"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

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Dating =/= marriage.

When it comes to marriage, attraction itself is not sufficient. It's even behind other characteristics. You can be attracted to a nut job :yeshrug:


People need to realize this. I preach this, attraction while it might seem like a big deal initially only goes sofar after marriage. Now being a slob or not having any sense of style might put a strain on a marriage and then lead to problems but over all if you care for someone enough to marry them they'll probably always be attractive to you.



When you looking to settle down, looks should not be the 1st thing on your list of requirements.
 

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Women don't realize that brehs are settling for them as well.:childplease:


I'm sure breh would prefer a Melissa Ford looking chick over her. :mjlol:


Men just happen to be more realistic and flexible with our standards:manny:
Honestly, if I had only one choice between her or Melissa, I would keep both of them close, try to sleep with both, she which one is more compatible and go from there. I met too many dimes who isn't worth steak dinner. Even if I vibed with them at a house party in my younger years of course.

Honestly, emotional attraction matters most to me as well but you can't be button ugly. I need to look into your eyes I say, damn I won. If I first look in your eyes and it's not there, it's over. No physical attraction. Sorry.
 

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Why do people act like it's so difficult to find a spouse that is attractive and has a nice personality? As long as standards are reasonable and not too high it shouldn't be that hard.
I swear a lot of these people that keep pushing the idea of looks not mattering or being a low priority are lazy or ugly looking people themselves which would explain their opinion.
 

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People need to realize this. I preach this, attraction while it might seem like a big deal initially only goes sofar after marriage. Now being a slob or not having any sense of style might put a strain on a marriage and then lead to problems but over all if you care for someone enough to marry them they'll probably always be attractive to you.



When you looking to settle down, looks should not be the 1st thing on your list of requirements.

Never understood why style was so important.
 

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Must be that top 20% getting approached.:patrice:
I see older women approach on their own lots of times. Some of them are straight on the prowl. For younger women they usually appear to be with their friends. Like maybe their friends gas them up to go talk to a guy. There's an app, bumble I think, designed for the women to do the approaching
 

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I had a white girl mad at me cause I said I am not attracted to white girls. She asked me about Princess Diana and I was like, she is ugly. She almost cried.

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Princess Diana wasnt even all that tho... :mjlol: most basic white princess ever...
 

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Why do people act like it's so difficult to find a spouse that is attractive

You probably have a reasonable definition of "attractive" like most men do. Now go in the rating threads in The Salon and look at the scores brehettes hand out to men who clearly aren't ugly and have a lot going for themselves :sas2:
 

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I don't know what a ballerina hands is like breh. I know what mines is. They still will break your face like Tommy Hearns.

I kind of wished my hands was bigger though. im jealous cause I wanted my hands to be the size of fukking jackhammers and I got rubber mallets... :sadcam::mjcry: My hands are rough to the touch tho.
 

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You probably have a reasonable definition of "attractive like most men do. Now go in the rating threads in The Salon and look at the scores brehettes hand out to men who clearly aren't ugly and have a lot going for themselves :sas2:
I actually did that yesterday and saw what you're talking about :lolbron:
 
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