I just accepted the fact that I'm going to die single and lonely

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Damn Breh, Thats gotta suck....


I've never had that thought one day in my life... :ld:

I'm just picky :manny:

And I talk to girls but I'm honestly not giving them a fair shot....I think Imma have to change that in order to not be single and lonely :ld:
 

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In my mind, when dudes date a girl just because of her looks, hes doing it for the same reason women buy shoes and purses: Their trying to impress their friends more than they are trying to be happy.

No one dreams of falling in love with a fat slob or a pock marked faced animal, but at some point you gonna think about what you actually want in a partner and think of that shyt first.


For example, do you want a care giver? Someone who would put your best interest before you, without you even asking? Someone who would take care of you, thinks the idea of taking care of her man should involved cooking and trying to make him happy?

If so, that shyt doesn't always come in the prettiest packaging, but it'll work just as well.

This is so true...I'm conjuring what I want in my mind instead of dating and getting to know someone....I need to just start dating and see where it goes...instead of shunning every bytch with a flaw...its my own fault :snoop:
 

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This is so true...I'm conjuring what I want in my mind instead of dating and getting to know someone....I need to just start dating and see where it goes...instead of shunning every bytch with a flaw...its my own fault :snoop:

Let me guess...

You see a chick across the bar/wherever...she looks good to you. You then spend the next 10 minutes thinking about who she is, what she likes, what music she's into, etc. You then think about the 'look' your presenting at that moment, ie. the shoes you wore, what your dressed like (preppy/business scrubs) and start deciding whether you match up well enough with the look she's presenting and if she looks like the type who would find your current look attractive.

Then your spend another 5 minutes imaging what it would be like to date her, what kind of dates you'd have, if she'd turn into a bytch or if she'd love you for who you are, etc.

So you move a little closer, trying to get a better look.

Then you notice that her eyes seem like they could be a little too close together and you didn't like the earring she has on, which you didn't notice before. You also see her friend is wearing some cheap looking jeans and seems a bit trashy and beneath you.

Suddenly, your perception changes, and you decide that this girl probably wouldn't like the same things as you, and your friends wouldn't want to play wing men to her friends and in general shyt would end badly and you'd rather not go through all that work just to hurt her feelings in the end.


Did I about cover it?
 

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Let me guess...

You see a chick across the bar/wherever...she looks good to you. You then spend the next 10 minutes thinking about who she is, what she likes, what music she's into, etc. You then think about the 'look' your presenting at that moment, ie. the shoes you wore, what your dressed like (preppy/business scrubs) and start deciding whether you match up well enough with the look she's presenting and if she looks like the type who would find your current look attractive.

Then your spend another 5 minutes imaging what it would be like to date her, what kind of dates you'd have, if she'd turn into a bytch or if she'd love you for who you are, etc.

So you move a little closer, trying to get a better look.

Then you notice that her eyes seem like they could be a little too close together and you didn't like the earring she has on, which you didn't notice before. You also see her friend is wearing some cheap looking jeans and seems a bit trashy and beneath you.

Suddenly, your perception changes, and you decide that this girl probably wouldn't like the same things as you, and your friends wouldn't want to play wing men to her friends and in general shyt would end badly and you'd rather not go through all that work just to hurt her feelings in the end.


Did I about cover it?

Pretty spot on :leon:

And yeah, I do judge by clothing :snoop:

And if the bad seems too bad for me, I also get kinda shook as well :noah:
 

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No offense, but you sound like a hoe. With all due respect of course.
 
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