If You're A Man That Doesn't Drink Or Smoke Odds Are Your Dating Life Sucks

SheWantTheD

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I don't drink or drug anymore, but when I did, sex was much more frequent and I had a lot more partners. My dating life is non-existent right now, brought that up to therapist and a two good friends of mine. It aint that serious, and I have my reasons to be dolo. But my therapist claims I'm too young to abstain from sex for 6 months. Something about sexual frustration and irritability. Whatever ...
What kind of therapist do you go to?! What's wrong with abstaining from sex for 6 months?! :mjlol:
 

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Being sober since 2006, but being older now, 31, I can say it's not really a major issue, though it is in a sense that alcohol functions often as a gateway to sex and intimacy, and it can make it harder for both people to get there, without alcohol. Also, some women would out of respect or consideration, or (concern) not drink, if you don't drink, which can make them and you uncomfortable.
 

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Depends on the type of girls you're after. Obviously big booty hood rats named Keisha will be all for smoking and drinking. Lightskin/biracial suburban-raised girl who speaks proper English won't be too thrilled about that sort of stuff. Though, unfortunately, these are the types of girls who are typically bedwenches and ignore normal black guys like me.
 

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I don’t smoke or drink. I have no problem smashing. I do have to keep telling them I’m
Not Muslim though even though they’re convinced I am.
 
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