what about me?
I want to have sex by next Friday
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what about me?
you too...guaranteed
Freedman
Choppers For Karate Nggas
"Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart."
"You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line."
Good luck
jk
I'm def about to add these to my war chest.If you got the right charisma and can get them to laugh, you can easily use cheesy pick up lines to as icebreakers when macking on random broads
TheDarceKnight
Veteran
I'm gonna actually attempt to answer this. First off, assuming you cum too early, the last thing you want to do is put your mind elsewhere. If you stay present and in the moment, your body will be relaxed and you'll do better. Make sure to keep taking deep breaths. It's natural to take short and shallow breaths, but when you do, it causes your body to be more tense, which is more likely to cause your brain to send the signal to cum. Back in the caveman days, you never knew if a lion was gonna rip your head off while you were fukking, so it was important to be able to cum quick if a fight or flight scenario happened. So calm your breathing.
You can look up all the crazy techniques that you want, and it's important to have good technique, but that will come with time. The most important thing is to just tap into female sexual psychology. You can stroke missionary and give them multiple orgasms if you tap into the right mind set. Women want to be dominated by men...alpha males. Don't ask her if you can switch positions, or anything like that. Rhythm of powerful thrusting and also clitoral stimulation will get them to cum. The rhythm is key.
Tell her what you want her to do, or better yet, just move her where you want her to be. If she wants to be in control from time to time, that's okay, but always be leading the overall action. If you want her on top, pull her on top of you. Obviously don't be rapey or do anything she's obviously uncomfortable with, but if she digs you, and you're laying it down, throw her around a bit, talk dirty (not too crazy if it's your first time fukking) but you get the idea.
Then the other half is just throwing in some emotional talk and movement. If you mix that domination and emotion in there together, she will come back for more sex every time. Obviously you don't have to say "I love you" or anything like that. But let her know how good she feels, compliment her body, make eye contact, smile at her, and have fun.
An example of mixing the 2 would be like, say you want to pull her hair while you're hitting it from the back, right? Instead of just reaching up and grabbing her hair (grab close to her head, not at the bottom of her hair) and then pulling on it. Stop thrusting or slow down, and if you're holding her hips, just run your hands slowly up her body, shoulders, neck, and then grab her hair firmly and start speeding up again. That dynamic drives most women crazy, and there's so many little ways to do it.
Don't over compensate lack of a stroke game by becoming an expert foreplay guy. It's great to be good at that, but women still want to be fukked properly. So as far as actual "stroke game" advice, you can try a basic tantric sex idea. It's pretty simple. Basically pick a position where you're in control (any variation of missionary or doggy should work fine) and think 10 strokes. Go shallow on the first 9, then go deep on the 10th stroke. Then go 8 shallow and 2 deep. Then go 7 shallow and 3 deep. Don't stop in between each 10 strokes, but just keep count in your head. By the end you'll be going deep on all 10 strokes and she'll be going crazy. Then you can start all over or do something different, etc. It's only 100 thrusts or so, so it won't take that long, but that's always a fun one.
I dunno. Perfect practice makes perfect. Gotta get some reps in. Just keep fukking and you should keep improving!
You dropped knowledge right hereI'm gonna actually attempt to answer this. First off, assuming you cum too early, the last thing you want to do is put your mind elsewhere. If you stay present and in the moment, your body will be relaxed and you'll do better. Make sure to keep taking deep breaths. It's natural to take short and shallow breaths, but when you do, it causes your body to be more tense, which is more likely to cause your brain to send the signal to cum. Back in the caveman days, you never knew if a lion was gonna rip your head off while you were fukking, so it was important to be able to cum quick if a fight or flight scenario happened. So calm your breathing.
You can look up all the crazy techniques that you want, and it's important to have good technique, but that will come with time. The most important thing is to just tap into female sexual psychology. You can stroke missionary and give them multiple orgasms if you tap into the right mind set. Women want to be dominated by men...alpha males. Don't ask her if you can switch positions, or anything like that. Rhythm of powerful thrusting and also clitoral stimulation will get them to cum. The rhythm is key.
Tell her what you want her to do, or better yet, just move her where you want her to be. If she wants to be in control from time to time, that's okay, but always be leading the overall action. If you want her on top, pull her on top of you. Obviously don't be rapey or do anything she's obviously uncomfortable with, but if she digs you, and you're laying it down, throw her around a bit, talk dirty (not too crazy if it's your first time fukking) but you get the idea.
Then the other half is just throwing in some emotional talk and movement. If you mix that domination and emotion in there together, she will come back for more sex every time. Obviously you don't have to say "I love you" or anything like that. But let her know how good she feels, compliment her body, make eye contact, smile at her, and have fun.
An example of mixing the 2 would be like, say you want to pull her hair while you're hitting it from the back, right? Instead of just reaching up and grabbing her hair (grab close to her head, not at the bottom of her hair) and then pulling on it. Stop thrusting or slow down, and if you're holding her hips, just run your hands slowly up her body, shoulders, neck, and then grab her hair firmly and start speeding up again. That dynamic drives most women crazy, and there's so many little ways to do it.
Don't over compensate lack of a stroke game by becoming an expert foreplay guy. It's great to be good at that, but women still want to be fukked properly. So as far as actual "stroke game" advice, you can try a basic tantric sex idea. It's pretty simple. Basically pick a position where you're in control (any variation of missionary or doggy should work fine) and think 10 strokes. Go shallow on the first 9, then go deep on the 10th stroke. Then go 8 shallow and 2 deep. Then go 7 shallow and 3 deep. Don't stop in between each 10 strokes, but just keep count in your head. By the end you'll be going deep on all 10 strokes and she'll be going crazy. Then you can start all over or do something different, etc. It's only 100 thrusts or so, so it won't take that long, but that's always a fun one.
