IMO Black men shouldn't pursue women or help the black community until ...

[DrX]

they achieve their dreams.

Because if you're not happy and making money/got whatever material possessions u desire you're going to be resentful. If you're not married and don't have a family, or at the very least getting woman you're going to be resentful and wont want to help the young people.

I we should achieve our dreams first than focus on helping the community and trying to get women. Plus the kids not going to respect you if you don't have the things they want no matter how pure your intentions is. We live in a capitalistic society that's flooded with vanity. If you're a good guy but drive a bucket, nikkas gonna laugh at u behind your back. it is what it is.

Instead of trying to get laid work on your dream and put all that work now so when u get your break you'll be ready to just walk into the light.

Sex isn't a big deal. Travelling and seeing the world is, accomplishing great goals is, learning who you are as a black man is.

The black community is vicious. In order to deal with black people you must obtain all the superficial shyt nikkas worship. Then once you have their ear. That's when you can try to make the community stronger. You have to Jedi Mind Trick black people into doing rightuoes things because most black people unfortunately suffer from post traumatic slave syndrome and you have to put the potion in the poison.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

 

[DrX]

no fukkery no beef today please pearl. this is a serious discussion

 

[Iceson Beckford]

There was a period before you left where your posting was funny and weirdly insightful

Instead of coming back like Jordan wearing the 45 you’ve come back looking like Kwame Brown

 

[Henri Christophe]

I thought was obvious bro.....

Cant help anybody financially if your finances arent in order

And you cant be a fully confident man who can attract high quality women without your finances & personal development being in order....

The earlier you start grinding, the better...

I got uncles who didnt start taking life seriously until they were 30+ now they sittin here asking me for money & favors

 

[DrX]

I thought was obvious bro.....

Cant help anybody financially if your finances arent in order

And you cant be a fully confident man who can attract high quality women without your finances & personal development being in order....

The earlier you start grinding, the better...

I got uncles who didnt start taking life seriously until they were 30+ now they sittin here asking me for money & favors

exactly

 

[DrX]

There was a period before you left where your posting was funny and weirdly insightful

Instead of coming back like Jordan wearing the 45 you’ve come back looking like Kwame Brown

"drx u changed man" its called growth bro

 

[bx.lion]

I agree op. You shouldn't be chasing women if you still living with moms

 

[Milomann]

Until you achieve your dreams???

That might take a lifetime or never happen.

 

[Lotsford]

You don't have to have already achieved your dreams to do something like a little volunteer community work, mentoring, going out of your way to buy black, etc. It would be better for black people as a whole to adopt and implement these micro things when possible instead of encouraging them to forgo it until they get theirs.

 

[DPresidential]

Ignore the fact that having a good supportive woman can help a breh achieve his dreams, breh.

You're literally suggesting that black men become robots to success and force away organic companionship on some monk shyt.

It's interesting that you assume a kid or children would not respect their father figure is he hasn't already achieved his dream. I'd argue that children who grow up watching their father figure put in the effort, time and hard work to achieve what he has and overcoming stumbling blocks reinforces that work ethic in the child.

A child who grows up only after the spoils of success are had would be more at risk of taking hard work for granted in many cases.

"The black community is vicious. In order to deal with black people you must obtain all the superficial shyt nikkas worship." - Where are you getting this bullship generalization from? Materialism is an american issue, not localized to the black community.

I'd agree that the youth are more prone to being distracted by materialism but for people who are actively trying to get their public housing administration to remove the fungi/mold from the corners of their children's bedroom walls and trying to get through the arduous process of finding out how to ensure their child goes to a good school where the teachers actually care about their kids... I think you're generalizations are insulting as fukk, breh.

And before you pull up any photos of black kids on long lines at footlocker - I'd remind you that most black children aren't lining up to footlocker for sneakers.

Before you pull up random pictures of people posing with their income check - I'd remind you that no matter how many pics you find, most black youth AREN'T posing with money.

Go outside, breh.

 

[DrX]

Until you achieve your dreams???

That might take a lifetime or never happen.

other words when you're comfortable.

 

[DrX]

Ignore the fact that having a good supportive woman can help a breh achieve his dreams, breh.

You're literally suggesting that black men become robots to success and force away organic companionship on some monk shyt.

It's interesting that you assume a kid or children would not respect their father figure is he hasn't already achieved his dream. I'd argue that children who grow up watching their father figure put in the effort, time and hard work to achieve what he has and overcoming stumbling blocks reinforces that work ethic in the child.

A child who grows up only after the spoils of success are had would be more at risk of taking hard work for granted in many cases.

"The black community is vicious. In order to deal with black people you must obtain all the superficial shyt nikkas worship." - Where are you getting this bullship generalization from? Materialism is an american issue, not localized to the black community.

I'd agree that the youth are more prone to being distracted by materialism but for people who are actively trying to get their public housing administration to remove the fungi/mold from the corners of their children's bedroom walls and trying to get through the arduous process of finding out how to ensure their child goes to a good school where the teachers actually care about their kids... I think you're generalizations are insulting as fukk, breh.

And before you pull up any photos of black kids on long lines at footlocker - I'd remind you that most black children aren't lining up to footlocker for sneakers.

Before you pull up random pictures of people posing with their income check - I'd remind you that no matter how many pics you find, most black youth AREN'T posing with money.

Go outside, breh.

yup

 

[#1 pick]

Ignore being Black in a system of white supremacy

 

[DrX]

You don't have to have already achieved your dreams to do something like a little volunteer community work, mentoring, going out of your way to buy black, etc. It would be better for black people as a whole to adopt and implement these micro things when possible instead of encouraging them to forgo it until they get theirs.

its simply not going to work. You have to be accomplished and happy with yourself. Plus the kids are only going to respect somebody that's done or have the shyt they're trying to get. Nobody is going to take the 40 year guy hanging outside the corner store hollering at young girls serious.