Hello Vanessa, my name is Marcelo
Where are you located? Are you currently seeing someone?
I’m sorry to bother the black women on this site, but I have to ask a serious question.
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Where are you located? Are you currently seeing someone?I think most people only care about themselves or people close to them. Based on my personal experiences and those of friends and family, I feel a lot of black men are selfish and don't consider how their decisions impact those close to them. I think black women are willing to make sacrifices more often than black men do in order to sustain their families, especially when it comes to finances.
There is someone for everyone, so I'm there is a black guy that "wants" me (none from the Coli), but in general.
In terms of sexual/domestic abuse, I think that is a "male"/spouse issue, more than a race one. You can't just pin that on black men. The only difference is that white men MAY seek counseling because they have greater access to psychiatrist and ease in finding a therapist of their own race/gender.
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Why would anyone expect non-family to have their back?
Women in these threads never mention, specifically, what black men have done to them to make them that black men don't care about them. 
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I don't think anybody has my back except for a few close people. Probably 2, frankly. It's a cold world, all I can logically care about is shmoney.
+rep for keeping it all the way real.
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Shoot your shot Hun I ain't mad at ya I would do the same lol yes I am seeing someoneHello Vanessa, my name is Marcelo
Leave their children, fail to stabilize families, shy away from education, shun black women getting educated, having more masculinity than ability to be a man, etc.Women in these threads never mention, specifically, what black men have done to them to make them that black men don't care about them.
When you are available, let me know. I saw your pictures.
These are some pretty stereotypical reasons
may I ask what city you are in....cuz where I am at -- there are plenty of Black men handling their business. If only women appreciated that in a man instead of other superficial things
Black men did all of this to you?
Black men irl are super sweet to me even if i barely know them.
Now on the coli, thats whole nother story but its just the innanet so i guess it dont matter.
Now on the coli, thats whole nother story but its just the innanet so i guess it dont matter.
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IRL yes, but on the Coli hell no except for a very few, alot of guys on here act like they hate women, but that's ifne cause the ones that do can all get to know each other in my ignored section.
No. Especially on a social media. Every rude comment I come into contact with is from Black men. I play a lot of games through Facebook, which shows your profile. Black men go out of their way to make rude comments. And it seems like they always show their ass in front of company. I was playing spades online with a black guy and two white chicks. We were all bantering back and forth. It was light-hearted competition. And it was still good energy. One white chick was my partner. She sucked. So I said, “P, u suck.” Do you know that Black man called me all kind of stupid bytches and defended this girl to the heavens like I said her p*ssy stank or something. He wasn’t even on my team. He was actually WINNING bc of her and jumped my ass bc I said something about the white girl that was less than stellar. I ended up fussing with him and called him a c00n. My PARTNER AGREED and he ended up leaving the game. I asked her what a c00n was and she said something along the lines of going against the grain for white acceptance. That response was good enough for me as long as she didn’t think I was calling him a real animal. They dragged him after he left, but in that instance, I realized the white women didn’t care what he was said to me either.
I’m not saying that EVERY Black man is like this, I am saying that ONLINE, I (me, myself, this person only) have to defend myself from A LOT of Black men.
ETA: He even called me RACIST for saying that the girls were white. Like I didn’t even have the right to say the word, “white.”
ETA2: on topic. You said “care about.” That can go both ways. I think some care toooo much about BW and their opinions. That’s why they say stuff like, BW only like thugs and black women are angry all the time, etc. you don’t put that much energy into something you don’t care about. But why is the caring always focused on the negative?
I’m not saying that EVERY Black man is like this, I am saying that ONLINE, I (me, myself, this person only) have to defend myself from A LOT of Black men.
ETA: He even called me RACIST for saying that the girls were white. Like I didn’t even have the right to say the word, “white.”
ETA2: on topic. You said “care about.” That can go both ways. I think some care toooo much about BW and their opinions. That’s why they say stuff like, BW only like thugs and black women are angry all the time, etc. you don’t put that much energy into something you don’t care about. But why is the caring always focused on the negative?
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