If your best friend came out and said he was gay, would you still be friends with him?

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

you wouldn't wonder if your BEST FRIEND who just came out as a homosexual has feelings for you? it just changes the dynamic of your relationship, I just gave you the example of my friend commenting on my photo that I was handsome after he came out as gay.

 

[HiphopRelated]

hilarious movie

 

[Thoughts]

you wouldn't wonder if your BEST FRIEND who just came out as a homosexual has feelings for you?

 

[Marco Zen]

Dumb questions

 

[heisenburrr]

In my mind though, there is no way you spend so much time with someone who's your bestfriend and don't notice that something just ain't right until he comes out

I mean... a fakket is a fakket is a fakket and I can smell them a mile away

 

[FUPA]

only if he kick down with that head game.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

So because this nikka likes nikkas all the trill shyt he did like bailing you outa jail or throwin hands with you in bar fights or wingman-ing like a champion when you pulled the baddest females or was in your corner when you was going through real life shyt goes out the window?



No wonder why some of you nikkas are woman hating, self-loathing, lames who constantly flaunt your IT certs and keep a "PAWG" on deck.....you nikkas don't know the meaning of friendship.

 

[Thoughts]

If you homophobic that's cool, if you don't like homosexuals that's cool, but what I will not tolerate is "fakkit this" and "fakkit that" ...it's 2013 and that ignorance deserves no respect. To me "******" and "fakkit" is one in the same ...meant to hurt and dehumanize. Don't use it around me, thank you.

 

[Chris.B]

I will cut him loose

 

[AntiHero]

I had a friend in my social circle who used to talk about p*ssy all the time until he met this "bi" gothic kid. This dude was named Alex and he started bringing more of his gay friends around my social circle every weekend.

I started focusing on school more so i wasn't hanging around my old neighborhood friends.like i used to. About a year later i went back to the library(our hangout spot) and it turns out that those gothic kids were now in our group. They came to chill with us when ever they had the chance.

So this one day me and Jon is talking about our lives and he says something about some guy named Angel who wanted to fight him. So i asked him what the situation was and he said "this dude angel is getting mad at me because i dont want to date him, i'm attracted to his friend". I'm like .

The thing is, Angel was never gay or 'bi' when i first met him. It all started after this Alex dude started hanging out with us.

With that being said, they're still good friends.

 

[Chris.B]

 

[Nemesis]

what kind of drama?

Ive told the story before...Ill just copy and paste..






probably.......

The worst piece of drama that happened to me personally..


we used to have a roped off v.i.p that was only for booked tables, anyway one day theres some short dude hassling the security to let him in the vip , he didnt have the tag ,so security wasnt having it, i was in the vip talking to a promoter so i saw everything, short dude then tries to rush the security, i jumped in and we restrained him and radioed for back-up....

when they carried the dude outside I knew something was up because usually they would have stomped the shyt out of him, but they just walked him out, hes now outside of the club screaming and shouting about being disrespected and about 12 security guys are just looking at him not saying a word...

the head of my security comes inside to talk to me....dude was a proper OG in his 40s that was known and respected he had set up his security firm after doing a bid for manslaughter....him and the promoter tell me that dude was a certified goon with about 6 bodies to his name and a serious crew,and that I need to come outside and apologise to him.... as soon as I step outside dude tries to rush me but he was stopped, I told the dude "I didnt know it was him" even though up untill then Id never heard of him and that it was mistaken identity, took about 30 minutes of politiking to calm this dude down, then I had to bring him back inside to a v.i.p table and give him about $400 worth of free drinks....... so we think situation is solved, this was on a friday night

by saturday afternoon my phone was ringing off the hook, people I aint spoken to or seen in months knew what had happened already and were warning me about this cat, im like "nah its sqaushed"


next day the security that didnt let him in the vip was shot after we closed up as he was getting into his car, the fukkers drove by hit him once and the car about twice..... The OG that ran the security flipped , called this dudes people and told them its war, on the sunday he had goons strapped up parked outside and inside the club

i was like

I got the little dudes brothers number and told him to get the dude to call me back, dude calls me and tells me he didnt shoot me because Im the one with the money, he wanted $2000 cash every week and its good, if not he would get me or fukk up my business to the point that i would lose my license, I found out that his crew were extorting 4 other bars also but the reason why I hadnt been fukked with was because of the OG who ran my security...i started reaching out to everyone I knew to try and mediate because i wasnt going to give him a cent and everyone was shook because this guy and his people were the real deal, my security OG was talking about blasting everyone of this guys crew.....shyt was getting out of hand....he started to get pissed at me because I was making him look weak

I have one good friend whos an armed robber and he came through, he knew where the guys baby mother lived and basically he had a plan to pop the dude and escape on a motor bike, he offered to do it as a friend all he said was that I needed to make sure I was in public when it was done and the OG as well because the whole world would know who was behind it and we would definitely be picked up by the police.... the problem I had with that was Im not a killer and obviously his people would come for us after

all this while Im thinking all this drama just for running a business

to cut a long story short I was doing business with a dude that was running a fake promotion at the club during the week, he was basically laundering money as the club was shut at the time.... i reached out to him and he met up with me....he said he had business with this dude and his people, I didnt ask what and he didnt tell me, he called the dude in front of me and told him that he owned the bar and that I was just a front and that furthermore him and his people were banned from there..... all that drama resolved in less than two minutes....

we still and problems with the dude after but nothing that major


sorry about it being so long, I tried to edit as much as possible

 

[ThaRealness]

Im not about to distance myself from him... it would be a highly uncomfortable situation though

 

[Thoughts]

I'll keep it a buck, I have gay acquaintances, they never tried me or disrespected me, and if you know what they go through on a daily basis you'd be more sympathetic towards their way of life. It's unreal how they are treated.

Some of y'all probably have gay homies and don't even know it, and never will because of responses in threads like these.

You're homophobic because you fear the unknown, and if you go so far to be prejudice and not acknowledge they exist ....you may be scared that you might like it.

I'm STRAIGHT and know I'm straight because I can chill with gays and have no sexual urges what so ever, let alone have the thought randomly cross my mind...

I want y'all to do a favor, change the scenario from gay people to black people...and you'll have an idea about how silly some of this stuff sounds and how voiceless homosexuals and lesbians really are. Just like us blacks.

I'll 2 piece a homophobic person in front of his squad just cause I can't stand hearing that stupidity, and not on no gay shyt but how some of y'all know you even your homeboy's type? The fact you even thought about it before he did makes you a homo...

Dudes need to grow up.

 

[ALLiKNOWizPAIN]

It's happened more than once , first I was like , then I was like , then I was like and then I was like and then I was like then I was like but if they kiss I be like .