Good thread, we should keep it going
No. Especially on a social media. Every rude comment I come into contact with is from Black men. I play a lot of games through Facebook, which shows your profile. Black men go out of their way to make rude comments. And it seems like they always show their ass in front of company. I was playing spades online with a black guy and two white chicks. We were all bantering back and forth. It was light-hearted competition. And it was still good energy. One white chick was my partner. She sucked. So I said, “P, u suck.” Do you know that Black man called me all kind of stupid bytches and defended this girl to the heavens like I said her p*ssy stank or something. He wasn’t even on my team. He was actually WINNING bc of her and jumped my ass bc I said something about the white girl that was less than stellar. I ended up fussing with him and called him a c00n. My PARTNER AGREED and he ended up leaving the game. I asked her what a c00n was and she said something along the lines of going against the grain for white acceptance. That response was good enough for me as long as she didn’t think I was calling him a real animal. They dragged him after he left, but in that instance, I realized the white women didn’t care what he was said to me either.
I’m not saying that EVERY Black man is like this, I am saying that ONLINE, I (me, myself, this person only) have to defend myself from A LOT of Black men.
ETA: He even called me RACIST for saying that the girls were white. Like I didn’t even have the right to say the word, “white.”
ETA2: on topic. You said “care about.” That can go both ways. I think some care toooo much about BW and their opinions. That’s why they say stuff like, BW only like thugs and black women are angry all the time, etc. you don’t put that much energy into something you don’t care about. But why is the caring always focused on the negative?
No. Especially on a social media. Every rude comment I come into contact with is from Black men. I play a lot of games through Facebook, which shows your profile. Black men go out of their way to make rude comments. And it seems like they always show their ass in front of company. I was playing spades online with a black guy and two white chicks. We were all bantering back and forth. It was light-hearted competition. And it was still good energy. One white chick was my partner. She sucked. So I said, “P, u suck.” Do you know that Black man called me all kind of stupid bytches and defended this girl to the heavens like I said her p*ssy stank or something. He wasn’t even on my team. He was actually WINNING bc of her and jumped my ass bc I said something about the white girl that was less than stellar. I ended up fussing with him and called him a c00n. My PARTNER AGREED and he ended up leaving the game. I asked her what a c00n was and she said something along the lines of going against the grain for white acceptance. That response was good enough for me as long as she didn’t think I was calling him a real animal. They dragged him after he left, but in that instance, I realized the white women didn’t care what he was said to me either.
I’m not saying that EVERY Black man is like this, I am saying that ONLINE, I (me, myself, this person only) have to defend myself from A LOT of Black men.
ETA: He even called me RACIST for saying that the girls were white. Like I didn’t even have the right to say the word, “white.”
ETA2: on topic. You said “care about.” That can go both ways. I think some care toooo much about BW and their opinions. That’s why they say stuff like, BW only like thugs and black women are angry all the time, etc. you don’t put that much energy into something you don’t care about. But why is the caring always focused on the negative?
Do Black men want me?
Yes I get attract a lot of different Black men.
Scammers, tech nerds, neo soul, college dudes, older dudes, younger dudes, etc
But one thing I’m noticing is that my wants and need are changing, my goals and desires are growing.
I don’t know if it necessarily (scares) them but it domes always align with the guys in my age range 21-25.
Sometimes I think I’m too serious about life but then when I talk to my female friends we are all in agreement about our goals.
So idk.
I’m in the process of changing my social circles so hopefully this won’t be an issue for long.
I really don’t want to have to date outside my community.
No, that’s Sza a singer.That u in ur avi
I really don’t want to have to date outside my community.
I KNOW your ass isn’t side eyeing me when you damn near exclusively date West Indian and African Women.
I KNOW your ass isn’t side eyeing me when you damn near exclusively date West Indian and African Women.