Incel mass murderer in 2009: "no sex since 1990... im not ugly, i dont know why" before killing 3

[Neuromancer]

That’s what’s interesting

This happened and the white media was quiet about it because the person who did the killing was white.

Not the Article the Incel trend. then again he never called himself that.

 

[RTF]

Pretty much this. Having sex with an escort just makes things worse. Because in their mind they are "Damn all I can fukk is escorts? There is no woman that wants me for me?" That type of shyt will fukk up their mental state and lower their self-esteem even more. This is why dating coaches and the PUA industry make money off these dudes. There is a lot of men truly struggling to attract women. Everything comes down to confidence. This is why getting your shyt together is important. Yeah, we can say, fat nikkas, dusty nikkas, broke nikkas are getting play but these dudes lives are totally different from those nikkas. A fat nikka who has charisma was getting tail since he was 16. Meanwhile, compare that to a dude with a high income who only had one girlfriend or still a virgin at age 32. Their life experiences are totally different. That is why I believe telling these dudes to simply go out and approach women without fixing their low self-esteem is a receipt for disaster. The reason? Because these dudes lack experience with the opposite sex it will show in their approach. That means they will be nervous, they will be scared, they will give off desperate vibes. And he will get rejected. A lot. And after he approaches let's say 20 chicks and they all reject him it will further bring him down. It will validate his belief that women don't want him and he will stop approaching and his self-esteem will get worse.
The best situation is to fix his confidence first. He needs to have iron clad confidence so when he gets rejected it does not affect him. That means getting in shape, get your money up, go and travel, have an interesting hobby, make new friends etc. Having an interesting life out where it makes him happy and not boring. And they have to develop a never say die attitude like Russel Westbrook where they say "You know what this chick rejected me but at least I'm trying, I know my worth as a man, I'm a catch and I will win in the end. If these bum dusty nikkas can get p*ssy then I can. She missed out on something really great and it's her lost. fukk that bytch. There are plenty women out here. Let's go. "

That’s the thing man. Confidence comes from WITHIN. External things can help bring it out but it’s from within. You can get money and have an amazing body - if you are terrible socially you will struggle.

If your social / game is at 0 or 1/2 nothing external will help. This is why athletes pay for top p*ssy literally, they lack the basic social skills.

Secondary, these men always feel entitled to top shelf chicks. Not the ‘ok’ girls. They want the 7’s and up. That requires some personality.

I look at myself. Truthfully, I’ve been getting the sam type of women more or less for 12 years. The mouthpiece has really dictated things. In those 2 years I’ve gone from slightly flabby and broke to visibly muscular / lean, car and money. I’ve increased my slam dunks (easy hit) due to the muscles. And I’m able to link girls faster due to driving but that’s it. I’ve always had confidence, been a bit nerdy and a little cool if that makes sense. I’ve always pulled cute girls 6-8. Now I’ve got money and better body not that much has changed truthfully. And it the same for all men.

Unless something changes inside no external things will help. Not money. Not looks. Nothing.

A good friend of mine recently got a clean 2017 E class Benz as part of his new job. He’s getting hotter chicks but the car has helped him and his confidence. He’s got more swagger. It’s him not the car. An he’s always had women. It’s just more and hotter.

Confidence is self reinforcing - sure I get that. But it’s from within. My point is. This is a problem within the mind. I see lots of men say ‘achieve things for yourself the women will follow’. Man unless you getting millions it probably won’t. Unless something changes from within. Which often happens.

 

[Jhoon]

as crazy as incel is they got it right on how they see escorts vs real girlfriends

That wouldn't help him messing with them escorts at all, he could take out frustration on the p*ssy but he wouldn't feel validated how he wanted too by having a girlfriend or a date.

That is what these posters are having a hard time grasping. Most women are beneath them. And these posters want those guys to use women beneath them as a stepping stone? That’s not even realistic. That’s not how mental illness work.

Those socially awkward men need a system where they can clearly “win”. A rigged system! You won’t be able to shed that entitledment any other way.

 

[Devilinurear]

Humbling? More like infuriating..as evidenced by the actions of rejected men

You keep trying until you get it. These guys are gay.

 

[Jhoon]

But you also have to ask "how did white women get so liberal minded"? and why are they not punished for it?

You are exactly right...

These white dudes don't fix themselves up but expect some fine wine white girl. These girls wanna live and do wild things, they don't wanna live like their grandparents did.

