@ the extremity of the title. Chiks who don't like doing anything are usually boring and fat. Remember that.
If a girl loves to eat out, travel, try new things and hates staying home. Throw AZZ in Bushes!!!
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@ the extremity of the title. Chiks who don't like doing anything are usually boring and fat. Remember that.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
thank God my wife is a true wife
she cooks for me, cleans, is smart, ain't into all that 'getting my nails did' crap, pro-black, pushes my lil son on education
she's a beautiful soul brehs
Getting your nails done is a bad thing now?
Can't like to travel, can't like trying new things, can't like getting your nails done.
godkiller
"We are the Fury"
It is possible for a girl to like eating out, travelling, trying new things, etc as well as cooking together, watching movies and joking.
Or maybe she sees you as her adventurous love interest and life mate. There are many couples who have adventures together and grow closer because of it. If I was an adventurous guy I'd want a woman like me.
Psuedo-philosophy bullshyt. Women are more complicated than you make them out to be. Every woman is an individual and should be evaluated on those merits.
mcdivit85
Superstar
I get what the OP is saying. Basically, if you're with a chick that CAN'T be happy with you at home and HAS to be out and about all the time, then she is not relationship material. I have seen it with my own two eyes how dudes will get with women that are always in the streets-go out with their girlfriends to happy hour 3 days a week, hang out at the newest bars downtown every Saturday night for "girls night out", always going to this or that party, etc.
Dudes were literally having to fight to squeeze in time with their chick. If your chick wants to spend more time with her homegirls and getting BS attention from dudes at random public spaces than you....SHE IS NOT YOUR CHICK! Alot of dudes have rent-a-girlfriends right now.
This may not be popular, but homebodies usually make better girlfriends/wives. Before the myopic responses roll in, being a homebody doesn't mean that a person never wants to leave the house, travel or have a "night on the town." It means that they are comfortable being at home alone or with their partner without any outside stimuli.
Every dude that I know who dated an "out and about" kind of chick ended up finding out that she "was out and about" with some dude(s) who she forgot to mention. Oh, and she slipped, tripped and fell on his....well, you know.
Peace
Dudes were literally having to fight to squeeze in time with their chick. If your chick wants to spend more time with her homegirls and getting BS attention from dudes at random public spaces than you....SHE IS NOT YOUR CHICK! Alot of dudes have rent-a-girlfriends right now.
This may not be popular, but homebodies usually make better girlfriends/wives. Before the myopic responses roll in, being a homebody doesn't mean that a person never wants to leave the house, travel or have a "night on the town." It means that they are comfortable being at home alone or with their partner without any outside stimuli.
Every dude that I know who dated an "out and about" kind of chick ended up finding out that she "was out and about" with some dude(s) who she forgot to mention. Oh, and she slipped, tripped and fell on his....well, you know.
Peace
I think OP's point was not that girls who enjoy those things are not worthy of a relationship but that girls who aren not capable of doing anything but those things should be looked at with hesitation
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
she cooks for me, cleans, is smart, ain't into all that 'getting my nails did' crap, pro-black, pushes my lil son on education
she's a beautiful soul brehs
I'mma be real with you.
Sounds like your wife has no life and minimal to no female friends with a lack luster appearance. Even the most basic chicks like to get their nails done and be pampered.
You like that though so I guess
The stuff you listed is important, but so is your wife having self-esteem/fun/her time.
Never marry to an extroverted chick that was raised in America. Never. If she goes out to the club, eats out, and attention whores, then she jumpoff material.
godkiller
"We are the Fury"
Getting your nails done is a bad thing now?
Can't like to travel, can't like trying new things, can't like getting your nails done.
Some of these retards on the Coli kill me
That's not how real life works anyway. My mom likes getting her nails and hair done. My girl does too. What's the big deal?
Not all women who work on airlines are the partying type though. Just because a woman likes to eat out and travel doesn't mean she can't be a good wife. Basically the traits that make for a good wife are 1) responsibility 2) maturity 3) a good heart and 4) intellect. These can be equally found in an extroverted as an introverted woman. They are not exclusive to introverted. A man interested in finding a good wife should evaluate potential women to the point of understanding every woman's nuance and potentiality. Only then can he make the final decision and be relatively confident he has made the right choice.
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godkiller
"We are the Fury"
What he's saying is that a good wife can't be all about making bread because then she probably won't invest time in a marriage. But the same can be said of men obsessed with making bread. I feel people should be judged on an individual basis because there are both men and women interested in making bread as well as raising a family. There are also both men and women who are bread obsessed and aren't good candidates or family life.
As a rule though, it probably isn't the best choice to try marrying a chick that still goes clubbing 3 nights a week.
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Getting your nails done is a bad thing now?
Can't like to travel, can't like trying new things, can't like getting your nails done.
no its not bad but she isn't hung up on those things. Those aren't necessities to her. Things that must be done is about getting her son/my son on the honor roll....making sure he's on point about his history etc. Those are the important things to her.
I seriously can help you travel for cheap. I'm not kidding,
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
Nice. Help me out!
hit me up on the PM if you serious.
Nah, we just don't believe in super-extroverted women that hates being alone with her mate for a good portion of the time.
she cooks for me, cleans, is smart, ain't into all that 'getting my nails did' crap, pro-black, pushes my lil son on education
she's a beautiful soul brehs
This is the wife I would like to have.