problem your facing, then its probably YOU.
A woman gets in a mans face, actin reckless, turns a simple disagreement into a physical altercation, she cusses him and purposely pushes his buttons by same some below the belt off the wall sh!t...and eventually puts hands on him, gets knocked out and says "i cant believe you hit me" and he gets labelled a woman beater
Woman starts actin like her puzzy is golden and starts to use it as a means of controlling a man to thinking sex is used as a mans reward. she turns it into something that is given as opposed to somethin that is mutually shared and enjoyed by both people. Then she gets upset when a man steps out to fulfill that need that is supposed to be fulfilled by his partner and vice versa.
Woman expects chivalry but let a man expect her to be in the kitchen and all of a sudden hes sexist and living in the past. If your going to look at me to go outside and find out where that suspicious noise is comin from and put my life on the line, and pay when we go out, and open doors etc, then when my belly get to rumbling why cant i look at you to fix that? Ten you wonder why many men dont practice chivalry
Woman marries a wealthy man, has his kids, the whole 9. She files for divorce, she has her own money but is demanding spousal support amd taking him back to court to get more money (eg. Kelis getting nas to pay $55,000 a month, even though shes an entertainer and has her own money. What kid needs 55,000 a month?
What about when a woman gets pregnant and the man ends up believeing the baby is his..pays child support, gets emotionally attatched only to find out later on that the child wasnt his. The courts still order him to pay child support because he's all the kid knows. And u wonder why we may have doubts and want a paternity test?
@She Agree That I'm Looney
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c'mon man. Ive dated many girls. I never said there was no good women out there...I said women need to also take accountability for the things they complain about. alot of times, its there own fault.
Ive experienced these things daily. I also have a sister, and gf's...and they all complain
And we all know the gang of simps that voluntarily give her the treatment she doesn't deserveWe all know at least one bytch thats like this.
I dont get it
Dudes know a chick isn't shyt, but continue to deal with her anyway, and then complain about it
Its literally the male equivalent of a chick with a "bad boy" complaining about how her dude ain't shyt. Well if he ain't shyt, and you won't leave him, what does that make you?
Just like women should take accountability for the things they complain about, so should men.
Pretty much everything in your OP was in some way the result of a choice a man made. But according to you, only women should face the consequences of their choices, as well as those of men's choices
Just like women should take accountability for the things they complain about, so should men.
Pretty much everything in your OP was in some way the result of a choice a man made. But according to you, only women should face the consequences of their choices, as well as those of men's choices
And your still LOST
No one said this only applied to women.. U made a thread and completely left out women... It was solely about men not taking responsibility. So I'm showing the flip side that you women also need to take accountability.. Somehow my thread is bothering u, but when it's a replica of the thread u mad.. But frofrom om a man's perspective.
It's also funny how men on here were able to admit there faults and cosign ur thread
Yet nann one of u females was able to admit the truth in here
It jus goes to show u one of the many differences between men and women.
U can stay in denial all u want... That won't help u in ur future relationships
U females???? Bruh I am a dudeAnd your still LOST
No one said this only applied to women.. U made a thread and completely left out women... It was solely about men not taking responsibility. So I'm showing the flip side that you women also need to take accountability.. Somehow my thread is bothering u, but when it's a replica of the thread u mad.. But frofrom om a man's perspective.
It's also funny how men on here were able to admit there faults and cosign ur thread
Yet nann one of u females was able to admit the truth in here
It jus goes to show u one of the many differences between men and women.
U can stay in denial all u want... That won't help u in ur future relationships
Difference is we don't really complain like u do, and we simply jus take our pen is and stick it inside another chick.
Somehow u think men complain about these things as much as women do and it boggles the mind
MicIsGod
They like what that mean
I corrected my mistake. I'm just saying there are girls just like that.