If you really think about it: Aren't women completely to blame if their single?

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I guess chicks look at lames the same way we look at fat bytches. Yea...we could have them. Yea....they would probably worship the ground we walk on. And yea...there's probably a bunch of them desperate for somebody to show them attention. But, they're fat bytches :ld:
 

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Their fault they're not just picking whomever just so they have a man?

You say that like it's a bad thing.

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I'm not talking about myself. Read before you post fukkboy.



who is "whoever" and why is that considered bad for them?

point is if they cant find a man, they cant blame the man for not fitting into their "standards" and look for someone that would actually want to put up with their ass
 

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Women dont have much options unfortunately, and despite what you may believe they don't want a simp they want a boss ass dude that will put her in her place.


Just because the world is full of thirsty dudes, women shouldn't have to subject themselves to them.

Quality dudes are rare, that's why they can easily have multiple women., :win:


Cosign. Men with any sense know women do not want simps(pushovers). Hell, women DO NOT want dudes who treat them ANY KIND OF decency or respect, which is different from simping but women view these respective sets of behaviors as synonymous to each other (lame,soft,boring,thirsty).
 

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Cosign. Men with any sense know women do not want simps(pushovers). Hell, women DO NOT want dudes who treat them ANY KIND OF decency or respect, which is different from simping but women view these respective sets of behaviors as synonymous to each other (lame,soft,boring,thirsty).

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Nope.
who is "whoever" and why is that considered bad for them?

point is if they cant find a man, they cant blame the man for not fitting into their "standards" and look for someone that would actually want to put up with their ass

Whomever are all the single nikkas you talmbout that get no p*ssy. How is an undesirable dude 'good' for them?

That applies to all the single women who blame men as a group for not fitting their ideal but everyone has preferences when it comes to a mate and there's no reason why one should all of a sudden despair and entertain whatever dude looks in their direction. That's how a lot of chicks get caught up with the worst person they could've ever been involved with.

Lol at looking for someone who will "put up with" them. Who the fukk seriously wants a relationship to be "put up with"?
 

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Women are scared that they may be treated as jumpoffs. Many want a dude for the long haul.

A guy whose paid and is living that great lifestyle doesn't want to be tied down, yet they still hold on to the vain hope that they can be the one to make him settle down :heh:

They won't fukk with a simp cause most simps aren't attractive to them. Theyre :flabbynsick: status and say all the wrong shyt.


This post said pretty much everything I was gonna say but I'll still reiterate with a lil more detail

Nothing wrong with having standards.....unless they're too high, and especially if you're a 'low-standard' type of person your damn self :comeon:

Nobody has a problem calling out the lames, simps and pushovers that get 'friend-zoned' by these women because they're not 'manly'/attractive enough for them…..and that's all well and good

But these same women who turn those lame nikkas down will meet a man who meets their standards....but he has another major flaw that they either downplay or ignore because it's not a part of their 'standards', like he already has a woman, or he's a criminal, or he's a player that won't take them seriously. She'll still give p*ssy to the nikka, thinking that'll snag him and end her single days, and everything will work out from there because she'll fix the other flaws :snoop: (hence why so many women treat their men as a 'project'….notice how you don't see women working on lames as a 'project'; the lames are lucky if the woman even just uses them until they find someone they think is better)

Some of these women simply have the wrong type of standards :yeshrug:. They're too worried about how tall a nikka is, how 'alpha' he is or how much money he got....and not worried enough about other shyt like if he'll beat her, cheat on her (with or without people with STD's), if he's doing illegal shyt that might catch up to both of them in the future, or if he even wants to be in a serious relationship with her in the first place. I believe that last one is the most common cause of the dreaded condition known as babymama-itis: they think just because the man they find attractive smashed them, bigged them up and talked to them for a few weeks/months, that means they're special to him, and he'll eventually stick around and play daddy and hubby for the rest of his life. Then suddenly he dips out (or gets locked up/killed in the streets), and they're left like

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….and it's like "bytch….wtf did you expect? :why: You decided a man being a 6'8" thug with a lot of money and an 'unknown' occupation, was a better potential mate/father for your kids than the safe simp who was 5'8" with minimum wage but who actually really liked you and wants to be with only you for the rest of your life"

I swear, the game is so messed up :snoop:…..and it seems like the only winners are the ones who never try to fall in love and don't mind being single for life
 

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he never said anything about money. I am not cosigning nor refuting this thread :mjpls: but are we gonna act like women do not sometimes cut dudes before ever giving them a chance to actually shine?

