technically, even though America has turned into a shytshow ... its still better than most places
so like dude above me is saying ... it depends on what you define as success
alot of people dont want to come to terms with the fact that they might have to be the sacrifice for their family
and they may not directly reap the benefits from their hard work ... cause like yall are saying first page.... success gets easier each generation its handed down to
you might die and leave your kid 1.2 million ... you wont get to see the benefit of your life
but your kid will be 1.2 million ahead of everyone else... and so on and so on
as a nikka with money, I noticed everyone has too wild of expectations too
if I have 1.2 million... I can live comfortable and retire... do my own thing and invest it
when you add 2 kids and a wife... parents etc into that.... all of that 1.2 goes out the window
and thats if you start with 1.2
if you do that in reverse and have kids first and get married
you are climbing 4 hills at once
those same people complain and fight over money... they cant understand why their money is spread so thin
your investment is in your family at that point
if you have 1 kid... they inherit the 1.2 mill
if you have 2 kids ... they get like 400k each after taxes ... its a big difference the more people you add
thats not even including the cost of living until you die ... people are terrible with money
its rare to have both going at the same time... its irks me when people complain, when they are the reason they have no bread
but in that case you are the foundation... you arent gonna see the money you saved be spent on you... its for your future kids to leap off of
people dont want to jumpstart the family tree
everyone doesnt want to hear it... but sometimes just working and saving until death is the best answer... all these people are looking for a lottery ticket and its unrealistic for the first foundation. You pay your house off and leave 1 kid a good sum of money and they are set to really expand the family after you die. You have too many kids and you are not gonna save as much and they are gonna split the money 2-3 ways and spend it immediately. Then you gotta watch them do the same cycle again with their kids. That goes back with white people having 100s of years of generational wealth to fall back on (in most cases) your gonna inherit your grandfather and mothers money, and house... then your parents house and money etc etc ... but they inherited from theirs's too so you're gonna get double and so on and so on. Now the kids have 2-3 houses and 4 generations of money, on top of whatever job they already have.