I'm I ruthless or just being a good brother to my little sister
- Thread starter Chris.B
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If she is selfishly keeping her money and spending yours or is she has a bad attitude, then give her a warning.
But to be honest you sound like you are mad that she has it easier than you did. Like there is some kind of resentment and jealousy.
You would be surprised to know that most 18 & 19 year olds are still considered children. Most of them don't have a car or a job and still live at home. So, its not like your sister has it as easy as you think.
But to be honest you sound like you are mad that she has it easier than you did. Like there is some kind of resentment and jealousy.
You would be surprised to know that most 18 & 19 year olds are still considered children. Most of them don't have a car or a job and still live at home. So, its not like your sister has it as easy as you think.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
What kinda brother kicks his little sister out his house while she works a entry level part time job and is a student? 
Sound like you broke to me, or you just wanna buy something you don't need with the extra money
Send your sister this way though. I know some nikkas who will take care of her 
Sound like you broke to me, or you just wanna buy something you don't need with the extra money
Send your sister this way though. I know some nikkas who will take care of her 
Coliflower
Rookie
If you aren't getting along, and she refuses to pay money, cook, clean, or even change her attitude I don't blame you for kicking her out. I think if she knew how serious you were she'd start helping out. Maybe you have to set some definite rules for her.
Mountain
All Star
I have a little sister myself and i couldn't even imagine behaving the same way to her as you are to yours, that's family, your flesh and blood, you should support her as much as possible for as long as necessary.
She shouldn't be working whilst going to school, that's a mistake a lot of students make in college, especially ones that study intensive courses. The time she spends working to partially provide rent (rent that you've already admitted you cover comfortably), is time she could be using to sharpen her grades so that she can pass with the best results. Too many responsibilities apart from studying will take away from her study time significantly, which may consequently lead to her failing, or do you not care about that slim?
This is how deep family rifts are created, if she struggles and fails partly because of your callous attitude, she will blame you, she will basically hate you for life and so will her children (I've seen this happen), things can get very ugly that way.
That's your sister, support her unconditionally if you can, if you show her nothing but love, that's what you will get back; she will probably work harder in college knowing the sacrifice your making for her and she will remember your kindness for the rest of her life. Like wise; show her unnecessary callousness and harshness, then that's exactly what you will get back.
She shouldn't be working whilst going to school, that's a mistake a lot of students make in college, especially ones that study intensive courses. The time she spends working to partially provide rent (rent that you've already admitted you cover comfortably), is time she could be using to sharpen her grades so that she can pass with the best results. Too many responsibilities apart from studying will take away from her study time significantly, which may consequently lead to her failing, or do you not care about that slim?
This is how deep family rifts are created, if she struggles and fails partly because of your callous attitude, she will blame you, she will basically hate you for life and so will her children (I've seen this happen), things can get very ugly that way.
That's your sister, support her unconditionally if you can, if you show her nothing but love, that's what you will get back; she will probably work harder in college knowing the sacrifice your making for her and she will remember your kindness for the rest of her life. Like wise; show her unnecessary callousness and harshness, then that's exactly what you will get back.
Majestic Pape
The-Coli = W SOHH = L
Why don't you just give her move out date at the end of the year so at least she can get herself prepared. The new year is only a few months away.
Kilgore Trout
Banned
You have more of a duty to support your sister than your parents.
nikka called her a parasite ha! i understand she is not your daughter but your sister. but if im able to provide someone help without it being a burden to myself its really not that big of a deal unless blatant disrespect and ungratefulness. if i went threw something hard and it got me to a great place that doesnt mean i want someone else to go through said hard times. i understand it builds character and what not. but i know if i have children i want them to have it better than i did (didnt have it bad typical middle class family) and hopefully they want the same. same goes for my sister who is in college. learn from my mistakes and experiences not go through my mistakes and experiences.
Ricky Church
Stole Timberlake's Spaceship-Coupe
you the older brother and u in charge of all of them, put ur foot down breh, if she don't like it, then:
