I'm 32 and lived at home my whole life

[ORDER_66]

This nikka has walked out if every movie he has ever seen, but can't manage to walk out of his parents house

 

[ORDER_66]

I think both parties have made valid points. I think a man in his early to mid twenties living alone is good. However I just don't get how someone can be in their 30's and need to live at home to save.

Your salary/business/occupation money should be enough by then that saving isn't an issue.

I pay a mortgage, save and still have money for vacations etc and I'm only 25. I don't get where this 'u can only save if u live at home' mentality comes from.

These dudes need to change their occupation tbh if they are earning that little.

I believe every man deserves to live alone before he marries. Going from mother to wife is a lil

I was out on my own at 20-25 it was a struggle but it had it's moments...

 

[mcdivit85]

You put so much stock in getting p*ssy.
Put that same stock into making money

Breh, I'm not putting much stock in p#ssy. Because the reality is, there's enough scallywags out here who still smash these werirdos on their mama's couch, in the back of their wheel, in the bathroom at Applebee's or in Motel 6. Dusty is as dusty does, so that's not even my point.

I said what I said as a GENERAL POINT. Even if a dude already has a girlfriend and is not looking for chicks, HE NEEDS TO HAVE HIS OWN SH#T. Especially in your 30s. How in the hell can a 32 year old look himself in the mirror when he lives at home?

Let's be real breh, most of the threads on this forum are about women and dating. So, every dude on here is talking about that already. What I find funny is how so many dudes are co-signing this sh#t yet wonder why chicks are always clowning them in one way or another. Its like nobody is putting the equation together.

But beyond that, as a man, you need to be able to conquer and sustain yourself in the real world..........without mommy and daddy. Even if that means you can't drive a luxury vehicle at the moment. Even if that means you can't live in the exclusive suburb at the moment. Even if that means you can only save/invest $1000 per month instead of $2000 per month. Having a nice car and $50K in the bank with no foundation as a man is null and void. Its a non-sequitir.

And I'm going to keep clowning yall "I drive an Audi A8 but I live at home" sh#t on The Coli and I'm going to keep clowning that sh#t in real life. Because that's some bullsh#t and I know it to be so.

Peace

 

[Theraflu]

I was out on my own at 20-25 it was a struggle but it had it's moments...

I wouldn't do it any other way breh breh

I earn enough that the little i pay on my mortgage i would NOT give up my house just to save that and live with my parents. helll nawwwww.

I live out and I save just fine

 

[Chris.B]

Breh, I'm not putting much stock in p#ssy. Because the reality is, there's enough scallywags out here who still smash these werirdos on their mama's couch, in the back of their wheel, in the bathroom at Applebee's or in Motel 6. Dusty is as dusty does, so that's not even my point.

I said what I said as a GENERAL POINT. Even if a dude already has a girlfriend and is not looking for chicks, HE NEEDS TO HAVE HIS OWN SH#T. Especially in your 30s. How in the hell can a 32 year old look himself in the mirror when he lives at home?

Let's be real breh, most of the threads on this forum are about women and dating. So, every dude on here is talking about that already. What I find funny is how so many dudes are co-signing this sh#t yet wonder why chicks are always clowning them in one way or another. Its like nobody is putting the equation together.

But beyond that, as a man, you need to be able to conquer and sustain yourself in the real world..........without mommy and daddy. Even if that means you can't drive a luxury vehicle at the moment. Even if that means you can't live in the exclusive suburb at the moment. Even if that means you can only save/invest $1000 per month instead of $2000 per month. Having a nice car and $50K in the bank with no foundation as a man is null and void. Its a non-sequitir.

And I'm going to keep clowning yall "I drive an Audi A8 but I live at home" sh#t on The Coli and I'm going to keep clowning that sh#t in real life. Because that's some bullsh#t and I know it to be so.

Peace

As long as he is saving and not blowing the money on some shyt and keep his job. He is better off THAN most people.

Period no if's and but's.

Life is not supposed to be a struggle breh. It's all about happiness and being comfortable.
Most people are barely above water. One loss in paycheck and they are facing disaster.

OP has figured the game out.

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

Breh, how in the f#ck can someone have a nice car but then say they live at home with their parents to save money? That's some bullsh#t. They're staying at home with mom because:

- they want to enjoy having stuff that they really can't afford
- they just a Baby Boy a## n#gga
- they just a b#tch a## n#gga

And I'm going to keep saying it, the same dudes co-signing this line of thinking are the SAME DUDES always talking about how f#cked up women are. That's not a coincidence. Women don't respect weirdos......they clown them as they should.

Peace

You must be mentally retarded. Having a nice car is only about 100-200 dollars more a month. Couple that with a lack of mortgage, you're still saving big gwap.

 

[Theraflu]

Breh, I'm not putting much stock in p#ssy. Because the reality is, there's enough scallywags out here who still smash these werirdos on their mama's couch, in the back of their wheel, in the bathroom at Applebee's or in Motel 6. Dusty is as dusty does, so that's not even my point.

I said what I said as a GENERAL POINT. Even if a dude already has a girlfriend and is not looking for chicks, HE NEEDS TO HAVE HIS OWN SH#T. Especially in your 30s. How in the hell can a 32 year old look himself in the mirror when he lives at home?

Let's be real breh, most of the threads on this forum are about women and dating. So, every dude on here is talking about that already. What I find funny is how so many dudes are co-signing this sh#t yet wonder why chicks are always clowning them in one way or another. Its like nobody is putting the equation together.

But beyond that, as a man, you need to be able to conquer and sustain yourself in the real world..........without mommy and daddy. Even if that means you can't drive a luxury vehicle at the moment. Even if that means you can't live in the exclusive suburb at the moment. Even if that means you can only save/invest $1000 per month instead of $2000 per month. Having a nice car and $50K in the bank with no foundation as a man is null and void. Its a non-sequitir.

And I'm going to keep clowning yall "I drive an Audi A8 but I live at home" sh#t on The Coli and I'm going to keep clowning that sh#t in real life. Because that's some bullsh#t and I know it to be so.

Peace

It's contraditory tbh.

They claim they live at home to live a minimalist super saving lifestyle yet buy big cars, that's not minimalist lol. It seems the only area of their life where they are minimalist is the rent.

 

[ORDER_66]

You must be mentally retarded. Having a nice car is only about 100-200 dollars more a month. Couple that with a lack of mortgage, you're still saving big gwap.

Hmmm it does depend on the car tho...

 

[Rayzah]

As long as he is saving and not blowing the money on some shyt and keep his job. He is better off THAN most people.

Period no if's and but's.

Life is not supposed to be a struggle breh. It's all about happiness and being comfortable.
Most people are barely above water. One loss in paycheck and they are facing disaster.

OP has figured the game out.

Buying a Lexus and working a dead in job is not saving

 

[ORDER_66]

Buying a Lexus and working a dead in job is not saving

Exactly. I thought the OP would be working a govt job with a pension and or retirement fund or something... A dead end job is nothing to be proud of while living at home with your parents...

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

Hmmm it does depend on the car tho...

Doesn't fukkin matter anyway. These insecure p*ssy boys in here hating on dudes staying longer to save money are only doing it cause they moved out too early and are broke. It's their only option. They can't go back on their decision and admit it was wrong, cause they are bytch boys. If you save even 200 dollars more in a month not moving out, doesn't matter any other factors, you are winning more so than a chump who moved out too early and now broke and bitter.

 

[Chris.B]

Buying a Lexus and working a dead in job is not saving

He already has 40K in the bank.

he doesn't even have to touch that money. His car note is taken care of by his current job and he can still save more

 

[patscorpio]

unless there's a hardship going on with my folks i couldn't fathom living my folks now long term....i turn 32 in less than 2 months and have been out of my folks house for 9.5 years....one of my biggest motivational factors to getting this money is the fact that i never wanted to live at home again..the 7 months i did between undergrad and grad school was enough... i hustled hard in my 20s to make sure i earned enough to survive and then eventually thrive.....i dont knock other ppl who do it...i understand every situation is different..in your 20s trying to find your way in the world after college or whatever..thats fine but if you're a man in your 30s there should be a goal or a specific endpoint to stop living at home...there should be no contentment in that situation if there is no hardship going...thats how i feel ....my parents both came to this country from nigeria in their early 20s for college and eventually build a life for themselves here in the US..they worked hard and built their wealth....who am I to do less than that?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Living at home in your 30s is something to be proud of now? What the fukk happened to being an adult? These are sad times we're living in.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

So EVERYONE on this site has over 100k saved up