I need me an educated Black woman

[MeachTheMonster]

It's hard to find a good, humble, down to earth, educated woman of any race. Usualy the good ones have been taken long before they can call themselves "educated" if your 30 running around with a degree and no mate then you are probably one of the undesirables

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I been thinkin' about this player lifestyle and finding me a good one. These hoes keep holdin' me back though.

That's exactly what it is. You can't find a good one while you're still fukking hoes.

 

[opulence]

I been thinkin' about this player lifestyle and finding me a good one. These hoes keep holdin' me back though.

Mad about what? I am educated...

 

[↓R↑LYB]

yall nikkas should stop being so fukking lame

you might get you one lol

Real shyt, most these nikkas are worst than the bytches who complain about there not being any good black men. It's the same problem, they're upset that the men they want don't want them back. Then they get bitter and delusional and start saying shyt like "All these nikkas are gay and only want white women "

But instead these nikkas start to deceive themselves and say shyt like black women aren't attractive, black women never wanna cook, never are faithful, never suck dikk, any other bullshyt reasons they can think of to hold together their already fragile and crumbling self esteem. Just look at the threads these nikkas make on here and compare it to the threads bitter bytches make on other forums

At the end of the day though, it comes down to how desirable you are. You got a bunch of average, overweight 30-50k earning nikkas complaining about not being able to get a dime who'll cook and suck dikk everyday. Why would that broad want your lame ass?

 

[Petty Crocker]

Real shyt, most these nikkas are worst than the bytches who complain about there not being any good black men. It's the same problem, they're upset that the men they want don't want them back. Then they get bitter and delusional and start saying shyt like "All these nikkas are gay and only want white women "

But instead these nikkas start to deceive themselves and say shyt like black women aren't attractive, black women never wanna cook, never are faithful, never suck dikk, any other bullshyt reasons they can think of to hold together their already fragile and crumbling self esteem. Just look at the threads these nikkas make on here and compare it to the threads bitter bytches make on other forums

At the end of the day though, it comes down to how desirable you are. You got a bunch of average, overweight 30-50k earning nikkas complaining about not being able to get a dime who'll cook and suck dikk everyday. Why would that broad want your lame ass?

How do you know how desirable you are? Can you give me an example of how some men categorize women in terms of desirability?

 

[cleanface coney]

Real shyt, most these nikkas are worst than the bytches who complain about there not being any good black men. It's the same problem, they're upset that the men they want don't want them back. Then they get bitter and delusional and start saying shyt like "All these nikkas are gay and only want white women "

But instead these nikkas start to deceive themselves and say shyt like black women aren't attractive, black women never wanna cook, never are faithful, never suck dikk, any other bullshyt reasons they can think of to hold together their already fragile and crumbling self esteem. Just look at the threads these nikkas make on here and compare it to the threads bitter bytches make on other forums

At the end of the day though, it comes down to how desirable you are. You got a bunch of average, overweight 30-50k earning nikkas complaining about not being able to get a dime who'll cook and suck dikk everyday. Why would that broad want your lame ass?

lol hell yea thats my conclusion

these nikkas just lame

if you a young black nikka on his job you shouldnt be complaing about the quality of girls out here

put yoself around quality females and they love you

esp if you a real cat and not some entitled lame like these nikkas on here

i can tell these nikkas get dissed in real life

they complain about hoodrats and prolly couldnt even handle a hoodrat

couldnt even get witta black woman
only black woman they prolly know is they momma n sisters

i know nikkas like this in real life
only fukk with white girls

and them nikkas lame as fukk they scared of black p*ssy

 

[Ohnoits]

It's hard to find a good, humble, down to earth, educated woman of any race. Usualy the good ones have been taken long before they can call themselves "educated" if your 30 running around with a degree and no mate then you are probably one of the undesirables

This is true. These ladies get locked down young.