They have every right to use their instinct though.There are a lot of bad dudes out there so they must protect themselves.

:why: is this a issue. If they not feeling a nikka they not feeling him.

Would you get to know a katie bandz looking girl before deciding if you wanted to be with her?
 

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Whomever are all the single nikkas you talmbout that get no p*ssy. How is an undesirable dude 'good' for them?

That applies to all the single women who blame men as a group for not fitting their ideal but everyone has preferences when it comes to a mate and there's no reason why one should all of a sudden despair and entertain whatever dude looks in their direction. That's how a lot of chicks get caught up with the worst person they could've ever been involved with.

Lol at looking for someone who will "put up with" them. Who the fukk seriously wants a relationship to be "put up with"?

thats the logic I dont get....

if you dont want someone because they are "undesirable" why are you angry that the "desirable" man dont want you? Again im only talking about the women that ARE LOOKING for someone, and ARE BLAMING others than themselves for not having someone.

The only reason is superficial...and that has nothing to do with the guys you are checking for, and everything to do with the priorities of these women.


And yea believe it or not, no dude with options, and high social proof is putting up with the daily bullshyt a woman brings in relationships...aka having to keep her happy, and entertain her...a man with resources and a lifestyle that is "desirable" most likely will have zero tolerance for the average woman.


take it how you want, but thats how it goes.
 

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:why: is this a issue. If they not feeling a nikka they not feeling him.

Would you get to know a katie bandz looking girl before deciding if you wanted to be with her?

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Thats an ugly ass bytch though and has waved guns on camera. I aint built for that b :why:. Stop it 5. No need for the hyperboles; this may be a good discussion.

I have knownn girls that think a dude is attractive, he does everything well in the beginning but maybe during their second or third convo he says something offputting and he gets cut off COMPLETELY. How rational is that man? Must you always advocate for women :pachaha:? We men are dumbasses as well, but why do you act like women are perfect little angels ? :leostare:


Not all girls are like this but an overwhelming amount still are :manny:
I remember some dude saying how he knows girls that will purposely not text or reply to a dude or some shyt after daily convos as a test.

Rationale: If he just moves on without asking anything, he must have bytches on deck and be worth something.

If he starts inquiring about what went wrong or trying to contact...hes pitiful and too thirsty :russ:

Is that really rational behavior?
 

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Thats an ugly ass bytch though and has waved guns on camera. I aint built for that b :why:. Stop it 5. No need for the hyperboles; this may be a good discussion.

I have knownn girls that think a dude is attractive, he does everything well in the beginning but maybe during their second or third convo he says something offputting and he gets cut off COMPLETELY. How rational is that man? Must you always advocate for women :pachaha:? We men are dumbasses as well, but why do you act like women are perfect little angels ? :leostare:


Not all girls are like this but an overwhelming amount still are :manny:
I remember some dude saying how he knows girls that will purposely not text or reply to a dude or some shyt after daily convos as a test.

Rationale: If he just moves on without asking anything, he must have bytches on deck and be worth something.

If he starts inquiring about what went wrong or trying to contact...hes pitiful and too thirsty :russ:

Is that really rational behavior?


nope......
 

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Looks like someone's REALLY in denial about reality. The bottom line is,like some of the posters have said, a woman wants what she wants according to her values even it maybe questionable. This should be understood and respected in general along as she DOES NOT bring up bullshyt complaints in an attempt to disguise them as being legitimate.
 

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