I dunno. Perfect practice makes perfect. Gotta get some reps in. Just keep fukking and you should keep improving!
I def need to bring a honeydip over Friday. Rep coming.
TheDarceKnight
Veteran
You dropped knowledge right here
I didn't realize you were a virgin. Biggest thing is really stay in the moment. 2 surprising things could happen. You COULD actually not get hard, that's pretty common. It just means you're nervous, and thinking. Don't over-think it. I mentioned dominance, emotion, variety (different positions, etc, but most of that usually comes during extended sexual relationships) but staying present and in the moment is maybe the most important thing you can do the first time.
Just let yourself go and enjoy it for what it is. It might not be mind blowing sex, but just stay in the zone with her and have fun. The other thing that might happen, is that you actually might NOT be able to cum. That was the case with me first couple times. It just wasn't the same feeling I was used to (my hand), and that mixed with the annoying condom, and being nervous, just made it so I kept going and eventually I just faked it...
I don't know if I would suggest that, but if that does happen, just tell her it has nothing to do with her (girls will think it's their problem if you can't cum) and if you don't cum the first time, you probably will the 2nd or 3rd. If you cum before you want to, you'll probably be ready to go again soon, so just play with her or go down and her and keep her aroused until you're ready to go again.
I dunno...just enjoy it man. Sex is amazing, but the first few times I was like "This is the big deal?"
But then a few times later I was like
okay I see now! Does she know you're a virgin, just curious?
Invisible Man
The Real Huey
And me?
I'm gonna actually attempt to answer this. First off, assuming you cum too early, the last thing you want to do is put your mind elsewhere. If you stay present and in the moment, your body will be relaxed and you'll do better. Make sure to keep taking deep breaths. It's natural to take short and shallow breaths, but when you do, it causes your body to be more tense, which is more likely to cause your brain to send the signal to cum. Back in the caveman days, you never knew if a lion was gonna rip your head off while you were fukking, so it was important to be able to cum quick if a fight or flight scenario happened. So calm your breathing.
You can look up all the crazy techniques that you want, and it's important to have good technique, but that will come with time. The most important thing is to just tap into female sexual psychology. You can stroke missionary and give them multiple orgasms if you tap into the right mind set. Women want to be dominated by men...alpha males. Don't ask her if you can switch positions, or anything like that. Rhythm of powerful thrusting and also clitoral stimulation will get them to cum. The rhythm is key.
Tell her what you want her to do, or better yet, just move her where you want her to be. If she wants to be in control from time to time, that's okay, but always be leading the overall action. If you want her on top, pull her on top of you. Obviously don't be rapey or do anything she's obviously uncomfortable with, but if she digs you, and you're laying it down, throw her around a bit, talk dirty (not too crazy if it's your first time fukking) but you get the idea.
Then the other half is just throwing in some emotional talk and movement. If you mix that domination and emotion in there together, she will come back for more sex every time. Obviously you don't have to say "I love you" or anything like that. But let her know how good she feels, compliment her body, make eye contact, smile at her, and have fun.
An example of mixing the 2 would be like, say you want to pull her hair while you're hitting it from the back, right? Instead of just reaching up and grabbing her hair (grab close to her head, not at the bottom of her hair) and then pulling on it. Stop thrusting or slow down, and if you're holding her hips, just run your hands slowly up her body, shoulders, neck, and then grab her hair firmly and start speeding up again. That dynamic drives most women crazy, and there's so many little ways to do it.
Don't over compensate lack of a stroke game by becoming an expert foreplay guy. It's great to be good at that, but women still want to be fukked properly. So as far as actual "stroke game" advice, you can try a basic tantric sex idea. It's pretty simple. Basically pick a position where you're in control (any variation of missionary or doggy should work fine) and think 10 strokes. Go shallow on the first 9, then go deep on the 10th stroke. Then go 8 shallow and 2 deep. Then go 7 shallow and 3 deep. Don't stop in between each 10 strokes, but just keep count in your head. By the end you'll be going deep on all 10 strokes and she'll be going crazy. Then you can start all over or do something different, etc. It's only 100 thrusts or so, so it won't take that long, but that's always a fun one.
I dunno. Perfect practice makes perfect. Gotta get some reps in. Just keep fukking and you should keep improving!
what if you have a small dikk. no homo
TheDarceKnight
Veteran
LOL. It doesn't matter. Men have been conditioned by porn to think that women want HUGE dikks, and women do enjoy big dikks. Most women would prefer slightly bigger than average over smaller than average, but honestly, unless you're working with an inch or 2 you should be able to satisfy her. Girth is usually more important than length.
The majority of a woman's nerves for sexual stimulation are around the clit, so it's not like there are a ton of nerves around her cervix, which is what you might hit if you go balls deep, etc. It's about pressure, not depth. Girth will put pressure on the walls from the inside and press up against the internal nerves of the clit.
TL;DR - You don't have to have a giant dikk. If you're average (4.5-6 inches long by 4.7 inches girth) you're more than equipped to put it down. Forget worrying about your dikk size, just learn how to fukk properly. Real men don't worry about how big their dikks are, they learn how to put it down.
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
"Hi "(If you don't make that face when you say it, it will not work)
"I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?"
"Do you have a map? I'm getting lost in your eyes."
"Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart." ( Replace heart with P*ss and make this face. It'll work better)
"Your body is 65% water and I'm thirsty."
"You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line."
"I bet you $20 you're gonna turn me down." (This one is guaranteed to work, she can't turn you down or else she'll have to give you 20 bucks)
Good luck
jk
