domestic house cats got the biggest body count for predatory animals in North America. and they are just killing for fun mostly. cats are arrogant. they will offer you food when they kill lowkey to show you they can fend for self and contribute. their nature is not submissive. they are opportunistic survivors. outdoor domestic cats can have a range of several households they visit and this is well documented. none of this is a weakness. you describe them as if they are needy and pardon you for not understanding the nature of a feline. you talking about polar opposite personality types between 2 animals both having a different approach to survival. One has confidence in solitude and the other needs constant company.
Katy Purry used to get lit up as a kitten, getting on my tables,counters , and leather couch. When company comes over and tries to hold her on the couch, she’s trying to get down hurriedly.
on a housecat, brehettes 
It worked.
Can’t stand a cat on counters, she had to learn the house rules