1. For several reasons: they are less likely to be into playing the field/casual sex, so they get into committed relationships with people of equal/comparable success economically and education-wise.
   
2. These men tend to be older than them because older men economic/education wise tend to fit the profile they are looking for...or they met this guy in grad school/college and he realized he better lock it down.
   
3. These guys then marry them because hell--why would he go out and look for a bunch of hos because already sowed his oats, or he doesn't want to give up a good thing.

It's the kind of woman that is never single or available unless you were there the day after the break up, and when she's with someone she's with someone that got her sooo good taking care of the money, emotions and putting a ring on it before she can change her mind because they know exactly what they've got.

Those women get locked down young mostly by older more successful men, and the ones who stay single usually have some type of personality defect that they haven't identified yet.

Look at all those sexy hot video hos that get in their 30s and 40s and never had a long term relationship/always someone's mistress, can't get anyone to marry them. It's because even if they are successful no man of his right mind with that much going for him is going to put a ring on that ratchetness.

Women watch Sex in the City and actually think that men want women who act like that

 

[Chris.B]

no such thing as a black woman without attitude.

better start looking at them becky's

 

[↓R↑LYB]

How do you know how desirable you are?

Society has a pretty general rule for men and women to guage attractiveness.

Women: be attractive, in shape, be a good cook, and have the typical motherly features

Men: be attractive, in shape, be financially secure, and be a leader/visionary in the relationship.

The women I've dated all told me I match what they want out of a man. I know what I want out of life and I go for it. Plus I have a good career and am working on growing my company.

Can you give me an example of how some men categorize women in terms of desirability?

Can't speak on everyone but my criteria is this:

Attractiveness - obvious. No one wants to date an ugly broad
Personality - do we get along. I don't do the fighting and arguing BS. Some women need that "drama." That type of broad ain't for me.
Baggage - kids, lots of fukked up relationships, daddy issues, etc
Financial state - I ain't trying to wife a broke ass broad with tons of debt and a dead end job
Goals - does what she want out of life match up with what I want outta life
Extras - can she cook, sew, enjoy being a "home maker", does she get along with my friends, etc.

But knowing what you want is the easy part. Anyone can say they want the pretty chick with a fat ass who loves to cook , swallow, makes 100k, and has the best personality on the planet. The real issue most nikkas have is that type of has LOTS of options. She can pick and chose who she wants to be with. She'll never have a shortage of men, and the cream of the crop will be gunning for her. And that's what pisses most these dudes off. They all want that type of broad but they don't cut the mustard. They're average at best, yet want the best of everything.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

lol hell yea thats my conclusion

these nikkas just lame

if you a young black nikka on his job you shouldnt be complaing about the quality of girls out here

put yoself around quality females and they love you

esp if you a real cat and not some entitled lame like these nikkas on here

i can tell these nikkas get dissed in real life

they complain about hoodrats and prolly couldnt even handle a hoodrat

couldnt even get witta black woman
only black woman they prolly know is they momma n sisters

i know nikkas like this in real life
only fukk with white girls

and them nikkas lame as fukk they scared of black p*ssy

I remember once I got on coli-chat and actually seen that nikka the Nigerian and a couple of those other cats I was like no wonder these nikkas always complain about hoes. They're just unbelievably corny. No fukking redeeming value at all. I went out like last month with some friends at this group outing and there was this one lame ass dude trying to talk to all the chicks there. I'm sitting back watching dude like damn breh just take your L and call it a night. The jokes he was making, the shyt he was saying. The way he was dressed all screamed ima loser. I was like I'm 99% sure this dude gotta fukk black women blog somewhere talking bout how black women wouldn't give him any play and how incredible he really is lol.

LMAO now that I think of it I went to a vodka bar a while back and was talking to some older black women and just cracking jokes and being stupid. This cac I knew came up and tried to use his normal cac humor and the one chick leaned over to me and said "I don't mean to be rude but your friends jokes are really lame." I was like

I probably coulda fukked the one chick (she was a cute petite broad, but I've had my fill of cougars). Glad I left when I did cause I met my GF that same night

But hey what do I know, I'm just another lost nikka.

