Its a phrase we hear a lot during our lives sometimes we hear it said to other people sometimes to ourselves directly
Anyone who says something like that is an extremely ungrateful, entitled person who I’m sure has manipulated plenty of people into thinking the opposite about them. In their story they’re the victim and no one is ever there for them.
In reality, these people always ask for help. Always. Nobody is “helping “grown ass adults multiple times unless it’s a person who has asked atleast once. Even if they didn’t ask directly they ask in a roundabout way which is even worse and at that point counts as manipulation. Mainly they “won’t ask” so that they could pull the “I never asked for help” card later on.
Let’s grant the argument tho, let’s say they didn’t
Ask at all, directly or indirectly. That makes them look even worse, the fact that they didn’t ask but a person who genuinely cared about you still helped
You and apparently was the only one to do so.
Don’t even get me started on the people who pull the “don’t help me if you’re going to throw it back in my face” nonsense.
Be fr. I’m in my 30s now. Are there some people who help you strictly because they want some leverage over you? Sure, but that’s few and far in between and is EASY to spot. I’ll say for the average person that type of help/manipulaton is usually a man doing it to a women for some type of sexual favor.
For the other times, people are not helping you to throw it back in your face later nor is someone ever throwing it back in your face to begin with. 9/10 if someone is reminding you of everything they done for you it’s because you’re moving foul/shady and what you’re doing is clearly hurting them
But you, being the manipulating POS that you are, refuse to acknowledge that and instead pretend that they’re in the wrong and claim that their help was never genuine.
The only people who aren’t genuine are the people constantly asking others for help. They’re all users. All of them. Every single one.
Anyone who says something like that is an extremely ungrateful, entitled person who I’m sure has manipulated plenty of people into thinking the opposite about them. In their story they’re the victim and no one is ever there for them.
In reality, these people always ask for help. Always. Nobody is “helping “grown ass adults multiple times unless it’s a person who has asked atleast once. Even if they didn’t ask directly they ask in a roundabout way which is even worse and at that point counts as manipulation. Mainly they “won’t ask” so that they could pull the “I never asked for help” card later on.
Let’s grant the argument tho, let’s say they didn’t
Ask at all, directly or indirectly. That makes them look even worse, the fact that they didn’t ask but a person who genuinely cared about you still helped
You and apparently was the only one to do so.
Don’t even get me started on the people who pull the “don’t help me if you’re going to throw it back in my face” nonsense.
Be fr. I’m in my 30s now. Are there some people who help you strictly because they want some leverage over you? Sure, but that’s few and far in between and is EASY to spot. I’ll say for the average person that type of help/manipulaton is usually a man doing it to a women for some type of sexual favor.
For the other times, people are not helping you to throw it back in your face later nor is someone ever throwing it back in your face to begin with. 9/10 if someone is reminding you of everything they done for you it’s because you’re moving foul/shady and what you’re doing is clearly hurting them
But you, being the manipulating POS that you are, refuse to acknowledge that and instead pretend that they’re in the wrong and claim that their help was never genuine.
The only people who aren’t genuine are the people constantly asking others for help. They’re all users. All of them. Every single one.
