Im ready to settle down....

cleanface coney

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I understand completely. Lately I've been meeting dudes who are so good on paper. College degree, no kids, own place, own car.. genuinely good men.. BUT.. there's no spark.

After a while you learn that your "check list" really doesn't mean anything if that spark..that attraction we can't understand..just isn't there.

i think thats the stage where im at honestly
not saying i got everything goin for me or im perfect cuz im not
but shyt compared to alot of young nikkas im doin my thing

are you a female?
 

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So you're not going to finish the thread you started last week where you were so excited about fornicating with a married 30 year old mother of 3 and you planned to post pics?


:stopitslime:
 

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malta made a good point. it's better to focus on trying to do something with yourself rather than looking for someone, especially if you feel the need to settle down. it'll end up happening naturally if you work on other ways of improving yourself. you'll end up getting around different people with different mind sets and personal goals for themselves, you'll find a common interest and move from that point...
 

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So you're not going to finish the thread you started last week where you were so excited about fornicating with a married 30 year old mother of 3 and you planned to post pics?


:stopitslime:

Its always exciting to fukk someone you have known for years, but just as friends...

Anyway if I dont forget when I get home...Im gonna find a pic and blur out her face and post
 

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Its always exciting to fukk someone you have known for years, but just as friends...

Anyway if I dont forget when I get home...Im gonna find a pic and blur out her face and post

I don't really care about the pics or that thread.

I just wanna know where your little epiphany started. :mjpls:
 

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No matter what you do, you're going to fall into a routine, even with a quality woman.

That said, you're only 30, if you're tired of dealing with women that have 1-3 kids, start dating women 22-25.

Yeah Im thinking I need to drop the age range....I ran up on this young broad in the mall over the weekend...she seemd like a idiot...she had a fat ass though :manny:
 

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lol shyt the internet a crazy place i realized. just askin honestly

i been fukkin with this girl for a lil minute. we prolly fukked like 3-4 times nothing serious. but lately she been on some relationship type of shyt
n i aint all the way for it but i aint no cold hearted nikka to just say no chance.

but my basic understanding is if i meet a girl and she on that single shyt at the beginning. its no way possible for us to be together cuz thats what she wanted and thats what she asked for....the single life

my people always told me only wife up relationship oriented girls never the ones you play with

what you think? i dont think this is wrong but alot of people tell me i will never give a girl a chance because how i think
 

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lol shyt the internet a crazy place i realized. just askin honestly

i been fukkin with this girl for a lil minute. we prolly fukked like 3-4 times nothing serious. but lately she been on some relationship type of shyt
n i aint all the way for it but i aint no cold hearted nikka to just say no chance.

but my basic understanding is if i meet a girl and she on that single shyt at the beginning. its no way possible for us to be together cuz thats what she wanted and thats what she asked for....the single life

my people always told me only wife up relationship oriented girls never the ones you play with

what you think? i dont think this is wrong but alot of people tell me i will never give a girl a chance because how i think

It's a tough call. When y'all first started fukkin how did she approach the situation? Was it just off some booty call tip or were there never real boundaries set?

Some women are a lot like men nowadays in the sense that they don't expect anything off top and play things by ear. Most dudes don't know they want a relationship until kickin it for a while unlike women who know off top they want something and put all their expectation on the next dude they date lol.

If you don't want a relationship let her know. Honesty goes a long way. She may be mad and or upset at first.. but 9/10..she'll still give you the box afterwards :yeshrug:
 

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It's a tough call. When y'all first started fukkin how did she approach the situation? Was it just off some booty call tip or were there never real boundaries set?

Some women are a lot like men nowadays in the sense that they don't expect anything off top and play things by ear. Most dudes don't know they want a relationship until kickin it for a while unlike women who know off top they want something and put all their expectation on the next dude they date lol.

If you don't want a relationship let her know. Honesty goes a long way. She may be mad and or upset at first.. but 9/10..she'll still give you the box afterwards :yeshrug:

she chose me. i dont have expectations when i meet a woman anymore
im starting to feel like im goin thru the motions but im not jaded and i dont wanna be jaded.

she cool n all but idk she just mentioned the shyt
and i told her she feel liek that cuz she wanted the single life so i dont think it would work

but idk now. i asked you cuz u a girl and im bored at work
 

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I said this once when I was 24-25 and fukked it up with a good girl...

Maybe its because im 30...

Maybe its because I stay in this whack town with no quailty women...

Maybe im tired of fukking women with 1-3 children...

Maybe its because im tired of playing the game with no actual redeeming value at the end...

Maybe im tired of tellin my ex's to drive 2 hours to come up for the weekend...

I just want a girl at the house when I get home...

:snoop:


Well you are not alone in fukking her. He baby daddy is also blowing her back out :youngsabo:
 

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she chose me. i dont have expectations when i meet a woman anymore
im starting to feel like im goin thru the motions but im not jaded and i dont wanna be jaded.

she cool n all but idk she just mentioned the shyt
and i told her she feel liek that cuz she wanted the single life so i dont think it would work

but idk now. i asked you cuz u a girl and im bored at work

Sounds like you guys want the same thing. Just keep doin' what y'all do..and keep it wrapped.
 
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