IMO Black men shouldn't pursue women or help the black community until ...

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The Coli really helps a black breh hone his skills on being able to defend the bond between black men and women, I tell you.

:usure: Cacs got around to breaking that "bond" a long time ago breh. The black man and woman are not on the same page today...

Most women will become a distraction, I'll give you that. It won't be because their women, it'll be because most people just aren't compatible.

I think it is because they're woman and woman require attention.. Attention that is better spent pursuing your dreams.. If you say most people arent compatible how much time will a man waste going thru women trying to find the one he is compatible with?

But, that isn't evidence that on the path towards following your dreams, you need to put mental blockers on regarding women as the OP suggested. I feel like you're countering my point(which is okay) but are you reading what the OP said and cosigning it?

I dont know breh. I know when I have children Im instilling this type of thoughts in my sons heads. Dont think too deeply about women till you have your life in order. So the part I agree with is the one about putting serious relationships, unless you have a gem, on the backburner. Not helping until you made it? That I dont agree with. Along the way help can be given.
 

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I agree to an extent. I think you should love yourself and know what you want out of life before getting into a relationship or mentoring people.
Like if you dont love yourself your gonna be toxic to your relationship. And if you haven't found your purpose/dream in life you will also be toxic in your personal & professional life.
 

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they achieve their dreams.

Because if you're not happy and making money/got whatever material possessions u desire you're going to be resentful. If you're not married and don't have a family, or at the very least getting woman you're going to be resentful and wont want to help the young people.

I we should achieve our dreams first than focus on helping the community and trying to get women. Plus the kids not going to respect you if you don't have the things they want no matter how pure your intentions is. We live in a capitalistic society that's flooded with vanity. If you're a good guy but drive a bucket, nikkas gonna laugh at u behind your back. it is what it is.

Instead of trying to get laid work on your dream and put all that work now so when u get your break you'll be ready to just walk into the light.

Sex isn't a big deal. Travelling and seeing the world is, accomplishing great goals is, learning who you are as a black man is.

The black community is vicious. In order to deal with black people you must obtain all the superficial shyt nikkas worship. Then once you have their ear. That's when you can try to make the community stronger. You have to Jedi Mind Trick black people into doing rightuoes things because most black people unfortunately suffer from post traumatic slave syndrome and you have to put the potion in the poison.





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Im going to copy this and share it with people I know ......

youve given me the best laugh Ive had all week ....


Theres so much dumb shyt in this one paragraph I dont even want to start

Ill just make one point, when I think of all the black leaders gone by, the panthers, Garvey, martin, Malcolm etc.... that are respected by kids and adults alike Im pretty sure not one of us knows what car they drive, Im pretty sure that the reasons why they are respected isnt because "they had their money up" .... lol
 

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because the youth ain't gonna respect you unless u did it or got it. They're chasing theirs so they'll see you as a peer rather than an OG

the student ain't gonna respect the master in the dojo if they're learning together.
That don’t make sense you can still mentor those that are a few steps behind you.
 
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