As a supervisor I do my best to avoid those confused individuals. Especially the confused men. If I do have to interact with them it's very short. But my demeanor will most of the time do the trick, and them folks know not to come around me with that bullshyt. I got some of my old Marine Corps shyt as my office decor which gives a "certain" signal. But I swear I be wanting to just punch one for being all extra and shyt coming to work dressed like Prince and shyt