Lmao it’s hilarious really.yelling trying to fight and waiting in the cut to catch you alone outside your home ain't the same. and if you can't tell the difference, then you've never had to think like that before.
maybe that nice tone stuff works 100% of the time for you - cool, you've been blessed to not be stuck in an actual unsalvageable situation. its obvious you never been in nothing serious and had all the responsibility on yourself.
"fight her off enough to grab...." yeah just win every fight while taking no injuries and they accept it long enough to let you get to the next step in the flowchart. if you fight someone and they can get up, the fight isn't over. that's the level violence is at outside of grade school.
and they've got a weapon too? risk a few stab wounds, might get your face slashed... no way it happens to you tho right?
If someone is waiting for you outside your crib then there’s no deeacalating them—they came to hurt you and have worked themselves up to do so.
So then what you gonna do? Okay say you don’t pull the strap, you then walk down a road where you can potentially get your ass beat and for what? The pride of not being a p*ssy (especially with no audience present)?? I dunno bout nobody else but I ain’t trying to get fukked up just to prove I ain’t a p*ssy, especially as a grown man with a family and a job. Imagine showing up to work on Monday explaining your bruises to your boss and coworkers or going home and explaining it to your wife and kids. And maybe the dude knows he can’t fight so again he’s supposed to take a beat down just because? That’s why people have guns—to protect themselves from a fight they can’t otherwise win.
This is real life, not the movies. nikkas run from fights all the time in real life. In the hood. It’s clear a lot of folks talking bout shyt they know nothing about.