Is a woman responsible for anything nowadays?

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Dude's got video game tattoos all over his torso.

On another note, 5 stars to OP. Men are taught through the media that they're bad people and are told to "man up" and take responsibility for not knowing how to be a man, yet women are taught all along that they're strong and independent, but still that men should serve them and that they're victims of patriarchy if men aren't serving them 24/7.

fukk me... I wish I learned all this shyt sooner.

Dawg no offense but I think this thread completely passed you by

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Im confused.

A group of loud mouth ignorant woman sitting and discussing the idea that there are no good black men. Same woman pass up on the good, average looking brother who may ride the bus, for a nikka who is a womanizer and has alot of nice things.

I'm a womanizer who has a lot of nice things.


don't ruin this for me.

 

[jadillac]

"Woman starts actin like her puzzy is golden and starts to use it as a means of controlling a man to thinking sex is used as a mans reward. she turns it into something that is given as opposed to somethin that is mutually shared and enjoyed by both people. "

This is actually considered witchcraft. Women who do this are evil.

 

[Lavish]

These women aren't "passing up" legitimately desirable dudes, they don't have that luxury. And if a dude is so lame he's aggy cause he can't bag a hoodrat, fukk 'em He's a lame



A man shouldn't let anyone, including his lady, push him to the point that he loses control... if he does, every choice has a consequence


Trademark simp talk

Any man that allows himself to be controlled by p*ssy DESERVES to be controlled by p*ssy

Thats like blaming crack for smoking it... YOU MADE THAT CHOICE nikka

stupid analogy. because the whole point is, men step out of the relationship when this sh!t happens, and the point is, its the womans fault in those cases. its not like we sittin there on some sh!t .girls who play that game get played and then ask why....just go on google and look at all the women complaining of being cheated on ... smarten up.

A man with a brain won't be chivalrous to a chick that doesn't deserve it

If a chick is taking taking taking and never giving, why would a man continue to deal with her?

DING DING DING. yet women wonder why he isnt opening your door? and complain about men not practicing chivalry. they should be asking themselves what are they really bringing to the table.... thank you for cosigning my point

Thats legitimate. Marriage is a gamble and the courts are fukked up.

But lets be reality, if you think a chick cooking for you is a big deal, I will bet all my Coli bucks youre prob never gonna be in the position where you'll have any "wealth" for a woman to take

Ford Focus ass nikkas cryin about Ferrari problems

I was giving you an example. theres a ton of other things that men expect of woman. the point im making is, dont complain when I tell your azz to fix me a sammich when you know im holdin down the fort. woman talk all that independent sh!t but when the goin get tough....

1 you shouldnt be having kids with people you don't plan to raise them with... in other words, you "get a chick pregnant", she should be your wife

2 if you feel like you will need a paternity test if you got a chick pregnant....

Spoiler

DONT GET THE bytch PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Theres nothing confusing about your post bruh. Its pretty clear what the underlying theme is.

Spoiler

HARD TO BE RIGHTEOUS WHEN LIFE COULD JUST STOP FOR p*ssy....

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or, you could go in raw because it feels better...and say fuk it and dissappear. its obvious your missing the point of the thread. I can go into your thread and disect it as well. the point im making is yall woman are responsible for alot of the sh!t you complain about. the fact that your confused by it and are cosigning my posts unknowingly tells me your in that category.

You put p*ssy on a pedestal + relinquish all control to it, and then blame the owner of vagina for the consequences of your actions

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY nikka Look at all your situations and say, "what could the man do to not get put in that situation"... 9 times out of 10 the answer is the same

put puzzy on a pedestal? you make it seem like im beggin for puzzy fukk outta here. theres always new puzzy to be had. and many men run through puzzy on a daily basis.

and maybe you should look at your thread and say "what could the woman do to not get put in that situation" as well

you unknowingly made my point

carry on

 

[Jason B]

These women aren't "passing up" legitimately desirable dudes, they don't have that luxury. And if a dude is so lame he's aggy cause he can't bag a hoodrat, fukk 'em He's a lame and hes getting what he deserves



A man shouldn't let anyone, including his lady, push him to the point that he loses control... if he does, every choice has a consequence


Trademark simp talk

Any man that allows himself to be controlled by p*ssy DESERVES to be controlled by p*ssy

Thats like blaming crack for smoking it... you made that choice, nobody put a gun to your head and said "fukk that woman"


A man with a brain won't be chivalrous to a chick that doesn't deserve it

If a chick is taking taking taking and never giving, why would a man continue to deal with her?


