If she cheats on you but still likes & love you - is it that bad?

[HelgaPataki]

I said women and you are talking about individuals, find me a quote that mentions women look at sex the same way as men with facts to back it up

there are 2 genders. if someone writes something about one gender, it is easy to refer to that. when a term such as "individuals" is used, obviously they are talking about both genders. do you think individuals just meant men but they wanted to be vague? in a study?

 

[The Nigerian]

Women are a waste of time on the whole.

 

[BrothaZay]

I love black women, but I hate black men. I can't blame them for cheating on us every now and then

 

[Nintendough]

I hate black men. I can't blame them for cheating on us every now and then

So your now?


Neg rep

 

[GetSomeMoney]

there are 2 genders. if someone writes something about one gender, it is easy to refer to that. when a term such as "individuals" is used, obviously they are talking about both genders. do you think individuals just meant men but they wanted to be vague? in a study?

again

Again my comment was women naturally view sex differently than men and you are talking individual, you quoted my comment about women looking at sex differently, I didn't say anything about each person. Is there influence from society about sex, yes, but to ignore that there are natural elements at play is naive. Here do a little reading

Study: Men and Women Look for Different Things When Considering Casual Sex | Fox News

Sex Drive: How Do Men and Women Compare?

 

[Frump]

Nah with women its different,a Man can cheat on his women[im not condoning it] and love his girl he just had a moment of weakness and horniness a women usually cheats because of yes physical too but also emotional needs

My boys fukked up he preys on married women and tells me how women are connection/bond junkies who are impulsive and not logical so he connects with him feeds em a few over the top corny lines about how their soulmates and women eat it up because theyre not mentally strong enough to fight that feeling

 

[Mountain]

"Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context," says Edward O. Laumann, PhD, a professor of sociology at the University of Chicago and lead author of a major survey of sexual practices, The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States.

The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day, reports Laumann. Only about one-quarter of women report this level of frequency. As men and women age, each fantasize less, but men still fantasize about twice as often.

In a comprehensive survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies.

Testosterone. A fast-acting, aggressive, hormone and driver of sex. Men have 10 to 100 times more testosterone than women, enabling men to engage in interpersonal conflict and competition. The higher the level of testosterone, the more interest there is in winning the game, gaining the power, and defending the territory through strength, and the less interest there is in high quality social relationships.

Men and women travel slightly different paths to arrive at sexual desire. "I hear women say in my office that desire originates much more between the ears than between the legs," says Esther Perel, a New York City psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity. "For women there is a need for a plot -- hence the romance novel. It is more about the anticipation, how you get there; it is the longing that is the fuel for desire," Perel says.

Women's desire "is more contextual, more subjective, more layered on a lattice of emotion," Perel adds. Men, by contrast, don't need to have nearly as much imagination, Perel says, since sex is simpler and more straightforward for them.

Edit: lol shouldnt have called you that, my bad @HelgaPataki.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Nah with women its different,a Man can cheat on his women[im not condoning it] and love his girl he just had a moment of weakness and horniness a women usually cheats because of yes physical too but also emotional needs

My boys fukked up he preys on married women and tells me how women are connection/bond junkies who are impulsive and not logical so he connects with him feeds em a few over the top corny lines about how their soulmates and women eat it up because theyre not mentally strong enough to fight that feeling

what type of lines he using?

 

[HelgaPataki]

Here do a little reading

Study: Men and Women Look for Different Things When Considering Casual Sex | Fox News

Sex Drive: How Do Men and Women Compare?

you want me to read a study from fox news

Men and women travel slightly different paths to arrive at sexual desire. "I hear women say in my office that desire originates much more between the ears than between the legs," says Esther Perel, a New York City psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity. "For women there is a need for a plot -- hence the romance novel. It is more about the anticipation, how you get there; it is the longing that is the fuel for desire," Perel says.

Women's desire "is more contextual, more subjective, more layered on a lattice of emotion," Perel adds. Men, by contrast, don't need to have nearly as much imagination, Perel says, since sex is simpler and more straightforward for them.

this quote is about getting a woman in the mood.

Testosterone. A fast-acting, aggressive, hormone and driver of sex. Men have 10 to 100 times more testosterone than women, enabling men to engage in interpersonal conflict and competition. The higher the level of testosterone, the more interest there is in winning the game, gaining the power, and defending the territory through strength, and the less interest there is in high quality social relationships.

this quote is about competition. when does sex mean interpersonal conflict and competition

The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day, reports Laumann. Only about one-quarter of women report this level of frequency.
In a comprehensive survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies.

since a girl doesn't fantasize daily she's not going to cheat?

"Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context,"

this just proves my point. society is apart of environment i have been called a dike and a skeaze. you now have examples of punishment women receive for daring to speak out on sexuality.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Men cheat because they want something different..

Women cheat because they want something better..

If a woman cheats on you, it means she doesn't respect you & looks at you as weak in some way..

How to Prevent Cheating by Your Girlfriend | Girls Chase

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

read deep stuff, because thats exactly what happened:

Women were more likely to accept the apartment and bed requests from an exceptionally attractive man than from either a moderately attractive or slightly unattractive man. For instance, female students reported an average rating of about 2 for a slightly unattractive guy, compared with an 8 for an exceptionally attractive suitor.

Such choosiness for short-term sex could be explained by the so-called good genes hypothesis, in which women, for instance, prefer guys who show some feature indicating strong genes that can be passed down to offspring, say the researchers.
While the current study considered general attractiveness, past research has revealed women look for masculine facial features, such as square jaws, when choosing a fling and more feminine facial traits - perhaps because it indicates less testosterone and a more faithful father - in a long-term mate. (Masculine features can indicate high testosterone, which could mean the guy is strong and healthy - traits women would want to pass on to progeny - but such a guy could also be more likely to cheat, research shows.)


Read more: Study: Men and Women Look for Different Things When Considering Casual Sex | Fox News

 

[sixsixtwo]

Yep.. Sexy son hypothesis..

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

If you're IN love with someone, theres no way you can just hop into bed with the next person and fukk them. It just doesn't work that way.

lol give a broad tons of alcohol and a good looking charming dude saying the right things and 99% willl cheat if they can get away with it

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Men have every incentive to have sex to pass along their genetic material, Laumann says. By contrast, women may be hard-wired to choose their partners carefully, because they are the ones who can get pregnant and wind up taking care of the baby. They are likely to be more attuned to relationship quality because they want a partner who will stay around to take care of the child. They're also more likely to choose a man with resources because of his greater ability to support a child.

http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare?page=2

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

fukk all this sceintific shyt thats kinda of condoning or explaining why women cheat,women cheat just like men because they see a hot piece of ass and they get tempted and maybe their boyfriend/husband only complimented them 32 times in a week instead of the 50 they need

AS i said give a married women alcohol a charming good looking dude and the husband nowhere to be found and chances shell stray are high

Do they do it for emotional reasons at times to? sure but does that make it right just because a married women will fukk a dude becasue they have a connection and he made her laugh?