If your significant other became a quadriplegic would you leave?

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That is funny, My Girl gave me a hypothetical about this which turned it into a big argument.

Her: Baby what would you do if I was paralyzed from the waist down tomorrow

Me: I got your back 100 percent, I would take care of you for the rest of your life :jawalrus:

Her: awww. What would you do about sex.

Me: :patrice:..... :lupe:..... Well we would have to have a discussion about how I am supposed to get relief. I am still young.



Her: :birdman: .... What you mean!!!! you are going to cheat on me.

Me: :what: ..... I just said we will have a discussion, that ain't cheating in my book :yeshrug:

Her: Yes it is, now I am looking at you differently I don't know if we can be togheter.

Me:* starting to realize my greivous mistake by being honest with her, trying to abort this conversation* I would lay out the deal and decide whther you want to move foward or not. I have that much respect for you :troll:
You going to break up with me over something that hasn't happened yet.

Her: Yea I can't plan my future with someone who thinks like that

Me: You are blowing this out of proportion.

Her: No I am not. I mean if you were paralyzed I would take care of you forever and not cheat on you.

Me: *knowing that this chick is notoriously lazy as fukk* So you would take me whereever I want to go.

Her: :patrice: I mean I would have to leave you at home when I go shopping and stuff. I wouldn't want to push you around when i have all these bags on me.

Me: *check to see if she was trolling, confirmations she was not* :mindblown: at that comment. So I have to stay home all day.

Her: :manny:

LOL breh...in these circumstances you plead the fif

women love to trap a n!gga like this
 

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Current boyfriend ? No. His penis is his best and almost only asset, and if that didnt work:usure: I couldn't imagine having to take care of him the rest of my life. Ex boyfriend, yes. But I probably wouldn't have to for long. I'm sure he would commit that within a year or so. He's manic depressive/ bi-polar. He's very smart , funny and interesting though . And that mouth:noah:
 

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I swear some of you have no soul.. Human salad!? :deadmanny: I don't know why I fukk with this innanets.
 

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That is funny, My Girl gave me a hypothetical about this which turned it into a big argument.

Her: Baby what would you do if I was paralyzed from the waist down tomorrow

Me: I got your back 100 percent, I would take care of you for the rest of your life :jawalrus:

Her: awww. What would you do about sex.

Me: :patrice:..... :lupe:..... Well we would have to have a discussion about how I am supposed to get relief. I am still young.



Her: :birdman: .... What you mean!!!! you are going to cheat on me.

Me: :what: ..... I just said we will have a discussion, that ain't cheating in my book :yeshrug:

Her: Yes it is, now I am looking at you differently I don't know if we can be togheter.

Me:* starting to realize my greivous mistake by being honest with her, trying to abort this conversation* I would lay out the deal and decide whther you want to move foward or not. I have that much respect for you :troll:
You going to break up with me over something that hasn't happened yet.

Her: Yea I can't plan my future with someone who thinks like that

Me: You are blowing this out of proportion.

Her: No I am not. I mean if you were paralyzed I would take care of you forever and not cheat on you.

Me: *knowing that this chick is notoriously lazy as fukk* So you would take me whereever I want to go.

Her: :patrice: I mean I would have to leave you at home when I go shopping and stuff. I wouldn't want to push you around when i have all these bags on me.

Me: *check to see if she was trolling, confirmations she was not* :mindblown: at that comment. So I have to stay home all day.

bushes. also, being honest with her was the right thing. my ex used to ask all these hypotheticals which i later realised she did in order to see how far she could go and what shyt i would tolerate. thank god i always gave her the :birdman: and said no whenever she asked me if i would fight for her to come back in case she would dumb me. she explicitely asked about sex so i'm guessing she tested how you would react if she withheld the punani. i mean, what type of answer did she expect?

as for the op: i'm a very loyal person so i would stay and take care of her. however, i worked in social services when i was younger and took care of two paralyzed people. it can be hard because they become depressed and some of them develop a sort of hatred for people who can still walk and try to take their situation out on those around them.

as far as the sex goes: when dealing with/being a paralyzed person, you will be confronted with so much uncomfortable shyt and bodily functions(diapers, catheters, spasms....) that it will probably not be a problem to work something out. your perspective on life changes.
 
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Depends on how they become a quad tbh. If it's something that they couldve avoided but still went for it (drunk driving etc) nah.

Freak accident or whatever sure.
 

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love is love

Indeed I agree with you Cuz, Im hoping its a "gimmick" but a couple of posts i see the shallowness and superficial traits of some. :comeon:

I would stay every time, wouldn't have to even think about. Significant implies the relationship is more than casual. Love is unconditional and true love knows no bounds. If my girl was given this news ( she doesn't have to be quadriplegic and it could be another ailment). If I with you then Im with you and there is no boundaries that could keep me from her side and giving her whatever her heart desires.

Me and baby gurl would be in it for the long haul/
And Together we ride till the wheels fall off/
 

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Just because someone is a quadriplegic doesn't mean that they cannot reach orgasm... Even though some cant, a lot actually can.

If I was with the love of my life I would stay.

If I was with someone I liked and thats about it... idk.

Indeed I agree with you Cuz, Im hoping its a "gimmick" but a couple of posts i see the shallowness and superficial traits of some. :comeon:

I would stay every time, wouldn't have to even think about. Significant implies the relationship is more than casual. Love is unconditional and true love knows no bounds. If my girl was given this news ( she doesn't have to be quadriplegic and it could be another ailment). If I with you then Im with you and there is no boundaries that could keep me from her side and giving her whatever her heart desires.

Me and baby gurl would be in it for the long haul/
And Together we ride till the wheels fall off/



more people should have this mindset. youre right about the shallow shyt.
 

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Indeed I agree with you Cuz, Im hoping its a "gimmick" but a couple of posts i see the shallowness and superficial traits of some. :comeon:

I would stay every time, wouldn't have to even think about. Significant implies the relationship is more than casual. Love is unconditional and true love knows no bounds. If my girl was given this news ( she doesn't have to be quadriplegic and it could be another ailment). If I with you then Im with you and there is no boundaries that could keep me from her side and giving her whatever her heart desires.

Me and baby gurl would be in it for the long haul/
And Together we ride till the wheels fall off/

:salute: Real Dude right here.
 
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