"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

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Most people are not well-adjusted.
Lmao! I wouldn't say that. I'm actually optimistic in that I think EVERYBODY has their own hang ups, but most people can function around them or work through them with others.

But our society is becoming more coddling which is dangerous. People are not being encouraged NOT to improve, but to demand that others like them regardless. This creates a lot of cognitive dissonance that's affecting normal healthy adjustment. Because instead of being willing to improve people just want what they want and think they are entitled to it.
 

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80 (probably 90) percent of the "brehs" on here are anti social losers. they likely dont pull anything but their hands. and even more likely they arent even black. i will continue to insult them and say what i say because i dont care about being "an easy target" on the internet. these are people in different states and possibly different countries. consideration of feelings is hardly necessary, that goes for both me and them :yeshrug: i'll have another pic up for them to "target" soon enough, stay tuned :obama:
:lolbron:but hear you are posting with us losers on a daily basis

:coffee:what makes you so special?
 
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But to be on topic here: Thats a fukked up article title and fukked up thing for that woman to say. I think thats the same site that posts shyt like "Here is why I cheated" and " I am lesbian.Why did I fukk a man" or " I got raped but it wasn't so bad". Clickbait ass site.
 

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Lmao! I wouldn't say that. I'm actually optimistic in that I think EVERYBODY has their own hang ups, but most people can function around them or work through them with others.

But our society is becoming more coddling which is dangerous. People are not being encouraged NOT to improve, but to demand that others like them regardless. This creates a lot of cognitive dissonance that's affecting normal healthy adjustment. Because instead of being willing to improve people just want what they want and think they are entitled to it.

I feel like this is more of a truth for women than men. If a man has trouble getting a date he is given constructive criticism on how to improve his dating life. Just look around the web and on this very website to see this truth. It is even so in the 'real' world. Men or told to lose weight, hit the gym, make more money, and improve your mouthpiece. This isn't necessarily the case with women.

Women are told by their female counterparts that the right man will come along - or don't settle. You don't really hear that much from women when it comes to self improvement geared toward finding a partner. Men on the other hand - if they are perceived as being 'sorry ass men' who cant get a date are laughed at until they self improve in needed areas of their lives.
 

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In case they run a social media check duh. You've never heard of kids getting their scholarship taken back cuz of stuff they said on twitter? I don't want my face associated with anything I may have posted on here, especially since I didn't use an anonymous email address. If i gave consideration to negative comments, id have to give consideration to the positive ones as well, and i have pms of several ppl telling me im beautiful. This is all virtual tho so all in all both mean nothing. As I told previous poster tho, don't worry I'll be back :smile:


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