 

[Ohnoits]

Society has a pretty general rule for men and women to guage attractiveness.

Women: be attractive, in shape, be a good cook, and have the typical motherly features

Men: be attractive, in shape, be financially secure, and be a leader/visionary in the relationship.

The women I've dated all told me I match what they want out of a man. I know what I want out of life and I go for it. Plus I have a good career and am working on growing my company.



Can't speak on everyone but my criteria is this:

Attractiveness - obvious. No one wants to date an ugly broad
Personality - do we get along. I don't do the fighting and arguing BS. Some women need that "drama." That type of broad ain't for me.
Baggage - kids, lots of fukked up relationships, daddy issues, etc
Financial state - I ain't trying to wife a broke ass broad with tons of debt and a dead end job
Goals - does what she want out of life match up with what I want outta life
Extras - can she cook, sew, enjoy being a "home maker", does she get along with my friends, etc.

But knowing what you want is the easy part. Anyone can say they want the pretty chick with a fat ass who loves to cook , swallow, makes 100k, and has the best personality on the planet. The real issue most nikkas have is that type of has LOTS of options. She can pick and chose who she wants to be with. She'll never have a shortage of men, and the cream of the crop will be gunning for her. And that's what pisses most these dudes off. They all want that type of broad but they don't cut the mustard. They're average at best, yet want the best of everything.

And she probably makes up less than 2% of women regardless of race. Women on average earn so much less than men, so even if she has the career aspect on point you then have to weed out the ones who have the look you want--even lower--considering we as a society/culture encourage attractive females of young ages to focus on their looks and not developing their brains...

I mean, there's a reason why there is a dumb blond/attractive female stereotype. People aren't just born dumb or dumb as children. Attractive females are told everyday in media, through their peers, through adults that they should focus on that as the most important part of their character. They then start neglecting other things because they learn they can gain power and influence from their appearance.

This leads attractive women away from studying seriously and getting interested in the very things that can make them money at the end of the day like science, computer engineering etc (this is why women like Eve Torres are extremely rare, not only do most women not go into engineering because we culturally gear our females towards studying the humanities, but she's attractive and most women who look like her aren't going to take studying seriously because they learn that their appearance is more important). On another note-Trish Stratus is another good example of a rare gem too, pre-med, fitness model, wrestler then successful business woman. Was always locked down by a male.

You have a very low chance of finding a woman like that because they rightly have high expectations of a male partner and what they can offer them, because not only do they expect the man to be on the same level, they expect them to respect their potential as an individual. To be real, a lot of men have issues with that. My cousin's parents divorced over that. Husband could not handle his wife earning more money than he did and that led to problems when they started talking about houses to purchase investments etc, she was the one with the bigger bank roll and they couldn't figure out how to compromise their issues without belittling the other.

Honestly, now that I think about it I don't think most men want a woman like that. I think that they believe they should want that, but in reality once you get it you realize it's more work than you thought. I think most men want a beautiful dime that will be dependent on them, I know a few females who were successful in their jobs had MBAs etc and started dating men of equal status who wanted them to quit their jobs after they got married and that deaded the relationship Women who work like that don't just want to give up their careers. They have the same pride and investment in it as you do.

They could be facing the similar problem but on another side of finding someone who will accept their work schedule/life and not expect them to change when things get serious.

Whole other set of problems.

 

[Binary]

You guys hate on black women so much, its really sad.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

And she probably makes up less than 2% of women regardless of race. Women on average earn so much less than men, so even if she has the career aspect on point you then have to weed out the ones who have the look you want--even lower--considering we as a society/culture encourage attractive females of young ages to focus on their looks and not developing their brains...

