Women are scared that they may be treated as jumpoffs. Many want a dude for the long haul.
A guy whose paid and is living that great lifestyle doesn't want to be tied down, yet they still hold on to the vain hope that they can be the one to make him settle down
They won't fukk with a simp cause most simps aren't attractive to them. Theyre

status and say all the wrong shyt.
This post said pretty much everything I was gonna say but I'll still reiterate with a lil more detail
Nothing wrong with having standards.....unless they're too high, and especially if you're a 'low-standard' type of person your damn self
Nobody has a problem calling out the lames, simps and pushovers that get 'friend-zoned' by these women because they're not 'manly'/attractive enough for them…..and that's all well and good
But these same women who turn those lame nikkas down will meet a man who meets their standards....but he has another major flaw that they either downplay or ignore because it's not a part of their 'standards', like he already has a woman, or he's a criminal, or he's a player that won't take them seriously. She'll still give p*ssy to the nikka, thinking that'll snag him and end her single days, and everything will work out from there because she'll fix the other flaws

(hence why so many women treat their men as a 'project'….notice how you don't see women working on lames as a 'project'; the lames are lucky if the woman even just uses them until they find someone they think is better)
Some of these women simply have the wrong type of standards

. They're too worried about how tall a nikka is, how 'alpha' he is or how much money he got....and not worried enough about other shyt like if he'll beat her, cheat on her (with or without people with STD's), if he's doing illegal shyt that might catch up to both of them in the future, or if he even wants to be in a serious relationship with her in the first place. I believe that last one is the most common cause of the dreaded condition known as babymama-itis: they think just because the man they find attractive smashed them, bigged them up and talked to them for a few weeks/months, that means they're special to him, and he'll eventually stick around and play daddy and hubby for the rest of his life. Then suddenly he dips out (or gets locked up/killed in the streets), and they're left like
….and it's like "bytch….wtf did you expect?

You decided a man being a 6'8" thug with a lot of money and an 'unknown' occupation, was a better potential mate/father for your kids than the safe simp who was 5'8" with minimum wage but who actually really liked you and wants to be with only you for the rest of your life"
I swear, the game is so messed up

…..and it seems like the only winners are the ones who never try to fall in love and don't mind being single for life