Incel finally snaps after being in friend zone too long

[SAINT]

I feel like I'm in some bizarro world where guys think it's rare to be friends with a woman. Like how. How do y'all go through life without accumulating female friends?

thats so weird to me. How do you not have female friends in college or HS?

 

[SheWantTheD]

Legit a scene in a movie

 

[Neuromancer]

I feel like I'm in some bizarro world where guys think it's rare to be friends with a woman. Like how. How do y'all go through life without accumulating female friends?

Some people go through life without trying certain foods. Some people don't like water even though we need it, some people will never own a house. Life is different for different people

 

[Mike the Executioner]

Another thing I hate is how black people use the world incel but that shyt come from white people . I don't know any black "incels". Just like the phrase "black on black crime " isn't originated from us black people . It created by white people . The only time I've ever heard the term Incel is when one of the them white teenagers shot up a school .

Before it was called negging, it was called reverse psychology and incels didn't invent it, Bugs Bunny did.

 

[DaylitoJames]

Legit a scene in a movie

Breh was screaming like Ben Stiller from the movie Mystery Men

 

[TheDarceKnight]

I haven’t laughed this hard in a long ass time

Dude needs to be watched fr man.

but yeah. He really does

 

[Peruvian Connect]

funny

 

[TheDarceKnight]

This is why straight men and women can’t really be friends. If you’re going out to eat, movies, trips, activities on a regular basis, somebody is going to either catch feelings, and the man is most likely going to want sex.

And I’ve noticed both men and women think of you continue to hang out with the person, they’ll eventually develop feelings.

That’s extremely rare. Most people know right away what they want from someone.

I think straight men and women can be friends, but it's difficult for extended time periods. Both (especially the man) usually have to be getting sexual needs met elsewhere, or they've tried a relationship and realized they are better off as friends.

I have a few genuine female friends, but they fit one of the following 4 circumstances:

1. Women that have been in my life long enough without us ever sleeping together, to the point where I genuinely don't care if we ever have sex or not. Most of these are women I either literally grew up with since childhood, and/or ended up in the friend-zone with at some point, and I genuinely don't care anymore. Sometimes there's no sexual tension and sometimes there is. If there is it's not intense enough to be a distraction for either of us.

2. Women that I've had sex with, or had a short-term relationships with, and we realized we were better off as friends and/or there just wasn't a ton of chemistry. I hooked up with a girl on Tinder for a few weeks about 5 years ago and we had almost no sexual chemistry but she's cool as fukk. She's one of my best friends ever.

3. Women that I work with or share a hobby with, where it would be unprofessional and risky for our careers to reputation if we started dating or having an intimate relationship.

4. Women that I don't find sexually attractive.

 

[Ozymandeas]

what state is this though? wanna stay far away.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Women that I've had sex with, or had a short-term relationships with, and we realized we were better off as friends and/or there just wasn't a ton of chemistry. I hooked up with a girl on Tinder for a few weeks about 5 years ago and we had almost no sexual chemistry but she's cool as fukk. She's one of my best friends ever.

This is the most dangerous situation, because most of the time, the woman is hoping it will progress to more. Even when there are clear boundaries, some people only accept the reality they want.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

This is the most dangerous situation, because most of the time, the woman is hoping it will progress to more. Even when there are clear boundaries, some people only accept the reality they want.

Good point. It's definitely risky.

I actually lost a good friend over this recently. Maybe not lost, but we definitely have to communicate less. We slept together on and off for a few years whenever we were both single. There's always sexual tension, even when we are just being regular friends, and right now we're both dating other people.

 

[Theodoresolderbreh]

Xxxtencion fan.

 

[Theodoresolderbreh]

The moped was a nice touch

 

[TheDarceKnight]

You guys ever wonder why it's so easy for you to laugh at someone's agony?

I'm laughing because it's cathartic. I feel for the guy in this video and the girl as well.

Lord knows I've never been as bad off as the guy in that video, but I never had girlfriend until after high school and even then I struggled with getting put in the friend-zone until my early 20's. I was really bad with women I wanted to date, and I didn't make it clear up front that I was interested sexually. I treated them like a buddy and they treated me the same way in return. They didn't do anything wrong, and honestly neither did I. It's a part of maturing. Some guys figure out how to dodge the friend-zone earlier than others, but I think all of us have been there to some degree.

I genuinely don't think most of the people laughing in this thread have any ill-intentions towards this kid. I hope not. I'm guessing most of us have been in a situation where we felt that way (although maybe not as intensely ) and it's better to laugh about hindsight than cry about it.

And Most of the time men get friend-zoned, it is their own doing.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

If a woman knows a dude likes her to that extent she should cut him off, why let the guy even hang around? The only answer is because she feels there is something to gain

You know this.. unless you are dumb.. you are gonna know what the guy wants. 99% of men don't want a friend you know it and i know it

Granted, the guy should be up front but so should the woman and cut it off immediately

I feel you, but I also think it's partially human nature (especially among younger people) to not cut off people that you benefit from. I'm not even talking about consciously using people. It's just that most people have a tendency to overestimate what they do for others, and once you know that, it's easy to see how people can keep people in their lives even if it's a lopsided friendship.

Even if someone knows they are getting more from the other person, most people don't want to just be "takers", so they bullshyt themselves into believing they are contributing more than they are. Also, some people really struggle with cutting people out of their life if things aren't overtly toxic. And even then it can be difficult.

IMO this is as all less forgivable the older people get, but if people are young and stupid, I'm tempted to give some more passes than I would for people that are more mature.