i mean struggle as in a figure of speech. meaning some people are afraid of adversity. not meaning struggle as in homeless living in a cardboard box. when is someone mentally or financially ready to have kids??. now im not saying go and have them at 20 years old. but at some point its time to grow up. everything in life isnt the fresh prince or cosbys. every thing isnt peaches and cream man. thats what im trying to stay.
i see what you were trying to say but still, why bring on unneccessary strife just because?
and just because youre not struggling, it doesnt mean that everything is peaches & cream.
I'd rather be homeless honestly, im 20 now, If im not out by 24 - 25 im cutting my hair and joining the military or some shyt
Or starting a life of crime or something, some kind of bold movie type shyt. my pops never moved out either lol
man, the way youre talking, the chances are youre going to be doing the same thing youre doing now when youre 24-25.
and thats not neccessarily a bad thing.
man listen. if you working and u can afford a crib. why not? i could see if you got fired or were unemployed. thats different. but if you working and you got a car. it's no excuse. and if you got debt to pay off. it shouldnt take 11 years. im counting 21 to 32.
the thing is, you can get fired and become unemployed at any moment. let that man stack his paper.
and did it ever occur to you that maybe he doesnt want to live in an apartment building?