I'm I ruthless or just being a good brother to my little sister

[Chris.B]

There is your problem. Tell her how serious you are considering kicking her out.

That conversation always turns into a screaming match...

I'm done with that.

Time to release her into the wild to fend for herself.

I will be giving her one month to get her stuff together before the hammer comes down....

 

[innocentdevil]

That conversation always turns into a screaming match...

I'm done with that.

Time to release her into the wild to fend for herself.

I will be giving her one month to get her stuff together before the hammer comes down....

If you have had the conversation before, and you are at your wits end....there was no need to make this thread. You already had your mind made up.

 

[neko_804]

That conversation always turns into a screaming match...

I'm done with that.

Time to release her into the wild to fend for herself.

I will be giving her one month to get her stuff together before the hammer comes down....

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

You're being ruthless and kind of stupid/dramatic. You didn't give one good reason to kick her out and its not like she is bumming off you. Plus, you make good money so your pockets aren't hurting by supporting her.

Its rough out here, breh. People aren't just getting jobs/money like that without support nowadays. It makes no sense to kick her out, especially since she hasn't done anything wrong. This is just my opinion though.

can u muthafukkas read??



she works part time but refuses to contribute anything..

 

[SuikodenII]

She has student loans ans stuff

nope she doesn't do anything.

She eats,sleeps go to the gym, sleep and school..

She just doesn't give a fukk when I ask her to contribute

I'm getting to the point where I won't give a fukk either

So she's spoiled...then let her know calmly that you hold the lease, and either she contributes in a certain time period or kindly gets escorted the fukk out

Unless you wanna make a deal with her that she keeps a certain GPA she won't have to

Just make sure you're being reasonable, you're family, no need to hate one another

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

she going straight to backpage.com or Sugar Daddy Dating at Sugar Baby 4u - Find Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies though

 

[TRILLWAVE]

What is that supposed to mean?

She is 18. The government of the USA certainly thinks so...

18 isnt "grown" imo when I was 18 I was immature as fukk, moved out,gotta place with my boys and started drinking nightly and fukkin up..too much freedom which I admittedly wasnt ready for..now had I been say 21 I would have handled it and myself far better now you can argue and say I was a dumbazz and your sister isnt gonna fukk up like me but none the less this is my 2 cents

and oh you sound a like a dikkhead talkin about you dont care if she strips thats your lil sister breh...the hell is your problem?

 

[TRILLWAVE]

shell be whoring with thoushallhustle within a week...dont do it breh..aids is forever you dont wanna put your little sis in the crossfire just cause your a dikkhead

 

[Chris.B]

18 isnt "grown" imo when I was 18 I was immature as fukk, moved out,gotta place with my boys and started drinking nightly and fukkin up..too much freedom which I admittedly wasnt ready for..now had I been say 21 I would have handled it and myself far better now you can argue and say I was a dumbazz and your sister isnt gonna fukk up like me but none the less this is my 2 cents

and oh you sound a like a dikkhead talkin about you dont care if she strips thats your lil sister breh...the hell is your problem?

Whatever she does is her problem. Time to grow up and be responsible

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

shell be whoring with thoushallhustle within a week...dont do it breh..aids is forever you dont wanna put your little sis in the crossfire just cause your a dikkhead

 

[shopthatwrecks]

shoulda balanced those options when u took that responsibility

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

Whatever she does is her problem. Time to grow up and be responsible

u aint going to be saying that when she does ghetto gaggers breh

remember that Fishburne ho?

im on your side...but tread carefully

 

[Kilgore Trout]

fukked up situation. What do your parents think?

 

[andre patton]

That conversation always turns into a screaming match...

I'm done with that.

Time to release her into the wild to fend for herself.

I will be giving her one month to get her stuff together before the hammer comes down....

how much is she making from her part time job? how much does the apt cost?


tell her straight up, rent is due on the first. she needs to kick u down $100 a month or whatever is reasonable for her to afford and still helps you cover the apt.

i think if its not hurting your pockets at all its kinda fukked up to kick her out just to prove a point. you're gonna force her to work more, prolly have to put school on hold, and just struggle in general all because you're handing out life lessons. there is clearly a middle ground where you can get what u want and its not too difficult for her to juggle.

 

[L&HH]

nikka you tripping breh, calm the fukk down and dont jump to a rash ass decision you'll regret. Shawty only 18 and you tryna throw her into the street? I get that you say she not contributing when she can but thats not reason enough especially not at 18. If you dont need the help then fallback. As long as she in school and not bringing nikkas all in the crib and doin other dumb shyt then she cool, she only 18. I sympathize for your plight but you survived it and seem to be doing well, no reason to throw your sister in the fire like that. I can see if she was a man. The most I would do would be threaten to take her to court and see if you can get her wages garnished (I wouldnt do this, this would be my extreme in your situation).