Aceofspades404
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"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"
- Thread starter Poitier
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i have no idea, but what you define as being a loser is subjective, and i see way more men in the gym threads trying to improve their bodies vs. female posters. also, you guys blow complaints that normal men have. for instance, ya'll call @BocaRear a loser when dude is just a normal dude in college with a bright future ahead of him.
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BedRoomI'z
All Money In
Its a front.
I'm sure he has to deal with this kinda shyt everyday. I have seen women marry out of necessity and security and believe me,it ain't pretty. A woman's true feelings come out sooner or later
Knowing the money angle he probably has over her, he think he can deal.
Boy, oh boy
I wish these dumb hoes stop giving yall ammunition with these Huff/Tumblr articles. Just shut the fukk up and do you in silence
chief_keef_stan
lil' haitian nikka
and then the avi went away
KettttI don't assume they do. But I think some men are unrealistic in their expectations of women under this excuse of "u tryin to act like a man." Ur labeling perfectly normal human attributes that are pretty much universal to humans regardless of gender as masculine and then dismissing women for acting...human.
Physical attraction is important to women and it should be. Nobody wins when people are encouraged to date those they aren't attracted too. That's how resentment and unhappy relationships start. People have to be equally yoked and feel mutual attraction.
I think the real problem is overemphasis on any one attribute of a mate, to the extent that all other important attributes (ya know the ones that will actually sustain a good relationship) are ignored.
And also there's a lack of understanding that attraction sometimes builds over time and comes from more than just looks.
But my point is that's not just something Western women are exclusively guilty of. Westerners period, male and female, are actively and simultaneously encouraged to downplay our own flaws while feeling entitled to desiring the best physical specimen out there regardless of if that best looking person is actually good for us or even compatible with us. Which makes me think our society is nuts.
Also @Poitier, I've noticed something else curious about some people. A lot of people aren't trying to date others for natural reasons like sex or bonding. A lot of people are so damaged that they are dating for validation. Internalized feelings of rejection or being ignored, feeling like chicks or dudes didn't give u enuff attention...these have become real catalysts for these damaged folks to date others. Thus they oftentimes have crazy ass unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex. Why? Because these people are dating out of vengeance or a need to prove something to the ghosts of those who hurt them. Other well adjusted people don't have these issues, so they value partners on a wider array of attributes instead of using dating as a way to validate their egos.
For some people, love and sex are about impressing other people or getting back at the ones who ignore them instead of connecting with someone.
For some people, love and sex are about impressing other people or getting back at the ones who ignore them instead of connecting with someone.
they aren't
No one said to date people you are not attracted to
The problem is that Western women have a very narrow range of what they deem attractive
BTW attraction definitely isn't as important as you make it out to be. The vast majority of the world does not consider it when choosing a spouse and they tend to have a better culture of marriage.
Quite frankly, the person you were attracted to for the first 5 years you met them may not be the apple of your eye years down the road. It should not be a tier 0 priority when choosing a spouse....not to say it shouldn't be considered at all.
Most people are not well-adjusted.
Her husband lawst, If he'd just get his ass in the gym he'd could pull a chick badder than her, and probably more appreciative. 
lmfaoooo @Always-Right Liggins she changed her name 
Awww
Hey sweetheart, welcome to the cold world. Expectations are great until they aren't met.
What child you knew ever said, "When I grow up in want to be senior director of blah blah blah."
No! Never. They want adventure, they want to reach for the stars, then th2 reality of money and people change things ... and bring you back for more the heaven's to earth.
Hey sweetheart, welcome to the cold world. Expectations are great until they aren't met.
What child you knew ever said, "When I grow up in want to be senior director of blah blah blah."
No! Never. They want adventure, they want to reach for the stars, then th2 reality of money and people change things ... and bring you back for more the heaven's to earth.
I think ya'll are stereotyping Western women with convenient internet themes.
I could easily do the same and say all western blk dudes are only attracted to lite-skinned Instagram hoes but that's unreasonable. If u can understand that blk men have a myriad of different types they are attracted to then you should be able to see that the same is true of blk women. I swear stereotypes kill.
The truth is people are projecting the popular narratives of a loud minority onto an entire demographic. And because nobody is actually interacting with the opposite sex, a lot of this is based off other people's stories. I hear the same phrases again and again. But repetition doesn't make it real.
There are no real universals that women or even men like. Human attraction is waaaaaaay more complicated than that.
Also I think attraction is very important but it isn't merely based off looks the way it's been emphasized in recent years.
Attraction is made up of damn near millions of factors: the way somebody smells, their body language, how comfortable they make you feel, their voice, the ease of their actions, their energy (is it dynamic, is it subtle, is it overflowing, is it restrained), their intellect, their sense of humor, common interests, ability to understand you, sex appeal, sensuality, the way they flow and move, their laughter, the levels of their happiness...and on and on and on.
But men and women in our society oftentimes overlook partners with these attributes because we are socialized to care about looks. I think it's part of a larger plan to sabatoge human relationships period to decrease the world's population but that's just my theory.
Encourage people to pick partners based off shoddy foundations like whether or not she got "free-spirited p*ssy" or he has a nice dyck print and watch the world burn.
Meh. Just my thoughts.
Aceofspades404
Superstar
lmfaoooo @Always-Right Liggins she changed her name