To be fair: no one wants to live like their grandparents.

Nostalgia is bad for psyche.

 

[TheBigBopper]

Dude could of went to Asia or damn near anywhere in the world and i'm sure there would of been plenty of color struck broads willing to give it up.
If you cac and are struggling you really ain't shyt

This. There’s always some other sexual market somewhere that has women willing to be with men who aren’t desirable in other markets. These incels are either lazy or just damn closed minded.

You gotta get in where ya fit in

 

[Boolean]

@ nikkas talking about paying for what’s free

 

[Scott Larock]

That is what these posters are having a hard time grasping. Most women are beneath them. And these posters want those guys to use women beneath them as a stepping stone? That’s not even realistic. That’s not how mental illness work.

Those socially awkward men need a system where they can clearly “win”. A rigged system! You won’t be able to shed that entitledment any other way.

They desire power when they never tried to attain if. Never tried anything new, never tried to be the bad guy. Get that nice whip, never tried to play the game but want the results.

To be fair: no one wants to live like their grandparents.

Nostalgia is bad for psyche.

Depends on who you ask, slot of whites admire Asians and having a strong family unit regardless of style or culture.

It just depends not everyone wants to liberal minded. Landlords prefer renting to poor hispanics than poor blacks because they have more family structure.

 

[iBrowse]

"Amerika has chosen The Black Man," he wrote after President Obama's election. "Good! Every black man should get a young white girl hoe to hone up on ... Black dudes have their choice of best white hoez."

Annnnnd there it is

 

[Jhoon]

They desire power when they never tried to attain if. Never tried anything new, never tried to be the bad guy. Get that nice whip, never tried to play the game but want the results.



Depends on who you ask, slot of whites admire Asians and having a strong family unit regardless of style or culture.

It just depends not everyone wants to liberal minded. Landlords prefer renting to poor hispanics than poor blacks because they have more family structure.

They marry Asians because they believe Asians let them believe they still have the juice. They rent to Hispanics because they’re more inclined to be exploited and take it. You know — reinforce their shytty world view. While they tell us to go back to Africa we are Americans. With those other guys they can make a phone call and those people will leave. It was always about control.

Feminism is the white mans gift to white women. Power is not given it is taken.

 

[iBrowse]

I really didnt know it was that bad bro.... I remember going thru droughts of 8 months to a year..... But almost 20 years???? Nah man.... After 9 years, I would've swallowed my pride and paid the fee if my mouthpiece stopped working.

Men need sex.... I almost feel sympathy for tricks now lol.... I thought they were just loser ass nikkas..... But 20 years is a real struggle.... I could see how a man could lose his mind

It’s not just about the p*ssy though. Incels have the mindset that their race, status and possessions entitle them to the adoration of women. It’s a demented kind of dissonance where they can’t comprehend how they’re not only not getting women but that people they deem inferior are getting by just fine with women.

It’s ultimately about getting chose and being seen as an “alpha” (corny shyt but still). Paying for sex would dismantle the illusion of superiority they have. These white boys are sick as fukk.

 

[Jhoon]

This. There’s always some other sexual market somewhere that has women willing to be with men who aren’t desirable in other markets. These incels are either lazy or just damn closed minded.

You gotta get in where ya fit in

chinese men can’t pull Chinese women so those guys are left to import from Cambodia and Vietnam. Where does that leave Vietnamese men?

Globalization is real!

 

[Devilinurear]

@ nikkas talking about paying for what’s free

Nothing is free. You pay for everything in this life in some way.

 

[iBrowse]

incels ain't paying

he's waiting for women to choose him. he deserves it because he is nice with money etc. It's not just about getting laid it's the level of entitlement they feel towards women. It's just another object like a car. he earned it because he is white with a stable livelihood.

Yup

 

[iBrowse]

To all those who ask “why didn’t he just buy some p*ssy or get a mail order bride?”, you don’t quite understand how the incel mind works.

The incel mind would respond to your suggestion with,”why should I have to pay for it? Others don’t have to! Even the inferior Black man doesn’t have to!”...

They operate from a sense of entitlement. And that sense of entitlement/worthlessness is multiplied trifold if the incel happens to have what he considers “all the right tools” and yet still fails to get a woman, as in this case.

It is an insult, in their eyes, to have to pay for some p*ssy, as their sense of worhtlessness stems more from a stsndpoint of not being chosen by women, than it does from a purely sexual aspiration.

Yupx2