I mean, there's a reason why there is a dumb blond/attractive female stereotype. People aren't just born dumb or dumb as children. Attractive females are told everyday in media, through their peers, through adults that they should focus on that as the most important part of their character. They then start neglecting other things because they learn they can gain power and influence from their appearance.

This leads attractive women away from studying seriously and getting interested in the very things that can make them money at the end of the day like science, computer engineering etc (this is why women like Eve Torres are extremely rare, not only do most women not go into engineering because we culturally gear our females towards studying the humanities, but she's attractive and most women who look like her aren't going to take studying seriously because they learn that their appearance is more important). On another note-Trish Stratus is another good example of a rare gem too, pre-med, fitness model, wrestler then successful business woman. Was always locked down by a male.

You have a very low chance of finding a woman like that because they rightly have high expectations of a male partner and what they can offer them, because not only do they expect the man to be on the same level, they expect them to respect their potential as an individual. To be real, a lot of men have issues with that. My cousin's parents divorced over that. Husband could not handle his wife earning more money than he did and that led to problems when they started talking about houses to purchase investments etc, she was the one with the bigger bank roll and they couldn't figure out how to compromise their issues without belittling the other.

Honestly, now that I think about it I don't think most men want a woman like that. I think that they believe they should want that, but in reality once you get it you realize it's more work than you thought. I think most men want a beautiful dime that will be dependent on them, I know a few females who were successful in their jobs had MBAs etc and started dating men of equal status who wanted them to quit their jobs after they got married and that deaded the relationship Women who work like that don't just want to give up their careers. They have the same pride and investment in it as you do.

They could be facing the similar problem but on another side of finding someone who will accept their work schedule/life and not expect them to change when things get serious.

Whole other set of problems.

100% true. But even of you ignore the financial aspect and find a chick making 40k as a teacher but still has all those other qualities, she's still gonna be locked down quick because she's an attractive women with a great head on her shoulders.

At the end of the day, the main issue most these nikkas have IMO is that these women have options. They don't like the fact that they CHOSE not to fukk with them. And the same goes for the women. They get upset that nikkas are exercising the option to stick their dikk in someone else. I had a jump off tell me once "man, America sure has fukked black men's mind up. You guys just can never wanna get married and never wanna settle down with a good thing." LMAO she ain't realize she was my jump off for a reason

 

[cleanface coney]

I remember once I got on coli-chat and actually seen that nikka the Nigerian and a couple of those other cats I was like no wonder these nikkas always complain about hoes. They're just unbelievably corny. No fukking redeeming value at all. I went out like last month with some friends at this group outing and there was this one lame ass dude trying to talk to all the chicks there. I'm sitting back watching dude like damn breh just take your L and call it a night. The jokes he was making, the shyt he was saying. The way he was dressed all screamed ima loser. I was like I'm 99% sure this dude gotta fukk black women blog somewhere talking bout how black women wouldn't give him any play and how incredible he really is lol.

LMAO now that I think of it I went to a vodka bar a while back and was talking to some older black women and just cracking jokes and being stupid. This cac I knew came up and tried to use his normal cac humor and the one chick leaned over to me and said "I don't mean to be rude but your friends jokes are really lame." I was like

I probably coulda fukked the one chick (she was a cute petite broad, but I've had my fill of cougars). Glad I left when I did cause I met my GF that same night

But hey what do I know, I'm just another lost nikka.

if you a black man thats on his job
even if you kinda corny you should be getting bytches
alotta nikkas dont know they lane tho
they want pornstars but they cant handle a lame

even the girls on here lame to me. i dont believe them they pictures the way they be talking on here
it dont add up

that one chick kenyadoll if thats her i like her she sexy as fukk

You guys hate on black women so much, its really sad.

yea man thats what i said
but remember these dudes on here prolly dont even be around black women
they scared of black p*ssy lol

 

[Liquid]

You guys hate on black women so much, its really sad.

Its a sad sight to see on here man. I literally read through these threads like