Thats legitimate. Marriage is a gamble and the courts are fukked up.

But lets be reality, if you think a chick cooking for you is a big deal, I will bet all my Coli bucks youre prob never gonna be in the position where you'll have any "wealth" for a woman to take

Ford Focus ass nikkas cryin about Ferrari problems



1 you shouldnt be having kids with people you don't plan to raise them with... in other words, you "get a chick pregnant", she should be your wife, it should be planned

2 if you feel like you will need a paternity test if you got a chick pregnant....

Spoiler

DONT GET THE CHICK PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Theres nothing confusing about your post bruh. Its pretty clear what the underlying theme is.

Spoiler

HARD TO BE RIGHTEOUS WHEN LIFE COULD JUST STOP FOR p*ssy.... just ask Nas

You put p*ssy on a pedestal + relinquish all control to it, and then blame the owner of vagina for the consequences of your actions

TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.... Look at all your situations and say, "what could the man do to not get put in that situation"... 9 times out of 10 the answer is the same

I agree with you in regards to a man being responsible for his decisions but I feel that you are absolving many women of any responsibility for their decisions, which most of the time are questionable.And these same women have the audacity to want to blame men for the problems that THEY create for themselves seemingly ON PURPOSE.

 

[jadillac]

Im confused.

A group of loud mouth ignorant woman sitting and discussing the idea that there are no good black men. Same woman pass up on the good, average looking brother who may ride the bus, for a nikka who is a womanizer and has alot of nice things. We all know a man taken is more desirable to you women then a man not seen with many women. Ever stop to think that maybe the reason u cant find a good man is because u may not be a good woman? The good men are out lookin for the good woman, if this is a constant problem your facing, then its probably YOU.

A woman gets in a mans face, actin reckless, turns a simple disagreement into a physical altercation, she cusses him and purposely pushes his buttons by same some below the belt off the wall sh!t...and eventually puts hands on him, gets knocked out and says "i cant believe you hit me" and he gets labelled a woman beater

Woman starts actin like her puzzy is golden and starts to use it as a means of controlling a man to thinking sex is used as a mans reward. she turns it into something that is given as opposed to somethin that is mutually shared and enjoyed by both people. Then she gets upset when a man steps out to fulfill that need that is supposed to be fulfilled by his partner and vice versa.

Woman expects chivalry but let a man expect her to be in the kitchen and all of a sudden hes sexist and living in the past. If your going to look at me to go outside and find out where that suspicious noise is comin from and put my life on the line, and pay when we go out, and open doors etc, then when my belly get to rumbling why cant i look at you to fix that? Ten you wonder why many men dont practice chivalry

Woman marries a wealthy man, has his kids, the whole 9. She files for divorce, she has her own money but is demanding spousal support amd taking him back to court to get more money (eg. Kelis getting nas to pay $55,000 a month, even though shes an entertainer and has her own money. What kid needs 55,000 a month?) or when in some cases SHE cheats on him, and still takes him to court for more money...then they wonder why men think woman esp black woman are gold diggers...and thus are terrified of marriage and prefer to jus play the field

What about when a woman gets pregnant and the man ends up believeing the baby is his..pays child support, gets emotionally attatched only to find out later on that the child wasnt his. The courts still order him to pay child support because he's all the kid knows. And u wonder why we may have doubts and want a paternity test?

@She Agree That I'm Looney

I'll put it this way breh.

Don't believe what ur body tells you when dealing with omen(damn that was a typo, but women is just omen with a 'w' in front ). Because the world is backwards nowadays, moreso than ever.

Your body/instinct will tell you, "hey that woman is having a hard time, you have extra means/money, why don't you help her out...." You do just that and many of them will never appreciate it, or go right back to who/whatever got them in trouble to begin with. Even the bible says 'dont pour new wine into old skins.'

Your male instinct suggests to you at the store, "hey, she's got groceries, get that door for her." You do it, and she doesnt even say "thank you" Not that you should do it for a thank you, but it should be common courtesy

Your body/instinct suggests to you that having a kid with this woman would be a good idea..."she's pretty, she's seems pleasant (for the time being), etc".....but once the idea of money gets involved, if she has any foulness in her heart, she's gonna leave you and demand you pay child support.

I was thinking the other day, what if I was married....and one day I came home and my women said, "I want out/I'm unhappy" So now, she files for divorce and can possibly get the house that I'M STILL PAYING FOR while shes laying up in it scot-free with whatever new dude she starts dating....and then on top of that I have to go get an apt so I can have a pace to live.

