“If my partner requested a DNA test at birth, I’d agree, prove the truth, then leave because the trust is gone. It’s a DEALBREAKER for me”

[Gloxina]

If it were us, you'd have already BEEN known and understood that it was a boundary i established for myself years before i met you.

You'd respect and honor that boundary of course, wouldn't you babe?

Don’t try to butter me up

Lol




I was really being facetious.


Get whatever testing you want.

I do want a fire ass push present regardless, babe.

 

[Umoja]

How do you feel about men who move on to another woman and leave their wives and children destitute because they just want a new woman?


Actually have a home girl who was a stay at home wife going through that right now. Husband was cheating and is laid up with a white chick right now while his Black wife and Black kids all at home picking up the pieces

This isn't a question that should be asked of men as we don't have a hard time appreciating a woman’s need for security.

If a woman talks about wanting marriage, the conversation doesn't become about her lack of trust. "What's the matter babe. Don't you trust me to stay".

The gaslighting must stop.

 

[Mugenight]

Seriously, at this point as usual it's entirely men's fault for entertaining this dumb shyt in the first place, the moment you see that they don't want to understand on purpose matters that offer nothing but peace of mind you move accordingly.

 

[V Skyye]

That’s what I’m thinking, some of the folks on here make it sounds like the only relationships out there are dysfunctional, where them and their partner are always out to get each other. I see the point of what the OP tweet is saying, but I also feel mad sorry for young men that have been influenced by rep pill GARBAGE. Being in a committed, healthy relationship where this kind of trash doesn’t need to be done is actually normal, but some dudes on here read the very worst situation on YouTube (which are just rage bait bullshyt 99% of the time) and apply it to 100% of all women. They screaming about this shyt, but at the same time they be scaring the hoes right out the gate, and no chick gonna lay with them anyway unless they tricking out here

A lot of these conversations are being led by older men with baggage who can’t maintain relationships and will probably never marry. If they do have children, they wont get a paternity test because they want to avoid child support. The government is not paying for paternity tests because of poor sexual decisions from a segment of people having out of wedlock kids. If any man really wanted a paternity test they could take their kid and go and get one at any time. But most people having these conversations are just pushing gender wars and bringing negative attention to black men, women, and children.

 

[spacewraith]

Paternity fraud can happen with or without marriage

Exactly, marriage doesn't guarantee fidelity

 

[feelosofer]

Why hospitals don't do this in 2024 is wild.

 

[StayOffMe]

Shorty feels like that until it’s her son having his first child.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Burn this shyt down

 

[Apollo Creed]

Shorty feels like that until it’s her son having his first child.

Whores use their sons of human sacrifices to the demons they worship at this point lol

 

[KidJSoul]

How do you feel about men who move on to another woman and leave their wives and children destitute because they just want a new woman?


Actually have a home girl who was a stay at home wife going through that right now. Husband was cheating and is laid up with a white chick right now while his Black wife and Black kids all at home picking up the pieces

I think those men are scum

Can you answer my question now? Instead of bringing up something that doesn't even work as a comparison?

 

[Gloxina]

That’s what I’m thinking, some of the folks on here make it sounds like the only relationships out there are dysfunctional, where them and their partner are always out to get each other. I see the point of what the OP tweet is saying, but I also feel mad sorry for young men that have been influenced by rep pill GARBAGE. Being in a committed, healthy relationship where this kind of trash doesn’t need to be done is actually normal, but some dudes on here read the very worst situation on YouTube (which are just rage bait bullshyt 99% of the time) and apply it to 100% of all women. They screaming about this shyt, but at the same time they be scaring the hoes right out the gate, and no chick gonna lay with them anyway unless they tricking out here

A lot of these conversations are being led by older men with baggage who can’t maintain relationships and will probably never marry. If they do have children, they wont get a paternity test because they want to avoid child support. The government is not paying for paternity tests because of poor sexual decisions from a segment of people having out of wedlock kids. If any man really wanted a paternity test they could take their kid and go and get one at any time. But most people having these conversations are just pushing gender wars and bringing negative attention to black men, women, and children.

 

[KillerB88]

This

Why are we pretending this isn't a thing??

Even Kerry Washington didn't know that her father wasn't her biological father until recently. And her Mom wasn't even thotting, she was conceived via sperm donor.

That's just one example. The more typical examples are people having a fight, the woman fukking someone else, and lacking the accountability to either use protection, get an abortion, or inform the man that there's a possibility that the child is not his.

My homie literally went through that with one of his exes and the entire pregnancy he knew it was a possibility. Kid was born and got tested and he wasn't the father and it crushed him and of course ended the relationship.

Sorry breh. That was already debunked. A timeline was established between when Kerry was born and first successful IVF birth.

 

[Luke Cage]

break up a family because the biological father wanted to see the dna results? Yeah right, sounds more like a guilty person trying to dissuade a dude from finding out he's not the dad. She threatening you not to ask.

be like saying if a man requests prenup we aint getting married. What does the prenup matter if you don't plan on getting divorced?

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The long and short of it is this:

If you think the woman you're with would ever cheat on you, you need to end that relationship now.

If you have no reason to suspect she would ever do that then you're not going to have doubts about the paternity of your child. It all boils down to trust. If you don't trust the woman you're with, you are wasting your time pretending to be in a relationship with her. Wrap it up and move on to a woman you can trust.

If you can't trust any women because deep down you have a suspicious nature, then relationships aren't for you. Have some jump offs and keep a roster of friends with benefits and just enjoy your privacy and not sharing your space 24/7 with someone else. It's a lot of men out there that THINK they want a relationship until they actually get into one and then fukking hate it. They hate being told that they spend too much time with their friends instead of her. They hate being told they're gaming too much. They hate being told that they focus too much on their physical health and appearance. They hate being told that they're spending too much or not enough. In short, they hate that someone is living with them and continuously chiming in on the decisions they're making or not making. They miss their old lifestyle and are merely TOLERATING the woman they're with.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Swab lil breh mouth in secret