Society brainwashes these dudes into thinking that all chicks have to be a part of this bullshyt. Like having a nerdy homebody wife is not an option now.
If a girl loves to eat out, travel, try new things and hates staying home. Throw AZZ in Bushes!!!
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Society brainwashes these dudes into thinking that all chicks have to be a part of this bullshyt. Like having a nerdy homebody wife is not an option now.
Elle Driver
Veteran
All you need to do is find a like minded individual. 
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
is there any pro oft that backs this?
A homebody wouldn't make a better girlfriend/wife for me because I hate homebodies and lames
mcdivit85
Superstar
Are you insinuating that a homebody is automatically a lame, good sir? If so, please explain this correlation for my ignorant mind.
The proof is esoteric because its my own experiences....in the real world of concrete and double-speaking trollops. And since that is the only thing that I can reply with, I guess you will throw it in the bushes....that's fine.
I know plenty of dudes who, maybe like you, thought having an "out and about" chick was fly..."yea cuz she get bread and be fly like me." I feel you...as she was out and about with dude on several of those occassions....I have been so lucky to be that dude on some of those....some great fun was had....her money was well spent....or maybe I should say her dude's money...doesn't matter at this point. I've also been the homie of that dude who was out with the "out and about" chick before they ended the night alone...hey, more fun times.
But being that I have seen this from the field and the spectator box, I can honestly say that if your woman is always out in the streets....then she always out in the streets...but she aint alone. And some of those "girls night out" are truly girls night out...she just forgot to mention that the girls part ended early and the dude part started. I have not known ONE MAN who had a "out and about" girlfriend/wife who didn't find out that she was cheating....not ONE.
I would advise any dude who likes a woman who's always busy to keep them in the casual dating zone, not the girlfriend/wife zone.
Peace
Some of these retards on the Coli kill me
That's not how real life works anyway. My mom likes getting her nails and hair done. My girl does too. What's the big deal?
Not all women who work on airlines are the partying type though. Just because a woman likes to eat out and travel doesn't mean she can't be a good wife. Basically the traits that make for a good wife are 1) responsibility 2) maturity 3) a good heart and 4) intellect. These can be equally found in an extroverted as an introverted woman. They are not exclusive to introverted. A man interested in finding a good wife should evaluate potential women to the point of understanding every woman's nuance and potentiality. Only then can he make the final decision and be relatively confident he has made the right choice.
I respect your opinion but I disagree with it. I just stated this chic I dated was the partying type and wasn't labeling all flight attendants as party types. The divorce rate with those in the travel industry is high. The quality of life and relationship with these birds are nil to none. http://www.sandiegodivorcecenter.com/jobs-that-lead-to-divorce . I know you heard don't ever wife a chic you meet at a club, OP saying the same thing.
My statement wasnt meant to label women who are extroverts as the non-marriage-material type. What OP stated has some truth to it and should be heeded by those looking for good characteristics in a mate. Every relationship is different and you stated four qualities of a good mate. I on the other for example might want a visually attractive woman with a fat ass, and can cook , along with all those qualities you just mentioned and someone else might want a church girl who is a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed.
You are correct that a man should evaluate a woman who he wants to be a potential mate. How does one evaluate...the answer to that would be to do some research, heed wise words from those that have had experience with the type woman you evaluating, you can also read up on relationships, talk to your pastor, talk to your grandmother, uncle etc and get sound advice to make a good decision just like you would evaluate the performance of a stock before investing.
A chic eating out all the time won't appreciate a home cook meal, a chic partying all the time looking for excitement won't appreciate the little things and big things that matter at home or with a family. The only way a woman like OP described can be successful is if she is with someone exactly like her and have the means and resources to sustain that life, but here is the catcher, at some point one of the two will get tired. I seen this time and time again.
Let them learn the hard way. When they get a baby with or marry a "bad bytch", and she flips on them, watch them start dissing women or talking about they don't love these hoes. The same with a chick who needs a man like that. A hard head makes a soft ass.
DeVanteSwing
Flop Champion
She gotta be able to cook her own food and do her dishes while i play GTA V too
add that in OP
add that in OP
BlackBieber
Banned
darius19
R.I.P. Kobe and Nip, that’s off the rip
I understand the premise of this thread, but thats an extreme title if I ever saw one lol
I think basically it boils down to chicks that OP is talking about who can't stay home, always need to be out, etc. are chicks who aren't comfortable being alone, and thus they are chicks with low self-esteem, which I think we can all agree is something to avoid
I think basically it boils down to chicks that OP is talking about who can't stay home, always need to be out, etc. are chicks who aren't comfortable being alone, and thus they are chicks with low self-esteem, which I think we can all agree is something to avoid
Yall nikkas troll too hard sometimes. SMH
cosigns
Try to give these dudes some gems, but they'll have to learn the hard way.
The type of chicks I'm talking about need constant excitement in their lives. When you tie them down into marriage with kids. It will be like bring home a cheetah to live like a domestic cat.
These women make up a majority of the 75% that initiate divorce. These are the type of women that will leave her man and family to "to go find herself."
These are also the type of woman that go on all of these adventures just to show up other women on Facebook and Instagram. The actually enjoy the bragging and comments, than they do the actual trip or adventure.
A lot of you dumb men think none of this matters. I'm telling you dudes, do not wife a restless woman.
The type of chicks I'm talking about need constant excitement in their lives. When you tie them down into marriage with kids. It will be like bring home a cheetah to live like a domestic cat.
These women make up a majority of the 75% that initiate divorce. These are the type of women that will leave her man and family to "to go find herself."
These are also the type of woman that go on all of these adventures just to show up other women on Facebook and Instagram. The actually enjoy the bragging and comments, than they do the actual trip or adventure.
A lot of you dumb men think none of this matters. I'm telling you dudes, do not wife a restless woman.
