Im ready to settle down....

[Silver Surfer]

I said this once when I was 24-25 and fukked it up with a good girl...

Maybe its because im 30...

Maybe its because I stay in this whack town with no quailty women...

Maybe im tired of fukking women with 1-3 children...

Maybe its because im tired of playing the game with no actual redeeming value at the end...

Maybe im tired of tellin my ex's to drive 2 hours to come up for the weekend...

I just want a girl at the house when I get home...

 

[Malta]

I said this once when I was 24-25 and fukked it up with a good girl...

Maybe its because im 30...

Maybe its because I stay in this whack town with no quailty women...

Maybe im tired of fukking women with 1-3 children...

Maybe its because im tired of playing the game with no actual redeeming value at the end...

Maybe im tired of tellin my ex's to drive 2 hours to come up for the weekend...

I just want a girl at the house when I get home...

Be careful, this is how dudes end up with women they don't actually want and it takes years to figure it out.

Switch up your routine, but don't focus on getting a woman and you'll eventually run into one that is what you're looking for.

 

[GreenPrint]

Good luck,but dont settle.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Be careful, this is how dudes end up with women they don't actually want and it takes years to figure it out.

Switch up your routine, but don't focus on getting a woman and you'll eventually run into one that is what you're looking for.

You have a good point...I just downloaded some GRE books...I m going back to get my masters this summer...just gonna stay focused on that

 

[cleanface coney]

damn i feel you my nikka

shyt be like you goin through the motions fukkin wit these females
sometimes i want a female that i know aint fukkin wit other nikkas

i was just talkin to this girl this weekend on the phone
she was talkin about how she be wanting a relationship lately
i dont know if it was directed at me personally or she just feelin that way

but i was tellin her can you honestly meet somebody wit the intentions of settling down?
imo that shyt hard and you can get yo feeling hurts real talk
because the person might not want that

but i understand where she was coming from

what you do to fukk it up when you was 24?

 

[Silver Surfer]

damn i feel you my nikka

shyt be like you goin through the motions fukkin wit these females
sometimes i want a female that i know aint fukkin wit other nikkas

i was just talkin to this girl this weekend on the phone
she was talkin about how she be wanting a relationship lately
i dont know if it was directed at me personally or she just feelin that way

but i was tellin her can you honestly meet somebody wit the intentions of settling down?
imo that shyt hard and you can get yo feeling hurts real talk
because the person might not want that

but i understand where she was coming from

what you do to fukk it up when you was 24?

I had this super bad dark skinned girl from Panama City..I was going into my last year in college. She was 2-3 years younger than me. All the niccas at the job was jockin her, but she chose me.

Problem was I was "the man" at the job...team lead on the floor...riding around on 24's, clean....pushed a lil dro here and there just to stay smoking....fukking everything there that was worth fukking...

Bruh the ration was like 7-1 women to men...I went through that call center like Sandy on New Jersey...

You couldnt tell me nothing bruh..I did what I wanted with no after thought

She just couldnt deal with the pressure...buts its beeen a few women like that, that have came in and out. Man I done lost out on a Nurses, pharmacy majors...all the top shelf.

Its all good though, because everything you go through shapes you anyway

 

[Binary]

 

[cleanface coney]

I had this super bad dark skinned girl from Panama City..I was going into my last year in college. She was 2-3 years younger than me. All the niccas at the job was jockin her, but she chose me.

Problem was I was "the man" at the job...team lead on the floor...riding around on 24's, clean....pushed a lil dro here and there just to stay smoking....fukking everything there that was worth fukking...

Bruh the ration was like 7-1 women to men...I went through that call center like Sandy on New Jersey...

You couldnt tell me nothing bruh..I did what I wanted with no after thought

She just couldnt deal with the pressure...buts its beeen a few women like that, that have came in and out. Man I done lost out on a Nurses, pharmacy majors...all the top shelf.

Its all good though, because everything you go through shapes you anyway

damn its hard not to be feeling yourself in Tally esp if you doin something with yo life

in that moment you think you doin something but its always that one female
you do dirty

but in the end you regret it
i came back to detroit and even the females at my job dont impress me no more and its some young graduates here lookin fine and all dat
but even then it seem like they all the same

i aint tryna be out here on some relationship shyt if i know it aint mutual

but damn how a nikka know when its mutual? i dont wanna be a jaded nikka when i get older

 

[SpeakherKnockin]

I hope all the young dudes on here take this post seriously cause it's some real shyt. You can only fukk off on so many women and be a player til you become the old dude at the club ing on young women.. Not that that's you of course.

 

[Silver Surfer]

damn its hard not to be feeling yourself in Tally esp if you doin something with yo life

in that moment you think you doin something but its always that one female
you do dirty

but in the end you regret it
i came back to detroit and even the females at my job dont impress me no more and its some young graduates here lookin fine and all dat
but even then it seem like they all the same

Yeah, Im just not gonna settle, because I bring alot to the table..so she got to match that or exceed.

Its some bad ones on the marine base out here but Im rarely up there so I only see glimpses of them.

I might have to put down on the college girls again....

 

[Silver Surfer]

On some real shyt I regret shyttin on the "good" girls....you see one doing her thing with no kids and she gonna ride for you...hold on to her

 

[cleanface coney]

I hope all the young dudes on here take this post seriously cause it's some real shyt. You can only fukk off on so many women and be a player til you become the old dude at the club ing on young women.. Not that that's you of course.

honestly it aint even about me fukkin alot of girls
compared to the nikkas in my family imma be catching up for life lol

my problem is the variety i had. it make it hard to just be witta girl just because she a good girl or she wont cheat
on top of me movin back to detroit its like im spoiled or some shyt
even the ones i do like they dont add up

 

[Silver Surfer]

Look for someone that is on your level or better....anything else and you rolling the dice...

 

[SpeakherKnockin]

honestly it aint even about me fukkin alot of girls
compared to the nikkas in my family imma be catching up for life lol

my problem is the variety i had. it make it hard to just be witta girl just because she a good girl or she wont cheat
on top of me movin back to detroit its like im spoiled or some shyt
even the ones i do like they dont add up

I understand completely. Lately I've been meeting dudes who are so good on paper. College degree, no kids, own place, own car.. genuinely good men.. BUT.. there's no spark.

After a while you learn that your "check list" really doesn't mean anything if that spark..that attraction we can't understand..just isn't there.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Good Luck t/s.

Most people eventually find someone unless you're just straight up nuts, you should be fine.