Is a man responsible for anything nowadays
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Im just confused
Woman is unattractive/undesirable, she needs to step her shyt up. Man is unattractive/undesirable, women need to stop being so shallow
Woman lets herself go during marriage, its a feminist conspiracy. Man lets himself go during marriage and wife no longer finds him attractive, its a feminist conspiracy.
Woman grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, shes a waste of life. Man grows up in the hood and becomes a statistic, hes a victim of circumstance.
Woman + man have a kid, the man leaves. Its the woman's fault for picking a deadbeat. Man is just who he is and can't be held responsible for his nature (even tho women don't get that luxury). But if they get married + stay together, its a feminist trap, hes in it out of fear of the courts, shes gonna leave him like women always leave yall.
So I am just trying to figure out who is responsible for what. Can we just simplify gender rules here and say women (ESPECIALLY black women) are to blame for everything, and do away w/any kind of gender based discussions? Cause from an objective POV a lot of brays here aint makin too much sense
I have been trying to get answers to thus logic since I joined
They hate the fact they can't get the women they think they deserve.
So they try to act superior to them on message board.
No one that has relationships/ success with women think they way these nikkas do when it comes to women
thats what you call it when men defend women...but what do you call coli niccas who jump in the phone booth for every "wounded male"? Why, as a straight man, do ya'll feel obligated to "save" and defend males at a split second regardless of the circumstances?
Sierra Mist
Banned
The worst thing about the women "bashers" on here is there are people who have legitamate points, but someone will come in just to talk shyt about women and will use the valid points that the sensible person made as ammo to attack women. The result of that is a lot of people who are actually making valid points getting dismissed due to the similarity of points between the sensible guy and the guy who just wanted to attack woman.
Example:
"Women should make better decisions in men. Bad men do exist and because you know those types of men exist you should do everything in your power to protect yourself from being hurt by him. He's a deadbeat. He never had responsibility on his harddrive. You can't change him. Pick another man because that man is garbage."
Notice how that quote is not attacking women but telling women to be careful. Ironically the deadbeats are being attacked. A man isn't going to cape for a deadbeat dad, ESPECIALLY a deadbeat who got with a woman that the man wanted in the first place. After that gets said someone will come in and say, "See? That's because women are just whores who spread their legs for any thug nikka just because it gets her p*ssy wet. These bytches are dumb."
Similar? Maybe. The same? Absolutely not.
Men cannot be leaders in their families, communities or society if they do not take the responsibility that comes with it. A man who is unaccountable is not a man who deserves power.
Example:
"Women should make better decisions in men. Bad men do exist and because you know those types of men exist you should do everything in your power to protect yourself from being hurt by him. He's a deadbeat. He never had responsibility on his harddrive. You can't change him. Pick another man because that man is garbage."
Notice how that quote is not attacking women but telling women to be careful. Ironically the deadbeats are being attacked. A man isn't going to cape for a deadbeat dad, ESPECIALLY a deadbeat who got with a woman that the man wanted in the first place. After that gets said someone will come in and say, "See? That's because women are just whores who spread their legs for any thug nikka just because it gets her p*ssy wet. These bytches are dumb."
Similar? Maybe. The same? Absolutely not.
Men cannot be leaders in their families, communities or society if they do not take the responsibility that comes with it. A man who is unaccountable is not a man who deserves power.
What-a-ww-w-whatawhat about when woman wanna be considered equal but when it comes to lifting some heavy shyt suddenly the equality shyt goes right out the window
MBwithadream
All Star
This is a stupid thread because you want to shift all the blame on men. when we are just saying women have some issues too. Women are way more shallow then we are we ask for things they can control like weight and attitude. they ask for height and money height is not something you can't control. And getting money is not something that is easy for the majority. You bring up a husband getting upset that his slim wife is getting fat. But you leave out the fact that a woman will be upset if her rich husband income drops. I don't know what world you live in but most people don't see black men as victims of anything. If they did they would have more government handouts for us. What do you mean women don't have the luxury they can get an abortion or give the damn child up. A man has to be a father no matter what and if he is not damn near perfect he will be called a dead beat or a bad father.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
I remember talking to my homie about how his girl was complaining about losing weight and he would be trying to influence her to work out and stop eating late with her girls and all that noise.
Males and females in either relationships or marriages should support each other by enforcing each other to hit the gym if they end up letting themselves go. It's not always about looks I mean you would want to work out to become healthier right?
Males and females in either relationships or marriages should support each other by enforcing each other to hit the gym if they end up letting themselves go. It's not always about looks I mean you would want to work out to become healthier right?
Dusty Bake Activate
Fukk your corny debates
Or maybe they just don't want you. I've never had trouble attracting women and I'm 5'7". I make good money now, but even when my pockets were
I was getting it.No offense, but nobody except dudes who can't get any p*ssy without hitting backpages.com or their local prostitute track gets emotional about womens' dating standards.
Julius Skrrvin
I be winkin' through the scope
Do you have any idea how many dudes say shyt like "yo id fukk that girl, but her knees are sharp" or some shyt like that. Women obsess over their bodies, often things they cant control.
I'm 5'8-9 and I'm fine with women.
You're acting like women are all unemployed and arent making their own money.
You can't not be a father? Funny I see plenty of fatherless ass dudes all over the place.
If the women you know demand that you be rich, perfect, this and that, theyre just bytches.... And conversely a lot of dudes want their girl to have a lot of ridiculous check marks too. And no father is perfect. You're expected to help provide for yourself and your own. Thats essentially it.
Yadda yadda yadda. Yall nikkas never talk about how men are fukking up. Its always about how fukked up women are "too". And women are no more shallow than we are. Case in point how hard dudes go on ugly broads, and how many dudes here CELEBRATE the fact that they would dump a chick who got sloppy. All the goofy things dudes claim are important in a good woman. The hyperprioritization of physical beauty. The complete disregard for the importance of commitment and the familial unit. You nikkas see the world like children, deal with emotions like children, deal with people like children, and then get angry when nobody acknowledges you for the men you aren't
The very fact that you got defensive speaks to the root of what I'm talking about... you nikkas are petrified of personal responsibility/accountability
If you can't say "i fukked up" you can't say shyt about anyone else
john goodman
All Star
Keep simping man, it's gonna get you real far
Or maybe they just don't want you. I've never had trouble attracting women and I'm 5'7". I make good money now, but even when my pockets were
No offense, but nobody except dudes who can't get any p*ssy without hitting backpages.com or their local prostitute track gets emotional about womens' dating standards.
I really don't think any of the men on this site have any real issues with women. they are just venting and speaking on issues all men do. or trolling simple as that.
USSInsiders
Banned
God rest Uncle Ben's soul
HoustonHeat
In and out
Not just the Coli though, you'll see it on other message boards that cater to a mostly undergrad-aged crowd. You'll hear similar convos in frat circles from dudes who are just now coming to terms with their identity and dating. They all grow out of it eventually (except for the super awkward ones).
I remember when SATIL used to go hardonthesehoes
