I would’ve did the same

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Accountability. Should I have to tell you please enjoy our date and keep your phone out your face?
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I wonder what that screen time look like? This new generation is something else. Social media over everything unfortunately.

Some young cats out here don’t find it disrespectful because they do the same. We lack phone etiquette now a days. You see phones in movies, meetings, military formations, appointments. These phones is crack.
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Grown ass adults can’t communicate now lol

Shorty could have been responding to her parent a kid etc. Setting an alarm for work :russ:

Even if she was texting another guy. Let her know u not feeling what she on. Then move accordingly. Breh the type to just be in the talking stage & lie about speaking to other women.
You can accomplish the same thing without saying a word and leaving. Coulda woulda shoulda is for kids. It’s about what what actually occurred.

“This is my mom calling, it’ll just be a sec. Do you mind?”…everyone would understand and oblige that if that is what happened. We know it didn’t.
 

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You can accomplish the same thing without saying a word and leaving. Coulda woulda shoulda is for kids. It’s about what what actually occurred.

“This is my mom calling, it’ll just be a sec. Do you mind?”…everyone would understand and oblige that if that is what happened. We know it didn’t.
Exactly. All it takes is a demonstration of mutual respect to get people to oblige a valid action. Too many of them have been raised to accept disrespect just to be in the presence of a pretty face it seems.
 

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Bytch got left on read IRL :russ:

To all you dummies calling him a "clown", "Insecure" and saying he lacks communication skills, wake up. Any dude with a brain knows exactly what she was doing. She was talking to the nikka she was going to fukk after this dude wasted his time and money.


#MoreThanAVagina


You shouldnt even be thinking about what a woman is going to do or not do with her vagina on a first date. At what point as a man do we think beyond p*ssy. At what point do we act like weve been there before.


So what she used a phone for 30 seconds. If she continuously does it,or does it while your talking thats bad manners. But many women just lack home training. Thats your job as a man to show her whats appropriate. Walking off like a angry child on a T.v sitcom with the live audience saying "awww" in the back,very unmasculine:respect:
 

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Grown ass adults can’t communicate now lol

Shorty could have been responding to her parent a kid etc. Setting an alarm for work :russ:

Even if she was texting another guy. Let her know u not feeling what she on. Then move accordingly. Breh the type to just be in the talking stage & lie about speaking to other women.

Works both ways. The woman could've also communicated by briefly mentioning this beforehand as a common courtesy instead of rudely checking her phone once the meal was ordered.
 

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#MoreThanAVagina


You shouldnt even be thinking about what a woman is going to do or not do with her vagina on a first date. At what point as a man do we think beyond p*ssy. At what point do we act like weve been there before.


So what she used a phone for 30 seconds. If she continuously does it,or does it while your talking thats bad manners. But many women just lack home training. Thats your job as a man to show her whats appropriate. Walking off like a angry child on a T.v sitcom with the live audience saying "awww" in the back,very unmasculine:respect:

Man get the fukk outta here with that...It's not my job to show an adult stranger shyt. If she doesn't have enough decency to do something as basic as turning her phone off when on a first date, she ain't shyt to begin with. And not halfway through the date to check on something. Or to tell someone that the date is cool, and she feels safe...But before they even ordered? Nah bruh...How do you know he walked off angry Mr. "I keep a glock on my nightstand just in case shorty get's cold feet"? You couldn't have gathered that from a 30 second contextless video. She just said it, and ya'll lapped it up as gospel.
 

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Man get the fukk outta here with that...It's not my job to show an adult stranger shyt. If she doesn't have enough decency to do something as basic as turning her phone off when on a first date, she ain't shyt to begin with. And not halfway through the date to check on something. Or to tell someone that the date is cool, and she feels safe...But before they even ordered? Nah bruh...How do you know he walked off angry Mr. "I keep a glock on my nightstand just in case shorty get's cold feet"? You couldn't have gathered that from a 30 second contextless video. She just said it, and ya'll lapped it up as gospel.



So your goofy ass thinks he wasted his time,came to a date. And left because he was happy:mjlol:?


But your obviously a child,so makes sense you have this mentality. I completely cosign your screenname in regards to you:respect:
 

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So your goofy ass thinks he wasted his time,came to a date. And left because he was happy:mjlol:?


But your obviously a child,so makes sense you have this mentality. I completely cosign your screenname in regards to you:respect:

Your view of this situation is so myopic it isn't even funny. Look, I know your head is so far up your ass that you can't realize that not you, me or anyone else has the right to define the boundaries of another man. And once his were crossed he acted accordingly. Contrary to what you think he didn't display anger at all. He displayed indifference.

He didn't argue
He didn't fight
He didn't correct

He just left.

you can call me a child until you're blue in the face...but what you can't call me is a rapist...like you.
 

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Your view of this situation is so myopic it isn't even funny. Look, I know your head is so far up your ass that you can't realize that not you, me or anyone else has the right to define the boundaries of another man. And once his were crossed he acted accordingly. Contrary to what you think he didn't display anger at all. He displayed indifference.

He didn't argue
He didn't fight
He didn't correct

He just left.

you can call me a child until you're blue in the face...but what you can't call me is a rapist...like you.


Doesnt get more myopic then saying "no one has the right to define the boundaries of another man". When we live in a society that functions on having a knowledge of what the common boundaries are and acting accordingly. And how to respond when someone crosses them,or goes outside the norm.



If your on a date,and you dont pull out a chair. Does the woman have a right to walk out,and not be considered a rude/childish bytch? If you dont open the car door does she have the right to waste your time/gas money and go home? Then have the right to think she "acted accordingly":mjlol:?


Yes those things are considered gentlemenly things to do. But there are plenty of good men who may not know better,and men who may just forget from time to time. Adults know how to communicate their requirements.

Not checking your phone through the course of a date on the other hand isnt even a thing in 2023. Im willing to say majority of people dont turn they phone off during a date. Theres just the expectancy that your not on it the entire time.


So yes,expecting the world to know your uncommon ass boundaries that most people dont have,is very myopic. If we all worked like naecissistic lunatics,society would fall into chaos. Leaving a date without telling anyone is widely considered rude as hell though. Call me what you like,im indifferent and righteously unnafected by lies:respect:
 

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Reminds me of a time I told this chick to meet me at TGIF at 5. She come calling me at 5:15 talking about “im sorry im running late”. I said “ No problem I’m headed home” hung up and blocked her. My time too valuable
 
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