If you really think about it: Aren't women completely to blame if their single?
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Kenny West
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Women dont have much options unfortunately, and despite what you may believe they don't want a simp they want a boss ass dude that will put her in her place.
Just because the world is full of thirsty dudes, women shouldn't have to subject themselves to them.
Quality dudes are rare, that's why they can easily have multiple women.,
This.
The American dating scene is feast or famine for a dude. As far as "attractiveness" goes, most dudes believe in dating in their "league". Whereas women are told on twitter every day to never settle. This ends up with the majority of chicks after the top 20-30 percentile of men.
In short they're single because they'd rather be side chick #2339593439 of Chris Brown than be a franchise player for an ordinary nikka.
At least until they too old and forced to settle.Personally I don't give a fukk. I got a lot of years ahead of me. I'll just force my way into the top percentile.
Amare's Right Hook
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If a woman is bytching about not enough dikk they are usually picky as hell, its not that hard ladies......or is it ? 
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Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Reasons women don't settle down:
Say what you will about these reasons, I'm not here to defend them or to bash them, but you gotta know that these reasons are pretty common. As a man, you just gotta learn how to dance around the expectations and mental gymnastics, here.
- Some wanna rack up numbers from different types of guys so they can feel like they've "experienced" everything before settling down with what they really want and who they really love.
- Some women like to travel and have career mobility, both of which are hard in a relationship.
- Women love "keeping the store open for businss" because if the right guy comes along who fits all her criteria... she'll be glad she waited long enough for him to come out of hiding for her.
- If a woman is eligible, sometimes it's something as simple as the right man not having the backbone to ask her. She doesn't want to because if the man won't do it, then he doesn't have enough of a spine for her.
- Some have an over-inflated self esteem and they think that they can "do better" than what is normally available to them. Hence you get the reply, "I have standards!"
Say what you will about these reasons, I'm not here to defend them or to bash them, but you gotta know that these reasons are pretty common. As a man, you just gotta learn how to dance around the expectations and mental gymnastics, here.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
This.
The American dating scene is feast or famine for a dude. As far as "attractiveness" goes, most dudes believe in dating in their "league". Whereas women are told on twitter every day to never settle. This ends up with the majority of chicks after the top 20-30 percentile of men.
In short they're single because they'd rather be side chick #2339593439 of Chris Brown than be a franchise player for an ordinary nikka.
Personally I don't give a fukk. I got a lot of years ahead of me. I'll just force my way into the top percentile.
Like when a woman in her 30's who forces the word "Yes" through clenched teeth across the table from a man who is far inferior to the five men in her 20's that make the current guy look like a chump?
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Fair enough. Won't be me though! If I marry, I'm gonna party through my 30's and marry a hot chick in her late 20's.
This post said pretty much everything I was gonna say but I'll still reiterate with a lil more detail
Nothing wrong with having standards.....unless they're too high, and especially if you're a 'low-standard' type of person your damn self
Nobody has a problem calling out the lames, simps and pushovers that get 'friend-zoned' by these women because they're not 'manly'/attractive enough for them…..and that's all well and good
But these same women who turn those lame nikkas down will meet a man who meets their standards....but he has another major flaw that they either downplay or ignore because it's not a part of their 'standards', like he already has a woman, or he's a criminal, or he's a player that won't take them seriously. She'll still give p*ssy to the nikka, thinking that'll snag him and end her single days, and everything will work out from there because she'll fix the other flaws(hence why so many women treat their men as a 'project'….notice how you don't see women working on lames as a 'project'; the lames are lucky if the woman even just uses them until they find someone they think is better)
Some of these women simply have the wrong type of standards. They're too worried about how tall a nikka is, how 'alpha' he is or how much money he got....and not worried enough about other shyt like if he'll beat her, cheat on her (with or without people with STD's), if he's doing illegal shyt that might catch up to both of them in the future, or if he even wants to be in a serious relationship with her in the first place. I believe that last one is the most common cause of the dreaded condition known as babymama-itis: they think just because the man they find attractive smashed them, bigged them up and talked to them for a few weeks/months, that means they're special to him, and he'll eventually stick around and play daddy and hubby for the rest of his life. Then suddenly he dips out (or gets locked up/killed in the streets), and they're left like
….and it's like "bytch….wtf did you expect?You decided a man being a 6'8" thug with a lot of money and an 'unknown' occupation, was a better potential mate/father for your kids than the safe simp who was 5'8" with minimum wage but who actually really liked you and wants to be with only you for the rest of your life"
I swear, the game is so messed up
The American dating scene is just fukked up in so many ways. If you not one of them mysterious dudes that stands your ground and don't act thirsty, you gonna suffer. Women in the social network era are mad picky and only want one type of dude: the super swagged out dude that has tons of money that is never available.
