I just got rejected from a girl AFTER getting her numbers.....

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Happened to me once....this super thick chick I met in Japan. I started talking to her while waiting for my supervisor to scoop me up from orientation. Found out she was from the same city as me back home and everything. My supervisor showed up and I told her bye. As we was pulling off in the truck she flags us down and gave me her number. Im like :obama: considering i didn't think i had a chance anyway bit turns out, it was the wrong number and I tried to talk to her at a club later on and she wouldn' even acknowledge me:bryan:

Crazy shyt
 

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Shes a good chick. Didnt waste your time. She couldve strung you along but didnt.

Charge it to the game and KM.

Cosign!! She was very mature about it. She let the OP know his moment of truth and gave him enough respect to let him know that she was not interested. I wish all women was upfront and cared enough to let their intentions known from jump.

To the OP..

She did nothing wrong but neither did you do anything wrong. You did what was expected from men who is interested in a woman and went for yours. The young lady respectfully declined. No harm no foul. Since you stated that you have a good record with the ladies, then this situation should not bruise your ego too much.

Charge this experience to the game and move on
you will be alright.
 

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Yeah I realized like 10 years ago not to take digits as anything other than quick ways to confirm in person meetings.

Chicks give that shyt out like skittles.

Since they don’t know how a guy will react to rejection, doing it over the phone is safer.
 

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Females do this a lot

Humble yourself it just happened to you


They really do, I use to manage a restaurant and the girls stayed giving customers their numbers and then then talk shyt about how they would never date him.

I would always argue:

:mindblown: Then why the fukk would you give him your number????


:usure: Because I didn’t want to be mean

:childplease:
 

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At least she spoke back/ gave more than a one word sentence. Some of us don't have they luxury.:yeshrug: At times it's like I'm speaking to all wall or I get rejected before asking her out.
 
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They really do, I use to manage a restaurant and the girls stayed giving customers their numbers and then then talk shyt about how they would never date him.

I would always argue:

:mindblown: Then why the fukk would you give him your number????


:usure: Because I didn’t want to be mean

:childplease:
It was meaner to give them false hope:mjcry:
 

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All things considered that is a respectful, honest, constructive text. Either that or the ghost, or the run around. I prefer directness and honesty.

lol at people advising harsh ass one words tetxs, tell her thanks, you appreciate her honesty.
 

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I have you beat. This woman I work with and I had planned to go to her place after work and smash. I hit her up to let her know I'm leaving and she told me that she had a meeting and that she'd be leaving a little later. Cool. No big deal. Random meetings and conferences running over the limit are normal where we work. Then she said she's having drinks with friends that she'll meet me about an hour later. That's when I knew she had other plans. We can't be in the same room at work. It just gets awkward. She doesn't even look at me.
Just keep breaking the ice and play it cool. I've kinda been there
 
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