I know women like to change men but Let's discuss these females that like "projects"

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You know.. the type that like discovering the diamond in the rough types. Those who's dream is to turn the bum into CEO material.

I'm always amazed by these. You know the type: From the suburbs and went to an Ivy league schools and got 5 different degrees but feels she needs a hood dude in her life.

Now if you're into hood dude that is perfectly fine. You like what you like. But these are not. They get said hood dude only to turn him into something he is not:

I bring this up after meeting a second cousin's boyfriend this weekend. Dude is mad cool but knowing her parents and friends I just know homie is gonna be like a fish out of water. He's just too hood and she's trying to change these things about him but i can tell it's getting on his nerve. But she seems to really be into him so oh well.
 

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some women like raising kids.

and besides... dont you nikkas and white kids say it alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the time here?

":to: women LOOOVE these bum ass thug nikkas! They KNOW they aint no good!"

Part of the allure of that (if they ain't just looking for a good time) is

1. trying to get the unobtainable

2. They p*ssy is so much better than the other broads he fukking that it made him change.

to her it's just like raising a kid.

and believe me. if she succeeds, she's gonna go out and find the old him.

yes, yes. Im sorry. If you think you changed your man just because he got a job and more to lose, then you lost. Have fun wondering day in and day out why he's ttreating you like that and if he's cheating.
 

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If you can't even change on your own, what's the point?

I'm not here to change anyone. I look at some flaws as positives. I don't expect anyone to change for me.
 

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I think a lot of women have fell victim to the save-a-bro complex at one point in time. I don't think it's necessarily a "project" but there is potential there. Sometimes people just need that extra motivation and or push to get started in the right direction.. this could go for both men and women.
 

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I think a lot of women have fell victim to the save-a-bro complex at one point in time. I don't think it's necessarily a "project" but there is potential there. Sometimes people just need that extra motivation and or push to get started in the right direction.. this could go for both men and women.

Yeah thats true but i see a a lot more among women. Could be their nurturing nature too.
 
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