This.
The American dating scene is feast or famine for a dude. As far as "attractiveness" goes, most dudes believe in dating in their "league". Whereas women are told on twitter every day to never settle. This ends up with the majority of chicks after the top 20-30 percentile of men.
In short they're single because they'd rather be side chick #2339593439 of Chris Brown than be a franchise player for an ordinary nikka.
Personally I don't give a fukk. I got a lot of years ahead of me. I'll just force my way into the top percentile.
More like the top 10% of desirable men have 90% of the women to choose. Hypergamy in America makes sexually frustrated dudes that resort to rape and violence cause these hoes are gassed up in every form of media. I advocate for dudes to travel and meet chick from other cities/ other countries.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
I also want to throw .2 more cents in here. Women want something that doesn't exist. They want a dude that's:
-over 6 feet tall
-Is young(20's to 30s)
-has gawd status fukking skills
-makes over $100,000 a year after taxes
-Is built like an olympic athelete
-looks like he should be walkin down a Calvin Klein fashion show runway
yet SOMEHOW
-He doesn't cheat
-Doesn't talk shyt to her and cuss her out when she's pissing him off
-Won't dump her ass when she starts getting old and looking
-Is not gay
-Doesn't demand that she do freaky shyt in bed.
It's like they think that men are stupid, like if we have the power to fukk ANY bytch we want and however the hell we want to we'll only want one, and we'll only want to fukk on her terms
They hold out, waiting for this mythical man to come along riding on a unicorn that's made of silk and pisses grey goose vodka and shyts diamonds and when he doesn't show up they get all mad talmbout "men aint shyt"
They'll fukk with the dude that's paid and looks good to them, but then get mad when he realizes that he's got value and can and WILL fukk whoever he wants and tell her to start steppin when he's tired of her bullshyt.
They think they can make this guy's heart change so he has the money, looks, and skill of a true boss but the heart of a simp. Then of course when they're all old and that p*ssy been dug out and they been thrown to the side at least 200 different times, the simp will be there to take care of the babies from 4 different dudes she tried to lock down but who bounced soon as they figured out what kind of game she was tryin to run on em. Women out there know that a simp aint hard to find so they'll fukk around tryin to find this magical dude that doesn't exist with impunity cause they know that there'll be a sucker waiting in the wings talkinbout "gurl I don't care if you been with 3000 nikkas, I don't care that you're 45 but look 56, I don't care that your credit is fukked up or that you can't cook, clean, or have any sort of useful talent. I love you gurl"
Movies/Television play a huge part. Now, that I'm older, I can't watch most of the TV shows I would've watched as a teenager without
at the sheer amount of bullshyt in every storyline. I'm a broke azz college student and my tolerance level is at like 0 Kelvin. But on everyone of these shows, there's some 6"5, Ivy league billionaire playboy running around frantically trying to make some spoiled chick happy. Doing shyt that I wouldn't even do 
SATC got all average ass chicks thinking there's some Wall Street tyc00n waiting around thats gonna leave her
for her...
And they be like.....
it all boils down to being picky no matter the gender. Speaking from a male point of view in my twenties I always chased after the attractive female, damn their personality. Now i'm 30, single, no kids. I'm now paying for being superficial. There are women who are single with two, three, even four kids before there 30 because they got knocked up by somebody they were attracted but was wrong from them. Its just the way the game goes.