If women cared as much about their actual marriage as they did about their weddings

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It's all about expectations v. reality.

Ex: You have 3 out of wedlock kids, don't work, and Ray Ray is part time at McDs.

Your wedding isn't going to be some (example) Kim Kardashian level event.

Turn off the TV wedding shows that feature people with budgets that are more than what you make in a year, go on down to city hall and do the damn thing. It's okay. lol.

There's also a level of looking at what the next woman has and feeling entitled to that because you're engaged.

Ex: That girl you know who has a Bora Bora honeymoon planned, her dad is paying. Your dad works at Target. You're not getting the same honeymoon. Log off the wedding blog shyt and browse the Holiday Inn honeymoons you can afford.

ive literally heard ladies at my work talking about wanting vera wang dresses and stuff im just like :scusthov:
 

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i'm i the only one who thinks weddings are the biggest scams out there?

it's all marketing marketing marketing, from de boers marketing engagement rings, to the big pomp and cinderella disney marketed, the establishment should be destroyed, from wedding banquet halls at 100 dollar a plate, to expensive wedding dresses, renting big churches, limos, paying thousands of dollars for photography etc.

In the good old days :smugdraper: , women just wore the best dress they had, men a reg suit, a simple wedding, aunt bernice making the cake, uncle dan taking photos on the old pentax, reception in the backyard at grandpa or the school gym rented for 50 a hour with appetizers and finger foods.

I was almost married once, thankfully my ex parents paid for all that ish and lost it all when we broke up, but if i were to ever ever think of ever getting married again, like john goodman mentioned i would just choose a island like hawaii or something or a cruise, you weed out all the fake people as only hardcore famlieies and real friends will spend that money to go, plus you can double it up as a honeymoon as well after.

i love how folks spend like 40k on thier wedding and go back to their rented apartment after the honeymoon

disgusting.
 

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these hoes look at their wedding day as their ultimate life goal. shyt is sad.

when you think of it they are brainwashed to believe if they do not get married they are a failure, talk to women 30 plus who are single all want to get married

especially when all of her friends starts tying the knot and shes always the bridesmaid never the bride it eats her up inside.

the big day is their ultimate goal, esp as they usually marry up they finally made it:skip:

they all want the cinderella wedding the pomp the ambience, i mean look at a woman beyond 30 no kids no ring you start to wonder why?
 

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Why do you think women love going to weddings?They dont go to hear the "vows" they go to catch the damn bouquet.You guys ever notice how women will fight,push,pull hair just to catch some flowers?They fight for it like a loose ball.
 

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when you think of it they are brainwashed to believe if they do not get married they are a failure, talk to women 30 plus who are single all want to get married

especially when all of her friends starts tying the knot and shes always the bridesmaid never the bride it eats her up inside.

the big day is their ultimate goal, esp as they usually marry up they finally made it:skip:

they all want the cinderella wedding the pomp the ambience, i mean look at a woman beyond 30 no kids no ring you start to wonder why?

i aint gonna lie if/when i get married this is what im going to do.

buy a nice ass ring setup.

buy a nice ass suit and a nice ass dress for her.

go to the fukking courthouse, then take excellent pictures after.

pay for a great dinner for our families, then a great hotel for only me and her.

/end. that should cost no more than $10K max in today's dollars.

if she wants a more traditional wedding, i'll save up for it and do it on a big anniversary 10th anniversary or something.
 

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i aint gonna lie if/when i get married this is what im going to do.

buy a nice ass ring setup.

buy a nice ass suit and a nice ass dress for her.

go to the fukking courthouse, then take excellent pictures after.

pay for a great dinner for our families, then a great hotel for only me and her.

/end. that should cost no more than $10K max in today's dollars.

if she wants a more traditional wedding, i'll save up for it and do it on a big anniversary 10th anniversary or something.


In this day and age you can go to the park buy a dslr and get one of your boys to take your pictures.

Hell the last wedding I went to my 300 dollar camera took beyter pictures than the expensive photographer they hired
 

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ive literally heard ladies at my work talking about wanting vera wang dresses and stuff im just like :scusthov:

Here's the thing, that's totally fine if it's something you can afford to have. There are women for whom a gown like that is nothing to them or their parents. The issue arises when you want that, and feel entitled to that but your budget says Sears.

My rule for wedding things: If it stresses you financially and is going to cause you to start your marriage out in debt, or you're constantly wondering how you're going to pay for _____, it's not for you to have.

Ex: Everybody on Bridezilla who is all OMG!!! over their budget and paying for things. They feel entitled to what they can't afford and it's starting the MARRIAGE off on the wrong foot.
 

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Don't wife immature broads bruhs...and save your boys from doing the same ..

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i've only met one woman who SEEMS to be marriage material. but she's been in an LTR since 06 and it doesnt look like they're breaking up anytime soon.
 

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Women do it, so they can be the boss bytch of their lil crew. They want to be seen as the top notch one. The "prize". Boss bytch living. So all her friends can be envious and try to aspire to be as great as her.













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