Screw that. That's scary as hell to me that that's even a legit possibilty in this world.

 

[Word]

they are responsible for raising nikkas like this

Does this dude have a Zelda and a Pokemon tattoo on himself?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

stupid analogy. because the whole point is, men step out of the relationship when this sh!t happens, and the point is, its the womans fault in those cases. its not like we sittin there on some sh!t .girls who play that game get played and then ask why....just go on google and look at all the women complaining of being cheated on ... smarten up.

So men step out every time women do this, but this is also the only reason women get cheated on? How does a dude cheat on a chick he's not with

DING DING DING. yet women wonder why he isnt opening your door? and complain about men not practicing chivalry. they should be asking themselves what are they really bringing to the table.... thank you for cosigning my point

He might not be opening the door because she doesn't deserve it. Or he might not be opening the door cause he's an oaf. I don't get how you can say its 100% one way w/o knowing every single person & relationship in which a dude doesn't open a door for a lady. Some ladies who deserve chivalrous treatment don't get it, some who don't do; that you think its black and white only speaks to your lack of knowledge/experience

I was giving you an example. theres a ton of other things that men expect of woman. the point im making is, dont complain when I tell your azz to fix me a sammich when you know im holdin down the fort. woman talk all that independent sh!t but when the goin get tough....

Holdin down the fort? How exactly? When have you ever "held down the fort"? What % of men do you think "hold down the fort"?

I'm not gonna pull out statistics cause you seem to have a hard enough time dealing with reality as is. But I can say in the black community men generally are NOT holding down the fort. Much of the time they're not even INVOLVED.

or, you could go in raw because it feels better...and say fuk it and dissappear. its obvious your missing the point of the thread. I can go into your thread and disect it as well. the point im making is yall woman are responsible for alot of the sh!t you complain about. the fact that your confused by it and are cosigning my posts unknowingly tells me your in that category.

I never said women weren't responsible for anything that happens. A relationship takes two people, no one person can be fully responsible for the outcome of a relationship unless they're unfaithful or do some shyt like kill the other person. And even in the case of infidelity, a lot of times people choose to stay.

But the point of this thread is sometimes men are responsible for what happens in a relationship, and more importantly people are always responsible for the outcomes of their own lives

The only scenario you presented in which the dude had zero control was the marriage... literally all the other ones the dude could have stopped it, but you blamed the woman anyway

put puzzy on a pedestal? you make it seem like im beggin for puzzy fukk outta here. theres always new puzzy to be had. and many men run through puzzy on a daily basis.

Then why cry about women using p*ssy to control men? Why cry about women treating you bad? Why cry about women period? Alibis ain't addin up, bullshyt catchin up

and maybe you should look at your thread and say "what could the woman do to not get put in that situation" as well

In all the situations you presented the woman was the supposed aggressor, I thought it was a foregone conclusion in your reality that the woman would do everything to sabotage & destroy the man? And in any case the only person whose actions you have control over are your own... by *hoping* the woman will do the right thing instead of covering your own ass and keeping yourself out of bad situations (like impregnating a chick you have no intentions of marrying), you don't have to worry about what women do

you unknowingly made my point

carry on

Naw, you thought you was but you really wasn't. You didn't flip shyt, you just exposed yourself further. My only hope is one day you will take responsibility for your actions instead of hoping for salvation from the people you think are out to get you

Theres nothing manly about this victim role you nikkas love to play

 

[Lavish]

So men step out every time women do this, but this is also the only reason women get cheated on? How does a dude cheat on a chick he's not with

no, sometimes men step out because she's boring in bed. or she let herself go, or shes not doing the things in the bedroom that he likes...or sometimes theres just too much temptation. point is, alot of times its you. take responsibility for your role in it

He might not be opening the door because she doesn't deserve it. Or he might not be opening the door cause he's an oaf. I don't get how you can say its 100% one way w/o knowing every single person & relationship in which a dude doesn't open a door for a lady. Some ladies who deserve chivalrous treatment don't get it, some who don't do; that you think its black and white only speaks to your lack of knowledge/experience

if he's an "oaf" as you put it, then you shouldnt be with him. take responsibility and do a better decision picking men. point is, alot of time she isnt deserving. just by the way your talkin, I wouldnt be surprised if a man felt you werent deserving of it. what do you really bring to the table? all I see is finger pointing. knowledge/experience? ive been in a 6 year long relationship, a 3 year and a 2 year.....not to mention the jump offs in between I probably have more experience then alot of you younger people on this forum. your thread was full of these same black/white generalizations that you speak of in here. how ironic

Holdin down the fort? How exactly? When have you ever "held down the fort"? What % of men do you think "hold down the fort"?

