I was a 20 year old virgin. I hated telling people that because people would either
or
I was into that whole virginity thing was special and was waiting on the right one, not necessarily waiting for marriage but i did want that night to be "special." The guy I did lose my virginity to, I read on his twitter the next day something to the effect of he can like a girl but only love a real woman. And I never heard from him again. Although he was the only one I felt like the biggest whore on the earth. I hadn't even told my closest friends i lost it because i was so ashamed. Luckily I'm not a petty female and wasnt on some n*ggas ain't sh*t mode like most. I was close tho.
But anyway, men need to stop having these skewed ideas about a woman being a virgin=pure and virtuous bullshyt. I don't understand the point of demonization women for engaging in an act as natural as sex. I'm not justifying women being whores, they still get the
face, but why is it bad for a woman to have a sex life? A virgin can still be just as trifling, conniving, manipulative, and low down and any other female. To be honest, other virgins my age I knew were super judgmental, stuck up, and snobbish. Plus Y'all don't know what y'all want anyway. How many of y'all say this but when a big booty light skinned Instagram gets shown you all over her. Your daughter is going to lose her virginity one day, and chances are it won't be with her husband. You gonna spit into a cup and hand it to her too?
And stop using that whole "men were made to be polygamous" and whatnot. That's just an excuse. If anything, the woman is the one that should have the multiple partners since she has such a shallow window to get pregnant whereas y'all spill out billions of little sperm. Stop reaching for shyt to justify your pathetic double standard.