If she cheats on you but still likes & love you - is it that bad?

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

A chick that cheats on her man doesn't love her man. End of story. She doesn't love her man enough to not cheat on him

Seen it both way...a while ago:

on business trip, she was there for a convention, was drinking at the bar, ended up in my hotel (no driving ), 3 model looking chicks in my hotel room (smh, i thought they just wanted to drink) anyways, she told her friend to leave, that she wanted me, and they left, and she jumped on. Find out after, she had a hubby with kids in NY.

another while ago:
went to bar, had a single chick come over to place with her friend,
had my male friend come over.

chick i was macking was single. her friend was married.
my friend kept macking the drunk married girl, she would not give in.
ended kicking the single female friend and her gf, out, at 4am, and she went to her married friends home, after.

the married chick was drunk and didnt give in, a first.

 

[HelgaPataki]

so she wanna get that nut out? and then return home, to normalcy?

i think for women who go wild on vacation it is just about the relaxing part. relaxing by not having to care what others think about you because for the next few days you'll be living in a world where everyone is a stranger. she might not even want to return to regular life.

More like you're trying your absolute hardest to ignore the fact that cheating is wrong

Where did I indicate that one is not worse than the other? I compared the two because the same way someone can make the wrong decision to cheat, a nikka can also make the wrong decision to Tiger Uppercut his wife after finding out about her affair.

just because someone does something you dislike doesn't mean you hit them. i never said cheating was right. i just said it doesn't mean she doesn't love him. i look forward to reading your disapproving posts in threads where men cheat

 

[Metta World Movement]

just because someone does something you dislike doesn't mean you hit them. i never said cheating was right. i just said it doesn't mean she doesn't love him.

Then you and I simply have different definitions of what love is, and therefore it makes no sense arguing about that because we'll never agree. As for that first sentence, I can just as easily say "just because someone does something you dislike doesn't mean you cheat on them".

i look forward to reading your disapproving posts in threads where men cheat

Enjoy

I have no problem with a person who wants multiple sex partners while keeping a main - as long as they're real about it and their main knows exactly what the deal is from the beginning. Problem is, a lot of these nikkas would never tell their girl this because they know she'll be thinkin' "Well if he can get his on the side, then......". Those same nikkas who are like to the idea of cheating on their girl would either leave, catch a case or jump off a building if she did the same shyt to them and they found out........yet she's supposed to stay after catching you with some hoodrat

Personally, that's all I need to know right there

My only issue in this topic is girls who cheat on dudes (well, people who cheat on other people, really) who they CAN'T say for certain cheated first

Once the dude messes around first, he can't say shyt afterwards if the woman does the same thing later, not even if she claims she forgives him (can't be mad at her for setting him up for the eventual ether ). Just my opinion....because I know a lot of dudes will disagree

 

[Grifter]

Are you watching Next Top Model, cause I remember VH1 ragging on a moment like that.

 

[HelgaPataki]

I can just as easily say "just because someone does something you dislike doesn't mean you cheat on them".

that'd make sense if i said she cheated on him because of something he did. i said in my first post she gives into temptation, which is independent of whether her boyfriend does something wrong or not

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

i think for women who go wild on vacation it is just about the relaxing part. relaxing by not having to care what others think about you because for the next few days you'll be living in a world where everyone is a stranger. she might not even want to return to regular life.

because she is single/married/dating/etc?

what reason would she not want "regularity"?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Are you watching Next Top Model, cause I remember VH1 ragging on a moment like that.

RHONY

rich hoes.

entertaining. its another perspective on life. or rather their lifestyle/thought process.

 

[kevm3]

If she cheats on me, she can continue to 'love me' in her mind because she won't have the opportunity to love me any longer in the physical form.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

maybe your dicc didnt compare to the dude she cheated with on you with :l

 

[Uffie]

some women can also have sex with men and not feel anything for him afterwards, it's a called a one night stand and/or being drunk and not caring. just wanna fukk.

now being in a relationship and cheating? then she did it for a reason... either because he wasnt doing something right or she dont really love him and wanna settle down with just him.

this is why everyone who fukks around should just be single, that way you're not hurting nobody : )

 

[Killer Instinct]

sometimes women cheat. that doesn't mean they don't love you. they just gave into temptation. it happens. her covering it up is a sign of her love. if she was sloppy with it then that show she doesn't care

 

[Steve Murray]

Yes it IS that bad.

 

[R=G]

What kind of question is this? Trolls are buck wild in 2012

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

real questions

 

[Family Man]

sometimes women cheat. that doesn't mean they don't love you. they just gave into temptation. it happens. her covering it up is a sign of her love. if she was sloppy with it then that show she doesn't care

I fukks with Helga and her