I'm not gonna pull out statistics cause you seem to have a hard enough time dealing with reality as is. But I can say in the black community men generally are NOT holding down the fort. Much of the time they're not even INVOLVED.

and as previously stated, thats largely due to the actions of women....the good man that you dont seem to be aware of, are with the good black women...or in many cases white women the reason YOU dont see them, is because THEY dont see YOU. ...there not involved? as previously state, why be involved with a women that will file divorce and take ask for spousal support...in an unfair court system. why be involved with a girl who can have a baby with someone else and have you paying childsupport for a child thats not yours? you sound LOST. this is what men are exposed to.

I never said women weren't responsible for anything that happens. A relationship takes two people, no one person can be fully responsible for the outcome of a relationship unless they're unfaithful or do some shyt like kill the other person. And even in the case of infidelity, a lot of times people choose to stay.

But the point of this thread is sometimes men are responsible for what happens in a relationship, and more importantly people are always responsible for the outcomes of their own lives

The only scenario you presented in which the dude had zero control was the marriage... literally all the other ones the dude could have stopped it, but you blamed the woman anyway

Take your own advice...and revist your thread.

Then why cry about women using p*ssy to control men? Why cry about women treating you bad? Why cry about women period? Alibis ain't addin up, bullshyt catchin up

aint noone crying. just explainin to you and all the other women who ask "why" when they find out there man was banging other chicks. Like I said, often times you dont even know he steppin out...but he is

In all the situations you presented the woman was the supposed aggressor, I thought it was a foregone conclusion in your reality that the woman would do everything to sabotage & destroy the man? And in any case the only person whose actions you have control over are your own... by *hoping* the woman will do the right thing instead of covering your own ass and keeping yourself out of bad situations (like impregnating a chick you have no intentions of marrying), you don't have to worry about what women do


Naw, you thought you was but you really wasn't. You didn't flip shyt, you just exposed yourself further. My only hope is one day you will take responsibility for your actions instead of hoping for salvation from the people you think are out to get you

Theres nothing manly about this victim role you nikkas love to play

"My only hope is one day you will take responsibility for your actions instead of hoping for salvation from the people you think are out to get you"

right back at you I pulled you in here to give you the same treatment u was givin in your thread. you sound like them ignorant chicks that get left behind. goodluck to you

 

[Lavish]

Dude's got video game tattoos all over his torso.

On another note, 5 stars to OP. Men are taught through the media that they're bad people and are told to "man up" and take responsibility for not knowing how to be a man, yet women are taught all along that they're strong and independent, but still that men should serve them and that they're victims of patriarchy if men aren't serving them 24/7.

fukk me... I wish I learned all this shyt sooner.

exactly.

that whole "im a strong independent woman" is bullsh!t alot of the time. they will still depend on you. and there really not strong. cussing and being intolerable does not make you strong. and then the ones that ARE really independent, act like there above you.

when you find a level headed woman...hold on to her

 

[Lavish]

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Mods need to merge this with the "gems on dealing with women" thread.

A whole lot of complaining with little substance.

 

[Uncle Trill]

Your right but women dont think logically so dont expect them to come in this thread and agree with you. There going to come in here and try to emasculate you, say you need help, have issues, must have been hurt by a female etc... because their first instinct is to be defensive and not actually listen to a man or acknowledge their faults so good luck with that.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Your right but women dont think logically so dont expect them to come in this thread and agree with you. There going to come in here and try to emasculate you, say you need help, have issues, must have been hurt by a female etc... because their first instinct is to be defensive and not actually listen to a man or acknowledge their faults so good luck with that.

The problem with threads such as this is, is it's a gigantic blanket generalization applied to ALL women, void of any solutions or uplifting.

Believing every female on this site embodies the negativity it appears most of the men on here have experienced, you wouldn't believe anything a woman typed seriously.

A woman can never tell another woman what it is to be a man, and vice versa. Constantly about women to men who don't know what it takes to be a woman is a never ending circle of venting and receiving nothing in return but confirmation as to why you feel a particular way.

Seek out what is positive and you'll receive it.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Your right but women dont think logically so dont expect them to come in this thread and agree with you. There going to come in here and try to emasculate you, say you need help, have issues, must have been hurt by a female etc... because their first instinct is to be defensive and not actually listen to a man or acknowledge their faults so good luck with that.

Dudes here don't use the same shaming tactics against folks who disagree with them?