I want you to be my girl....after only 2 dates

[HoloGraphic]

Man you guys keep a nikka sane. I've been seeing this girl for a year now and I thought we'd make it something. Just the opposite happened. We're still friends. But your right, commitment is that something special for a guy. I been way too giving in the last few years and it's left me with nothing. Thankfully, its not too late to turn the tables. I just hope I get this job.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You want honesty, Ma? For most men in our age range 20s - 30s, or atleast the man women actually want to date (Winners/Men of value), the only perks to being in a relationship is steady sex. We don't need your emotional support or thoughts on life, we don't need to hear about how your days is or who is pissing you off at your workplace, nor do we need to hear about who the fukk up of your family is or how you wish you still hung out with some of your friends.

Don't get me wrong, we might grow to like (AND EVEN LOVE ) you later on down the line, but at the beginning you're just the p*ssy we no longer have to negotiate for

So you just gonna ignore my question & go on a rant? ok.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

So you just gonna ignore my question & go on a rant? ok.

Read between the lines, genius

 

[Ronnie Lott]

You want honesty, Ma? For most men in our age range 20s - 30s, or atleast the man women actually want to date (Winners/Men of value), the only perks to being in a relationship is steady sex. We don't need your emotional support or thoughts on life, we don't need to hear about how your days is or who is pissing you off at your workplace, nor do we need to hear about who the fukk up of your family is or how you wish you still hung out with some of your friends.

Don't get me wrong, we might grow to like (AND EVEN LOVE ) you later on down the line, but at the beginning you're just the p*ssy we no longer have to negotiate for

But see this is where it gets tricky. Dudes wana keep smashin that new chick without commitment for as long as we can. That sex with no strings attached is

But after months of smashin raw, she's givin u dome, u eatin the p*ssy and all kinds of wild shyt like y'all are in a relationship. She is gonna hit u up with the inevitable question of:

"So what are we now, and where is this goin?" Y'all don't understand how many times a chick has hit me up with that speech

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Even if he wants it?

Its still a bad idea. Y'all don't even know eachother. The dude could have 5 baby mamas, he coulda just got out of prison, he could be a sex offendor, you don't even know a person after only 2 dates

 

[Ashley Banks]

Read in between the lines, genius

None of it answers my questions tho you're talking about dudes not caring about me because they're 20-30 and all I wanted to know was why you think a man shouldn't be asking for a relationship even if he wants one. if you were going to be rude, you could've just ignored me.

Its still a bad idea. Y'all don't even know eachother. The dude could have 5 baby mamas, he coulda just got out of prison, he could be a sex offendor, you don't even know a person after only 2 dates

I understand not doing it after 2 dates, I'm talking about him saying a man shouldn't be asking for a relationship at all.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

None of it answers my questions tho you're talking about dudes not caring about me because they're 20-30 and all I wanted to know was why you think a man shouldn't be asking for a relationship even if he wants one. if you were going to be rude, you could've just ignored me.




I understand not doing it after 2 dates, I'm talking about him saying a man shouldn't be asking for a relationship at all.

It all depends on the vibe of the relationship. I guess I don't see a real problem with a guy askin a chick to be in a realtionship. But I have never done it. I've tries to stretch out the "dating phase" for as long as possible.

 

[NY's #1 Draft Pick]

i had some dude trynna date me after a one night stand.. i was like

It's ur fault .... What u do to that man?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Damn, you nikkas play hard to get worse than these hoes.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Damn, you nikkas play hard to get worse than these hoes.

It's not about playing hard to get, its about being honest with yourself. If guys had a choice between smashing a chick whenever he wanted and NO commitment (fukk whomever else he wants) vs. Still getting the puss but having to be monogamous, What do you think most guys are picking?

 

[innocentdevil]

If you like the person enough then go for it...I started a relationship with someone I knew for 3 days, and it lasted almost 4 years

 

[MikelArteta]

If you like the person enough then go for it...I started a relationship with someone I knew for 3 days, and it lasted almost 4 years

Your a girl though

 

[innocentdevil]

Your a girl though

He asked me

What is comfortable for one guy to do may be uncomfortable for the next

 

[Turbulent]

None of it answers my questions tho you're talking about dudes not caring about me because they're 20-30 and all I wanted to know was why you think a man shouldn't be asking for a relationship even if he wants one.

what we're trying to say is, maybe the dude who wants a relationship after two dates should explore why he really "wants" one. chances are it has to do with low self esteem. if he figures out it has to do with low self-esteem issues, maybe he should solve those at first and then see if he still wants a relationship.

 

[blackslash]

*reads this threa*
no wonder good black women dnt want nothing to do wit us